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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire
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Sex God
ok got bored reading the bickering so i'm jumping right in with my tupence worth
i am very lucky to have a wonderfull hubby that yes i bicker with just like you lot do but i feel loved and love him back
we have 2 grown sons that brought us no real trouble but yet did manage to give us both some extra grey hairs we shouldn't have already
we have a roof over our heads that is much smaller than we really need but we kinda enjoy the cosieness if we're honest
we have bills that get paid each month without any difficulty and a couple that we ignore till we really truelly have to pay um
we have jobs that we don't necessarily enjoy all the time but we don't hate them either and they actually pay ok but we'll never be rich
so do i have sucess and wealth
HELL YES
do i play the lottery and cross everything for a win
HELL YES
just because we do ok and feel incredibly lucky to have the life we have does not mean we wouldn't appreciate that bit more
maybe we are greedy but i do know it would be amazing not to ever have to put off those bills we ignore till they really truelly have to be paid it would be amazing to be able to just put the car in the garage when it needed fixing rather than having to wait till pay day it would be amazing to just get up in the morning and not have a feeling of dread when the postman delivers the bills
money doesn't make you happy but it does make life easier for most although i do know not all
i am very lucky to have a wonderfull hubby that yes i bicker with just like you lot do but i feel loved and love him back
we have 2 grown sons that brought us no real trouble but yet did manage to give us both some extra grey hairs we shouldn't have already
we have a roof over our heads that is much smaller than we really need but we kinda enjoy the cosieness if we're honest
we have bills that get paid each month without any difficulty and a couple that we ignore till we really truelly have to pay um
we have jobs that we don't necessarily enjoy all the time but we don't hate them either and they actually pay ok but we'll never be rich
so do i have sucess and wealth
HELL YES
do i play the lottery and cross everything for a win
HELL YES
just because we do ok and feel incredibly lucky to have the life we have does not mean we wouldn't appreciate that bit more
maybe we are greedy but i do know it would be amazing not to ever have to put off those bills we ignore till they really truelly have to be paid it would be amazing to be able to just put the car in the garage when it needed fixing rather than having to wait till pay day it would be amazing to just get up in the morning and not have a feeling of dread when the postman delivers the bills
money doesn't make you happy but it does make life easier for most although i do know not all
Sex God
personally i prefer the average size cock in my experience those that keep shouting about how big their cock is have no idea how to use it give me mr average any day or mr big but modest will do ty using the title VWE is just to boast whereas to use BBW is more to pre warn i don't think you can lump them in the same catagory at all personally
Sex God
i love our country i think it is so stunningly beautifull
the view i get everyday on my way too and from work over nene valley way just makes the journey so worthwhile we r very lucky to live in a county with such lovely countryside
a couple of weeks ago we visited tetbury for a gig and drove down on beutifully glourious sunny day through the cotwolds it was most certainly a great day to be alive it was taking my breath away
we also visited the lake district a couple of years ago and i fell in love with it just driving up the m6 to it i just couldn't stop gasping out loud at its beauty
south coast too i love west bay in dorset is a small fishing village that we used to visit very regularly as the kids were growing up although they have now turned the small harbour into a large marina now so not so sure it would be so quaint any more sadly it was were reggie perrin went into the sea and where they filmed harbour lights and gulliver i believe
fell in love with devon last year have driven through before on route to cornwall but actually stayed on the north coast last year in appledore it was really pretty
tintagel in cornwall holds some special memories for us its breathtaking actually the cornish coast on a whole is just stunning
hope ya have a wonderfull time
the view i get everyday on my way too and from work over nene valley way just makes the journey so worthwhile we r very lucky to live in a county with such lovely countryside
a couple of weeks ago we visited tetbury for a gig and drove down on beutifully glourious sunny day through the cotwolds it was most certainly a great day to be alive it was taking my breath away
we also visited the lake district a couple of years ago and i fell in love with it just driving up the m6 to it i just couldn't stop gasping out loud at its beauty
south coast too i love west bay in dorset is a small fishing village that we used to visit very regularly as the kids were growing up although they have now turned the small harbour into a large marina now so not so sure it would be so quaint any more sadly it was were reggie perrin went into the sea and where they filmed harbour lights and gulliver i believe
fell in love with devon last year have driven through before on route to cornwall but actually stayed on the north coast last year in appledore it was really pretty
tintagel in cornwall holds some special memories for us its breathtaking actually the cornish coast on a whole is just stunning
hope ya have a wonderfull time
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
So many times the judgement arguement seems to be,is this sluttish,rather than is it ok to be sluttish .
This piece of writing is not mine,but i put it on my profile on a bdsm site because i think it is so describes why i think being a slut is a good thing and why judging others and making assumptions about their motivations is ,i think ,such a pointless thing to do.
In Praise Of Sluts...
Sluts give of themselves freely, to those who truly appreciate them...
Sluts never ask for money, but they wouldn't refuse it if offered...
Sluts care more about the pleasure of others than their own pleasure...
Sluts get MORE pleasure by pleasing others than if they were pleasing themselves...
Sluts are generous with their sexual favors, because that's the most valuable gift they have to share with the world...
Sluts are not shy, but they can pretend to be if that brings pleasure to their partner...
Sluts are happiest when they know that they are desired, desirable and appreciated...
Sluts gladly spread their thighs because it gives pleasure to others...
Sluts enjoy playing with themselves, either to entertain others, or to entertain themselves...
Sluts love oral pleasures, but they love giving as much (and usually MORE) than 'receiving'...
Sluts love to fuck, and they express their love and compassion for others by sharing their sweet flesh, and fucking at every opportunity...
Sluts may love to cum, but they love making their partners cum even more...
Sluts love to scream 'FUCK MEEEEEEEE.....!'
Sluts love to make their partners lose all control, because sex should never be 'controlled', it should be unrestrained, unchained and uninhibited...
Sluts keep the world from destroying itself...
Which Is Why: We Praise Sluts!
As a personal sexual mannifesto it works
oh i love it kaz :thumbup:
especially
Sluts love to make their partners lose all control, because sex should never be 'controlled', it should be unrestrained, unchained and uninhibited...
that is perfect in fact had i seen that elsewhere i would of used it as my signiture and hope no one knew it was plagiarized :rascal:
consider it a gift,i wont tell anyone
shhhhhhh but ty :rose:
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
So many times the judgement arguement seems to be,is this sluttish,rather than is it ok to be sluttish .
This piece of writing is not mine,but i put it on my profile on a bdsm site because i think it is so describes why i think being a slut is a good thing and why judging others and making assumptions about their motivations is ,i think ,such a pointless thing to do.
In Praise Of Sluts...
Sluts give of themselves freely, to those who truly appreciate them...
Sluts never ask for money, but they wouldn't refuse it if offered...
Sluts care more about the pleasure of others than their own pleasure...
Sluts get MORE pleasure by pleasing others than if they were pleasing themselves...
Sluts are generous with their sexual favors, because that's the most valuable gift they have to share with the world...
Sluts are not shy, but they can pretend to be if that brings pleasure to their partner...
Sluts are happiest when they know that they are desired, desirable and appreciated...
Sluts gladly spread their thighs because it gives pleasure to others...
Sluts enjoy playing with themselves, either to entertain others, or to entertain themselves...
Sluts love oral pleasures, but they love giving as much (and usually MORE) than 'receiving'...
Sluts love to fuck, and they express their love and compassion for others by sharing their sweet flesh, and fucking at every opportunity...
Sluts may love to cum, but they love making their partners cum even more...
Sluts love to scream 'FUCK MEEEEEEEE.....!'
Sluts love to make their partners lose all control, because sex should never be 'controlled', it should be unrestrained, unchained and uninhibited...
Sluts keep the world from destroying itself...
Which Is Why: We Praise Sluts!
As a personal sexual mannifesto it works
oh i love it kaz :thumbup:
especially
Sluts love to make their partners lose all control, because sex should never be 'controlled', it should be unrestrained, unchained and uninhibited...
that is perfect in fact had i seen that elsewhere i would of used it as my signiture and hope no one knew it was plagiarized :rascal:
Sex God
ya see its not judgements on a whole i am the first to say we cannot help making judgements it is human nature in fact you can find me saying as much a quite a few threads on here over the years my whole point was and still is surely as a swinging site we should be more open minded to the fact that shock horror people are having lots n lots of sex
ok example a couple contacted us recently that when i read their profile it said they only play bareback now my initial judgement was eewwww but yet i did not say as much in my reply as it is their choice and obviously they find enough peeps that wish to join in with them so good luck to um i say
you'll most likely say i'm wrong and i should of told um that they are disgusting for doing such things but how is that my right to do so is it not their right do make their own decissions of how they wish to swing just as it is my right to say thankyou for showing an interest in us but no thankyou its just not our bag
there is no need to be rude about such things we all make our own choices
i guess i always thought that being swingers we would all be much more open minded about it all but then i also guess you live n learn
we spent years trying for women to have the right even in the vanilla world to have more than one shag before marraige without bein called a slag yet here where we should be able to openly enjoy the fact we can shag like rabbits if we so desire to we are still gettin called slags
and may i just add that the friend i was talking about initially was not just fucking everything in sight she is in fact very fussy and choosey just being a hottie and a single gal she gets a lot to be fussy n choosey over and i say more power to her you go girlfriend
ok example a couple contacted us recently that when i read their profile it said they only play bareback now my initial judgement was eewwww but yet i did not say as much in my reply as it is their choice and obviously they find enough peeps that wish to join in with them so good luck to um i say
you'll most likely say i'm wrong and i should of told um that they are disgusting for doing such things but how is that my right to do so is it not their right do make their own decissions of how they wish to swing just as it is my right to say thankyou for showing an interest in us but no thankyou its just not our bag
there is no need to be rude about such things we all make our own choices
i guess i always thought that being swingers we would all be much more open minded about it all but then i also guess you live n learn
we spent years trying for women to have the right even in the vanilla world to have more than one shag before marraige without bein called a slag yet here where we should be able to openly enjoy the fact we can shag like rabbits if we so desire to we are still gettin called slags
and may i just add that the friend i was talking about initially was not just fucking everything in sight she is in fact very fussy and choosey just being a hottie and a single gal she gets a lot to be fussy n choosey over and i say more power to her you go girlfriend
hwoar::rascal: Sex God
i don't pretend to understand it all and i won't pretend i read all of this but i do get this much
we are in a mess and surely the faster we pay off the debt the smaller said debt will be as in less interest overall so a big tighten of all our belts surely isn't a bad thing?
we should be more pissed of than most as we were not of the borrow more than we can pay brigade we do not have a mortgage or credit cards or loans or even an overdraft so we are not part of what caused the problem in the first place with all the willy nilly borrowing that the banks encouraged yet we are still quite happy to buckle up and sit through the bumpy ride whilst the country gets back on an even keel after the labour fuck ups messed it all up
and wat a load of bollux over the vat when it was lowered 2.5% everyone said it was pointless wouldn't even notice a difference but then when it goes up 2.5% all the same peeps start crying over it ffs make ya minds up either 2.5% is a big deal or it isn't ya can't have it both ways
we are in a mess and surely the faster we pay off the debt the smaller said debt will be as in less interest overall so a big tighten of all our belts surely isn't a bad thing?
we should be more pissed of than most as we were not of the borrow more than we can pay brigade we do not have a mortgage or credit cards or loans or even an overdraft so we are not part of what caused the problem in the first place with all the willy nilly borrowing that the banks encouraged yet we are still quite happy to buckle up and sit through the bumpy ride whilst the country gets back on an even keel after the labour fuck ups messed it all up
and wat a load of bollux over the vat when it was lowered 2.5% everyone said it was pointless wouldn't even notice a difference but then when it goes up 2.5% all the same peeps start crying over it ffs make ya minds up either 2.5% is a big deal or it isn't ya can't have it both ways
Sex God
judge me as you will i supported it wholeheartedly but then i am of a forces background and our youngest is in the process of joining up no matter how many of you knock it i will always support it, blindly you might say, rightly i say
you do not have to support the war to support the soldier
you do not have to support the war to support the soldier
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
We used to use another site that had a verification system, you know the one that SH said they would never employ.
We definatly sided away from couples who had about five thousand verifications on their profile.
We felt that with the ammount some had the " chemistry " did not have to be there. Now we do not knock others for the ammount of people they shag, but for us chemistry and at least liking the people play a huge role.
Yes of course there are some that do shag anything anytime, and those we tend to avoid.
We are fussy and prefer to meet others that are not " hardened swingers ".
Purely our choice of course, as others have their choices. I personally would not like the gang bang scene, or mrs777 shagging anything that had a cock.
Call it morals....call it what you will, just our personnel choice, of which we are all entitled too.
very well put kenty and i actually kinda see where your coming from and understand and respect your choices
but then i also respect the choices of those that do wanna shag anything with a cock/pussy
its all just good open honest fun after all between consenting adults after all
Sex God
Quote by tweeky
Interestingly I just wrote half a page of reply, then erased it all. Actually says something about the original post. I do this a few times here actually as its often just not worth the debate a point of view will cause.
intrigued to know what it says about original post and a debate is always worth it debate is how we open minds do you not think
It says that the point of view I would post would then be judged and may cause 4-5 pages of debate with which I cant be arsed, so I just shut up
you should never ever shut up its your opinion your entitled to it and entitled to voice it as much as the next person even if not one single person agrees with it you should still voice it
and you don't have to reply to those that disagree
go on be a devil ;)
Sex God
Quote by Dirtygirly
We're all Judgey McJudgerson!
There are very few exceptions.
This is life.
very much granted and i have said as much myself on many more than one occasion but i just do not get how swingers can be judgemental on the ammount of shags other swingers get its, in my mind, a contradiction of great proportion
Well personally I don't care how many shags anyone has. Each to their own.
However, I dare say I'd have a judgemental thought about it though... mainly because I wouldn't shag anyone and everyone so when you come across people who do, you can't help but think what you think about it.
I guess we have our own standards and our own behaviour as a bench mark and stuff that's outwith that is different so we obviously have a view on it. Whether we choose to voice that view is the key thing in my opinion. You can't help the way you think. You can help the way you act.
Does that make sense?
:mrgreen:
it does make sense DG n i guess thats where my point may lay maybe there is no need to voice ya opinion on such stuff i do think sometimes those that do do it to just be spitefull my friend that this happened to was quite hurt by the gossip that was going on about her and no matter how i or other friends told her to just let it go n get on with having fun she still felt wounded by the spitefull comments
i guess thats where i and her differ i would of given um it with both barrels me
Sex God
Quote by Dirtygirly
We're all Judgey McJudgerson!
There are very few exceptions.
This is life.
very much granted and i have said as much myself on many more than one occasion but i just do not get how swingers can be judgemental on the ammount of shags other swingers get its, in my mind, a contradiction of great proportion
Sex God
Quote by tweeky
Interestingly I just wrote half a page of reply, then erased it all. Actually says something about the original post. I do this a few times here actually as its often just not worth the debate a point of view will cause.
intrigued to know what it says about original post and a debate is always worth it debate is how we open minds do you not think
Sex God
i have noticed recently that even though we are a bunch of swingers that are meant to be able to enjoy the freedom to shag who we want when we want without feeling judged for our loose morals as everyone here is doing the same or supposedly so, yet there seem to be a very high number whoose morals are much tighter and they judge openly those that are just plain enjoying themselves
it just plain confuses me
i have not been on the recieving end of any open judgements but i do know of friends that have basically been called slags for swinging ffs i mean whats that all about?
what i love about swinging is it gives myself and my husband the opportunity to fullfill fantasies with as many others as we desire and to be as dirty as we want to be and luckily for me the only person i worry about judging me is my husband and i am an incredibly lucky wife in the fact he doesn't have a judgemental bone in his body and he enjoys the freedom swinging gives us to be proper mucky sluts as much as i do
so this is my question
are you someone that believes that even if you are a swinger you should not shag anything in sight that takes ya fancy and if you do believe that then why? enlighten me as to why there should be some sort of limit
and is there still double standards even here are guys forgiven for shagging anything with a pulse yet women need to be more reserved in their numbers or is it as it should be a free for all shag as many as ya wanna no matter what ya gender?
it just plain confuses me
i have not been on the recieving end of any open judgements but i do know of friends that have basically been called slags for swinging ffs i mean whats that all about?
what i love about swinging is it gives myself and my husband the opportunity to fullfill fantasies with as many others as we desire and to be as dirty as we want to be and luckily for me the only person i worry about judging me is my husband and i am an incredibly lucky wife in the fact he doesn't have a judgemental bone in his body and he enjoys the freedom swinging gives us to be proper mucky sluts as much as i do
so this is my question
are you someone that believes that even if you are a swinger you should not shag anything in sight that takes ya fancy and if you do believe that then why? enlighten me as to why there should be some sort of limit
and is there still double standards even here are guys forgiven for shagging anything with a pulse yet women need to be more reserved in their numbers or is it as it should be a free for all shag as many as ya wanna no matter what ya gender?
Sex God
:thumbup: NWC hunny we did exactly the same thing last night ok not in the north west admitedly but just goes to show its the same in many other places too
we turned up at a well known dogging spot last night to find that the 2 guys that were there already got out n started discussing a drill that one of them can't get the chuck to work on n then they proceded to start bashing it to try and free it ffs ok they didn't know there was a couple in our car granted but then is a prospective couple that pulled up 5 mins earlier gonna feel horny listening to conversations about drills and listening to the hammering
then last week we pulled up at dusk at another spot to find roughly 20 guys all standing round chatting to start with i got kind of excited i expected to find some woman in the middle having a fabulous time but as we pulled up and they started to all move toward our car we realised there was just a bunch of guys chatting no fun was going on and as they all descended on us we sped off fast it was very intimidating
we have decided to give up on dogging now although we do still enjoy outdoor fun so we are on the hunt for secluded non dogging spots fairly local to do more arranged type meets
we turned up at a well known dogging spot last night to find that the 2 guys that were there already got out n started discussing a drill that one of them can't get the chuck to work on n then they proceded to start bashing it to try and free it ffs ok they didn't know there was a couple in our car granted but then is a prospective couple that pulled up 5 mins earlier gonna feel horny listening to conversations about drills and listening to the hammering
then last week we pulled up at dusk at another spot to find roughly 20 guys all standing round chatting to start with i got kind of excited i expected to find some woman in the middle having a fabulous time but as we pulled up and they started to all move toward our car we realised there was just a bunch of guys chatting no fun was going on and as they all descended on us we sped off fast it was very intimidating
we have decided to give up on dogging now although we do still enjoy outdoor fun so we are on the hunt for secluded non dogging spots fairly local to do more arranged type meets
Sex God
Quote by Bbw_babe
Hiya babes!
Guess you missed our post over on 'tother site........
We have already booked a room, so we had better get an invite, or there will be bother! lol
And when else would I be able to give the GEORGEOUS Dessie and Dave there VERY special present if we dont come????
Love and cuddles,
bbw_babe. xx
sorry hun i just go into robot mode sending out invites not registering names in my noggin
look forward to seeing ya soonxxxxxxxxxxxxx
