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blueeyes6969
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 54
Straight Male, 58

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My 2p worth on this one.
I suppose if you want to be out in public, having a romantic meal, having a walk together then it would be looks - as long as you don't speak.
If all you did was talk on the phone or on line etc, then yeh, personality.
But how boring would that be. So I'd go with having both. 'Cos when you're in love thats just the way it is. Just so nice to be with someone you fancy the pant off, in your own opinion is great looking and has the ability to have that "click" that can make you smile with the most stupidest of comments and who's every word you actually listen to.
So yes, I'm gonna vote for both cos it's all down to the individual choice and how you interpret looks and personality.
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I was quite addicted to e bay at one point, I bought HLB :shock: no not that one the car that was the other end of the country :doh: more 10 inch spot lights can you could fit on the front of the biggest of trucks (they wre cheap) 2 motorbikes and loads of other useless tat I had no need for redface

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It's just so true. You flip onto it, don't want anything, not looking for something - then have a :idea: and start looking for it. Before you know it Posty Pat ( other delivery services are available )is knocking at your door with yet more pointless, un-needed crap that you can put in the garage with the rest of the boxes marked " Car boot sale ". :kick:
Love it. biggrin
What is it Lassie ? Stuck in a well you say :!:
Maybe I need to hit the vodka again and then it'll all come clearer :shock:
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Apologies, as I've been to work and haven't really got the idea behind this thread.
Is it a " why did the chicken cross the road " thread ? Maybe I've just missed the point !

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There was me dimissing this thread as a drunken stumble into the cafe when you came along and made me think that maybe it's a test/riddle!
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No, but I'm sure we can work this one out confused :?:
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I would just like to announce in the public domain that I really really can't stand eBay.
"I really can't stand eBay"
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Thank you, I feel better now.
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Gambit

Oh come on, it ain't all that bad. Not sure what it is that gets your back up though confused
Had one bad experience but their customer service department resolved it within a couple of days, so sorry I can't jump on the band wagon on this one.
Yipee !!!
Happy Birthday Carrieann
You're probably sick of all the birthday kisses, but if I was there right now I'd give you one. redface
Enjoy hun, have a drinkies for me !
Quote by Freckledbird
Got to be a mixture of both but personality is by far the dominant factor.
Another important factor is whether that person is turned on by me - bit selfish, I know but it's a real turn on if it happens and, obviously vice versa.

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Hmmm, totally agree but the world would be a little boring if we were all the same.
It still has to be along the lines of " I'm new here ..... if you want a shag tonight ....." or the boy racer type who types in mobile phone txt language mad
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I am taking notes and will be putting everything I dont see in here in my profile so keep the thoughts rolling in :rascal:

But how can you improve on perfection itself hun rolleyes
Agree there - definately a hard one :gagged:
Has to be someone who is so far up themselves they make it seem like they'd be doing you a favour by letting them shag you. It's fine being confident but when it turns out that they think they're God's gift ...... then that's enough for me. evil
So, after she has stopped laughing, do you think her first question maybe " Was is good for you too ? "
Same goes here though, May need to keep a low profile as I played this at about am - wonder if the neighbours think it was us ! :shock:
Apologies, as I've been to work and haven't really got the idea behind this thread.
Is it a " why did the chicken cross the road " thread ? Maybe I've just missed the point !
A couple of years back now I saw an employee of a supermarket park his car near the petrol station thinking that as it was closed and the time was past 11pm, that it would be a safe bet.
Little did he know that there was a delivery tanker due, who reversed into the guys little pride and joy mini cooper and squashed it through a brick wall making it just a little smaller than it already was. The tanker driver claimed the car shouldn't have been parked there.
Pleased you rembered funny how things come back to you when you are sober. I need to find a new toy shop and get the address of your chemist. We had a great laugh. Hope to see you both soon.
P.S i will make sure i bring my beatch.
Hi Jimmy and welcome to The cafe - unforunately your waitress has phoned in sick so it's self service rolleyes Enjoy biggrin
Well, we have nothing to say but thanks thanks and thanks. To a great bunch, birthday boy, organiser of the year Sarah and we could go on all day. Just reading the bits above brings back some kind of memories ( a few redface ones too ! ), but brilliant to meet all.
Right at this moment one of us :censored: ( who can't read maps or give directions ! ) is :sleeping: and has done for the last 60 miles - bless ! The other one ( who currently doesn't have to shave a body part due to a new waxing technique ) has a hangover from hell and feels like I've been doing this banghead for about 10 hours.
Apologies Lavas as we didn't see you this morning, but then again everything did have a red tinge to it and was a little out of focus.
What a great night and loved everyone there. Got the feeling we talked a load of :bs: most of the time and that's the last time you ever invite us out in public again but loved it.
Well, I'm off on a campaign now to find out who Woody Woodpeckers neighbour is and then give some barmaid a piece of my oh so hurting mind.
We still laughed about some of the sackless things all the way home.
Thanks to all again.
kiss
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2 minutes. Did anyone watch Supernova last night?

A SuperNova ! That's nothing, should see Mr BE6969's fantastic Corsa ! smile
BTW - Being blonde just means you don't have to think before you speak rolleyes
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Ooooo, you mean like Brownie patches for particular skills, achievements and personal qualities biggrin
Blimey, 'V' word patches :bounce: :bounce: I'm up for that lol
:scared: bolt

Something also tells me DF, that you're going to appear in this thread quite a lot :twisted:
Oh well, here we go :doh: Does the phrase - open can - lot of worms escaping come into it.
There's going to be so many echos on this, you can just see everyone now racking their brains on this one rolleyes
I think I'll just sit back and watch this one very carefully while I stitch my " two melons" badge on my t-shirt. wink
Really ! Well Happy Birthday to you ( won't break into song for obvious reasons)
Will have a drinkies for you ( maybe something stronger than Creosote though )
Enjoy
passionkiss
Sorry Steve, just saw the thread title with the word "stiff" in it but got side tracked redface
It's more of scared of the bill at the end of it for me evil
I don't do demands and not very many requests either come to that.
You can usually get a feeling from people, that's why I like to get to know them first. Saying that I do have pics on here and my avatar although small ( and I'm not bragging there lol ) you can vaguely see my face, and it don't get any better than that regardless how much I spend in that well know girly make up catalogue.
I've had more than my fair share of show me a pic of ..... people. They can take it or leave it. I understand about the fact that you don't really want to advertise in your local neighbourhood but then again most of my nice friends on here live quite a few miles away and are great mates, so to them, no prob if they ask. But to a perfect stranger - I doubt it very much as there are a lot of dark sheep out there in inet land who are just pic collector - but thankfully not all.
Been giving the question of why are you here as much thought as I do to most things, taking into account lifestyle, home life, personal, social, want and needs and the fact that I'm blonde and thinking isn't really mt thing. And I came up with the conclusion of .....
dunno
Shaz, I really think you're digging yourself in deep here. Every day you out-do your previous "sleep counter" - you're going to run out at this rate !
But can't wait till Fri - looking forward to you either burning the words "woo whoo" on my monitor even when it's switched off or something 3D popping out during the night ! biggrin
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I got the little blighters till 3pm every day then I go to work..... mad

:giggle: Makes up for all the weekends you bugger off and leave me to look after them :rude: :lol2:
I still have to put up with the little "angels" at night though :x
Is that an offer - got this weekend covered but next weekend .......... lol
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Blueeyes
In a way you are lucky, at least they are only spending money!! confused
Yesterday I spotted a son selling dad's car (because mummy doesn't like it) on a certain well known online auction site!! :giggle:
I guess neither dad or mum going to be too happy about that method of increasing pocket money.
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Oh thanks Sarah ! :shock:
Just glad they have no idea of this site and see that post - be a nice surprise to come back to only to find an empty house and have to buy my own stuff back on that well known "sell your crap for cash site " :cry:
Mental not for weekend: Keep house keys and disconnect PC's. lol