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bolton_boss
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
0 miles · Barnsley
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Quote by berksbex
but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!
Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
bex, why did you have to live down south!
It's a small country
that it is! :wink: is it alright for a PM?
Quote by berksbex
but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!
Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
bex, why did you have to live down south!
Quote by berksbex
For me, age is not the first consideration when looking to have fun. However, I did realise recently that I have not been with a man older than me in about 20 years! Not on purpose, it has just happened that way. They have ranged from just a year younger to 20 years younger and I can honestly say that the age is not a factor in why I liked being with any of them. Young men have their good points, but so do older men.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
or 22!
LOL well like someone said earlier in this thread, I sort of mentally draw the line at someone who is too near to the age of any of my kids.....and that is pretty close! :P But if I knew and liked the person then it wouldn't be too much of an issue, it's just that I tend not to encourage it too much
Young men can be visually very beautiful, but I am often left with the doubts such as 'what the bloody hell does he see in me?' :lol:its good to see that you at least would give me a chance then. well maybe not me but you know what i mean. as for the 'what the bloody hell does he see in me' comment, i think a lot of people on here think that but personally cant see why. i personally wouldnt speak to anyone about trying to meet up if i didnt find them attractive, even if its not a physical attraction, its not all down to looks you know!
Quote by berksbex
For me, age is not the first consideration when looking to have fun. However, I did realise recently that I have not been with a man older than me in about 20 years! Not on purpose, it has just happened that way. They have ranged from just a year younger to 20 years younger and I can honestly say that the age is not a factor in why I liked being with any of them. Young men have their good points, but so do older men.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
or 22!
to be honest, i wouldnt play so much if i wasnt getting paid for it! i know its not a lot but it sort of means i have to play so i dont let anyone down. obviously i do really enjoy it and it keeps me fit but its a big commitment and can get in the way of other things. ie social life, swinging!
Quote by Colts23
the older ladies seem forget about the "other" good points the young men have.....
nimble fingers from playstation abuse........and..good mouth work from being on a bloody mobile all day :shock:
on the other hand,,,no bloody stamina now in the younger generation due to those exact reasons above,,,,,always sitting in the house,,,doing nothing :P
sarcasm by the way :P
cough cough! i play semi-pro football 4-5 times as week! thats one of the reasons my social life goes to pot! ha! i know what you mean tho!
Quote by treasurechest
im not too bothered either way as long as the are old enough and i get on with them. saying that, i do have a thing for older women however i seem to get rejected from older women for being too young for them! strange really! or is that just an excuse that is less harsh than 'i dont like you'! i think thats the main reason i got into swinging because i could try different things. still no luck with an older woman tho! :cry:
I suspect your getting rejections because we find it impossible to have sex with anyone young enough to be our sons. Its just a barrier and for many of us "older women" we cant cross it!!
yeah i can understand that i suppose, frustrating tho as you can imagine. but as essexlady said its down to maturity. ive been told so many times that im mature for my age which is nice but then it comes back to my age. i totally understand that but it would be nice to be treated as an equal sometimes. i think its all down to personal preference really and if you can break that certain barrier once in a while.
im not too bothered either way as long as the are old enough and i get on with them. saying that, i do have a thing for older women however i seem to get rejected from older women for being too young for them! strange really! or is that just an excuse that is less harsh than 'i dont like you'! i think thats the main reason i got into swinging because i could try different things. still no luck with an older woman tho! :cry:
hi all, looking for a female to partner me on friday to selecta in greater manchester. i havent been before but people keep telling me to go so thought id give it a bash!
picture before meet would be handy but not essential, not looking for a model but sexy outfit is a must! lol!
let me know,
jon
xxx
picture before meet would be handy but not essential, not looking for a model but sexy outfit is a must! lol!
let me know,
jon
xxx
Quote by debz4u.
come one then, what have i got to lose!
i'd like to swing with...
debbiewebs since she started this post and those photos simply do it for me
ginger_jo
naughty_wigan_couple (female only tho so i know its a no go)
redmancgirl (lovely and from bolton)
angel_chat (same again)
debz4u
little gem
lynnmarie68uk
bouncyx
sarah
oh and sexyjo, if i remember rightly is really nice!
oh and playfull jo since writing sexyjo has reminded me!
bloody hell thats a long list! and im more than sure ive missed some off of there!!!
i better get to work!
I see we are all cupid regs hehe on the list apart from 1 or 2 are you trying to say something :shock:
weird cos i havent been yet since i dont have a partner, it must just be destiny! any offers are welcome tho! hehe!
Quote by Debbiewebs
well BiWelshMinx would be on my list but i hear men are out of the equation! blonde would be on there but never really spoken to you!
BoltonBoss ................... hello babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx lol
how you doing!
lol ............. now we have to stop !............ Debbiewebs is gonna be cross with us for hijacking her thread
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hey np i do it to other post all the time.... it would be like calling the kettel black
fair enough.... how you doing?! so the names sam is it?! ha!
come one then, what have i got to lose!
i'd like to swing with...
debbiewebs since she started this post and those photos simply do it for me
ginger_jo
naughty_wigan_couple (female only tho so i know its a no go)
redmancgirl (lovely and from bolton)
angel_chat (same again)
debz4u
little gem
lynnmarie68uk
bouncyx
sarah
oh and sexyjo, if i remember rightly is really nice!
oh and playfull jo since writing sexyjo has reminded me!
bloody hell thats a long list! and im more than sure ive missed some off of there!!!
i better get to work!
i'd like to swing with...
debbiewebs since she started this post and those photos simply do it for me
ginger_jo
naughty_wigan_couple (female only tho so i know its a no go)
redmancgirl (lovely and from bolton)
angel_chat (same again)
debz4u
little gem
lynnmarie68uk
bouncyx
sarah
oh and sexyjo, if i remember rightly is really nice!
oh and playfull jo since writing sexyjo has reminded me!
bloody hell thats a long list! and im more than sure ive missed some off of there!!!
i better get to work!
Quote by Happy Cats
is it me or are the photo ads getting worse?! some right shockers in there!
e.g. cum fill me up!
i mean, who answers to these ads?!
ha, made me laugh anyway. if you ever need cheering up go and look at the photo ads section!
Just looked at yours, thanks for that!
:rotflmao:good call!
