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bolton_boss
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
0 miles · Barnsley

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Quote by Sarah
I have been known to travel about 250 to 300 miles each way! lol

Sarah, you may have restored my faith!
Maybe it's just me then (hear that violin!). I've tried within an hour and longer in some cases. I don't think it helps that there are loads of timewasting single men on here though.
Age gaps have never been a problem for me either way. I do prefer older women but it's more about how adventurous they are. It's always been a problem for me because of my young(ish) age which is frustrating but something I've accepted as personal preference.
Afternoon all,
Just a quickie (for once! ;o)). I just want to know how far people would travel or be willing for someone to travel to? I'm looming to spread my wings a little further than local to meet a female or couple however when I've started conversation with others I seem to get knocked back instanty (I'm presuming it's not my looks here!) because of distance. I can understand that people get messed around and distance can be the problem but how far would you be willing for someone to travel to you so I can get a rough idea of how far to look. It's never been a problem for me if it's going to be worth the expeience but it obviously is for others. Obviously it's never going to be a definite answer as it's going to be on different factors but I just want people's thoughts on the matter.
xxx
Morning all.
Is there any club in the North West / Yorkshire that has a Thursday afternoon party? I've got an unusual afternoon off so thought I'd try and use it wisely! I'm just not sure if there is one as I never get chance in an afternoon usually.
I'd happily go with a female if they're wanting to go with someone.
J
xxx
Would have done but only just seen this and haven't arranged a meet. Have fun.
xx
Thanks Jo. Do many people go in the day though? I've never been day or night so not sure what to expect! It'd be my first time at any club in fact!
Jon
Hi everyone, is anyone going this Tuesday? I'm in the area for work so thought I'd make he most of it and finally go!
Any female looking for a partner? Would do meet if you prefer.
xx
Quote by sheddy
Thanks for all previous advice. But - if i have a first meet, and i ask the guy to wear a condom for oral, is he going to think I'm a waste of time and leave? Or worse - get annoyed, or make me feel stupid? Sorry to go on but this is putting me off going for it at all. We know (thanks to previous posts) what the health issues are, but when it gets down to an actual meet, whats the guy likely to do? redface

Its your body and mind and your choice of what you do with it biggrin
HERE HERE!!!
If hes a decent enough guy then he'll respect you and what you say, and if he refuse to wear one but I'm afraid you should stand by your decision.
Thats my opinion anyway, you should decide in your mind too.
A Condom! You should always wear protection! Didn't anybody teach you anything! HA! rolleyes
Alright so that one was coming, someone had to say it! confused
Nothing really (unless seriously a condom). Don't know how anybody can wear anything. I get all tangled up in PJs! mad
Quote by sexkittenhfx
on the other hand........i posted in LMU last saturday night as i was at a loose end and didnt get one serious reply! so much for single bi females being the holy grail rotflmao
so it seems LMU doesnt work for male or female?
maybe i should have asked for a shag..... :P

but then you would get total idiots messaging you and wouldn't get anywhere. but if you are at a loose end what can you do! ha!
I did say to someone after sex that she looked a bit manly! Funnily enough I didn't see her ever again! I wonder why?!?! Oops!
Jesse McCartney, who is apparently an American pop singer and actor! Never heard of him!
there are websites out there that you can download homemade videos from im sure.
fairs fair. i do need to get to more munches although i have been using the forum for quite some time now. im known by people off of here but only few that have actually met me, which is fair enough when its your house i would be coming to.
i was only joking about the gossip bit! i do know better than that! and wouldnt have it any other way!
glad everyone enjoyed it tho, hopefully be able to make one soon if you lot will have me! and happy new year.
Happy new year all. So who went to the party in bolton on new years eve? I couldnt make it due to other arrangements but would have loved to be there! Any gossip?!
Quote by eagleweb1
eeekkkkkk i no i have been off line a while and i have had to change me name
but does any one out there no me......... dunno
errrrrrr something to do with spiders lol

id like to get to know you better tho! im smooth tonight! lol!
Quote by berksbex
Nope, not after women.....just their husbands :twisted:

and me! wink
oh yeah I'm after you too :twisted:
oi and where have you been? :P
here waiting for you! :wink: smooth so smooth! ha, maybe not!
Quote by berksbex
Nope, not after women.....just their husbands :twisted:

and me! wink
if anything your the right age, ive found its the other way around - im too young. you might get a problem with some people but have great times with others.
oh and this is my 100th post!!!!