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8 Dec 2005

Quote by mr filth
i've just had 4 slices of marmite on toast and very nice it was too are we still talking about marmite ?

I adore marmite.....feeling peckish now, need something to fill me up :twisted:
i recommend the marmite on toast with a cup of tea lol

Mmmm lovely yes! That will do the job.....followed by chocolate :D

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by hardon2001
just as bad as people actually turning up and they are nothing like you imagined or the photos they have given you !!

That has happened too! :shock: :shock:
though these days I try and see someone on cam and never meet without phone chat first.
is that a roundabout way of asking me to get playing on cam for you berksbex?....ya only had to ask... wink

LOL
I said 'before I meet someone' :wink:

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by 34fun
just as bad as people actually turning up and they are nothing like you imagined or the photos they have given you !!

That has happened too! :shock: :shock:
though these days I try and see someone on cam and never meet without phone chat first.

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by mr filth
i've just had 4 slices of marmite on toast and very nice it was too are we still talking about marmite ?

I adore marmite.....feeling peckish now, need something to fill me up :twisted:

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by Katieftv
Bex, If they give you notice as soon as they know they can't make it fair enough. If they don't then they simply can't be trusted. If they sound genuine give them a second chance anybody can foul up and deserve a second chance except for the chances and arse holes of course, Hmmm. Best wishes to you and I hope you are feeling better about it. Katie xxx

Thank you Katie, and yes I know it can't be helped, everyone has problems at times and I have had to cancel dates in the past, though always with lots of notice and not several times with the same person. This wasn't the first time let-down though by same guys and also was VERY last minute (when I could have arranged something else.....though still time :twisted: ) It's just that I like them, but in the long run I don't think I will hold my breath if they say they can meet again rolleyes

......and it's not easy to work round my circumstances either (hense the rant lol)
Maybe I should change my deoderant :P

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8 Dec 2005

Hellooo and welcome fumanchu :happy: :rose: :happy:

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by dundeefella
Baby
i almost choked

was he big then? :twisted:
or were you deep throating first time round :P

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by hardon2001
reading this thread has somewhat detered me from a long craved fantasy ive had myself to give oral to another guy
it might take a while after reading about dundeefellas experience before i want to go ahead and carry out the act myself
if i do however and the lucky 'guinea pig' is on here, do me a favour
DONT CALL ME BABY
'cock hungry little slut' will suffice...

LOL! well don't leave it too long before you try, we all have to see where our limits lie and what we fancy in reality (as fantasy can be a totally different thing).
DONT CALL ME BABY

:rotflmao: that Maddison song will naver sound the same again! :shock: :shock:

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Awwwwww Bex
Crap happens so did they ring and cancel or just no show. If former up to you how many chances but if latter well it's a don't touch with bargepole if they try contacting you again (my philosophy - but like you am a soft touch and tend to fall for some of the sob stories )
Steph
Play with us lot in here this afternoon instead :wink: :lol:

Yes, they let me know and to be fair the story seems true and not entirely their fault but I'm just feeling pissed off that's all....should call this Bex moan/rant thread really :P I even have a babysitter and they are like gold dust!
As for playing with 'you lot' hell yeah, pop over to my place :twisted:

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
if someone just don't turn up they never get another chance with me
if they let me know b4 hand i will give a second chance but if the cancel twice they don't get another unless its someone i know

Well these are people I know....but still not good and a last minute let down too. Ignore me, just feeling crap lol :P
I agree with you about people that I havent met, they rarely get another chance. But I am a right softy sometimes, a bit of a doormat wink

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by hardon2001
some young guy sucked my cock last night and he was sooooo bad at it my wife had to take over
just kidding

haha the real one could be along any minute! :shock:

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8 Dec 2005

Well?
Even if they are nice guys how many chances do you give them?
Personally I think Iâ€™m a soft touch, I seem to just say, ah well never mindâ€¦â€¦when maybe I should be telling them to take a hike.
can't you tell I have just been left in the lurch?

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by dundeefella
79

ahh ok thought you were going to say 35 confused

:P
And good for you for giving it a go!
biggrin

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by dundeefella
a few more yoga classes and i may snog u during!!!

I know I'm going to regret asking this, but how old was this 'old' man?
and I bet he is younger than me
:P

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
marmite is tops nothing better than a marmite cover cock to suck on icon_ thats it thats you off my 'to do' list

Don't mind Marmite on my cock - just not in my mouth...... yeeeukkk
So am I still a possible "To do", NN? confused

yeah but you gotta snog me after
LOL now that's the REAL test....do they snog you after wink

if they don't snog me after, they don't get a second go :P

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by Baggy Boy
You don't hop into a car at 17 and driveas well as a formula one driver now do you?

You might not, but all men do. lol

:lol: :lol:
or so we think
LOL they THINK they can drive as well as a fomula one driver :lol: :lol:
First BJ I ever gave I just licked the tip like a lolly......no touching or anything, he got bored and shagged me :lol: now there's a tip wink

No, we CAN all drive like formula one drivers Bexie. What kind of lolly was it? :lol: :lol:
hey Baggy, how's your wrist action? :P
erm well it wasn't a large lolly but the flavour wasn't bad......I think I was a very crap shag though :lol:

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8 Dec 2005

Quote by dundeefella
or the fact halfway thru he called me baby

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
haha great! That cheered me up! :P

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7 Dec 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
You don't hop into a car at 17 and driveas well as a formula one driver now do you?

You might not, but all men do. lol

:lol: :lol:
or so we think
LOL they THINK they can drive as well as a fomula one driver :lol: :lol:
First BJ I ever gave I just licked the tip like a lolly......no touching or anything, he got bored and shagged me :lol: now there's a tip wink

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7 Dec 2005

Quote by dundeefella
i know
but i also know all the names i've called people who have given me terrible blow jobs ( and u thought i was a nice person!!!!)
Would hate to think someone thought i was rubbish
ps - having never done it - dont know if i'd like it or not ( what do u do - i'll go with that!)

What did you think made a terrible blow job? because if you can avaoid doing that, you maybe half way there.....also I want to know, I need the tips too :twisted: lol

As for people thinking you are rubbish, no one does anything great first time they try. You don't hop into a car at 17 and driveas well as a formula one driver now do you? You have to practice smile

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7 Dec 2005

I woke up to Imagine (on my clock radio, remember them? lol) and got dressed while more Lennon songs were played and they were still on when I brushed my teeth.....I turned to my then partner (now VERY much ex!) and said 'God, you would have thought he had died the way they keep playing his songs today!' rolleyes

plonker

Nice idea for a thread Luke smile

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6 Dec 2005

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Great stories.....will get back to you with mine :P

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6 Dec 2005

A very long time ago I had sex in a nightclub, before they built night clubs to have sex in. rolleyes

Also on a couch trip full of pensioners (well oral but still sex and yes my playmate was under 60!) lol

In the sea, now that doesnâ€™t sound very exciting, I mean itâ€™s been done lots of times. But this was Bognor Regis at Easter! Bit cold, not easy either as the waves kept pulling us apart. :shock:

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Feklar
Very true Berksbex... I shouldn't people out of a job.. they might want mine then.

They are welcome to mine! rolleyes

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Feklar
thanks Berksbex...
Most people I know study when looking at the orginal verisons of the Bible...
Maybe I am hanging out with the wrong crowd...
I feel I might need to be corupted some more anyone want to help?

Ahh well I can't read Greek....but plenty of translators out there, why do them out of a job wink

and there are other ways to study than looking at the bible :P

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Riff Raff
If you had to choose one forever more, which would it be: Loveless sex or sexless love ?

Right now (not long out of a relationship) I would choose to have loveless sex because I have love from my family and I believe that even in sexual relationships where there is no love as such, there can be affection and friendship which I enjoy. I can live with having just that for now. smile

I might change my mind in time though, because Iâ€™m contrary. :P

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
ice pie should start looking scared!

Personally, I'm terrified of one-eyed monsters.
But my one-eyed monster knows no fear! rotflmao

:lol: :lol:

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Feklar
ok and I thought I knew about it...
How come you studied it... normally its only cause you are looking at the orginal translation of certain scripts.

Only touched on it a little which is why i had heard of it, I studied history and this came up in a module I was taking on sex (believe it or not lol). Most of the course centred on 'self-love' and theories of masturbation, repression and morals. Have a read of some Foucault or Michael Mason if you are interested in the subject.

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Feklar
I think the ancient greeks had a better idea on this...
They had seven different words for the word love.
One was the love of god, another the love between two friends, another the love for your family, and one for the love between husband and wife. (I can't remember the others ok)
Love is completely to sex.
Just as making love to someone is different to having sex with them.
I tell my friends I love them when we are really close, they know that it means I care about them it is different to telling the person you are 'in love' with that you love them

Yep, copied and pasted cos I'm lazy :P I studied this a little....but a while ago confused

Eros: Sexual Love. Physical Love evoked because of Physical Attraction or an expression of love, physically.
Ludis: Flirtatious, Teasing Love. This type of love is associated with a teen-age kind of love. Game playing often resulting in a fleeting type of quick romance. Ludis is an outward expression of love. It is urging in a tantalizing way to excite another without intending to satisfy their desire aroused. Furthermore, is most often intended to arouse another to physical attraction, which can lead to Eros "sexual Love". It is not the same as to woo or embrace in love.
Philo: Brotherly Love. Love that is generated and/or related because of a common bond. Love that is banded together in unity and cooperation, with like interests and for mutual benefit. Love working toward a common goal.
Storge: Friendship Love. Friendship love, involving respect and concern for another personâ€™s interest. This love contains more companionship than excitement. Itâ€™s root is in: "To Store Up".
Pragma: Logical Love. This is for people who worry whether their partner wood be a good parent. It is the kind of love that is based on shared interests and common backgrounds. This love is influenced by a system of principles, and the application of reason, and deductions to common experiences that describe and define relationships among propositions in terms of implications, contradictions, and contrariety. It is an expectant love that is accustomed to itâ€™s own doctrine and theory. Pragma Love is: Unification though common goals and interests.
Mania: Smothering Love. Possessive, dependent, jealous love. Mania is a trademark of "Fatal Attraction love ." It is a mentally excited, excessive and persistent love. This type of love is like an obsession or craving. It can lead to exaggerated feelings and excessiveness.
Agape: Divine Love. Self-sacrificing love. Altruistic love that is experienced by people willing to do things for another person with no expectations. Precious, beloved, and esteemed love.

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Ice Pie

Back to the main question then... no, sex and love are not the same. Sex can sometimes be an expression of love, but don't count on it, and don't confuse an orgasm with a promise of lifelong commitment.

So true!
Though it can get confusing out there sometimes :P
If you're confused, I'd be happy to demonstrate. :lol2:
Wait til the next munch and i may take you up on that :twisted:
ice pie should start looking scared!

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6 Dec 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Back to the main question then... no, sex and love are not the same. Sex can sometimes be an expression of love, but don't count on it, and don't confuse an orgasm with a promise of lifelong commitment.

So true!
Though it can get confusing out there sometimes :P

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