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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
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Quote by kentswingers777
I think myself and Hot have pretty much summed up why we need a deterrent in these very dangerous times.
We have to be able to defend ourselves from attack, and the ones with the biggest guns usually win.
Pakistan is another region that is in turmoil and they DO have nuclear weapons.
It is only a matter of time before Iran do too, and the President of Iran has already said that " he would wipe Israel off the face of the Earth ".....a worrying statement from a leader of a country not far away from having their own weapons.
I would much prefer for the UK to be able to defend itself properly, against a threat from any other country, should the need ever arise.
If we do not have a proper form of defence from attack, then we may just as well have no Army either......dangerous people out there in this world with a ever growing threat of attack by any one of them with a nutter in charge like Iran.

ok i see where your coming from but i don't see why the leader of a party that, ok it would take a fluke to get in but its not imposible, could end up running this country would say get rid of um, surely there has to be arguements for getting rid other than cost surely he isn't stupid enough to leave us as open to attack as you say he must know of good reason not to have um
well i like to think he's not that stupid
right thanks to the live debate i am left wondering do we really need trident
now on another thread both too hot and kenty have argued the pros for it but would still love to hear more from them here as i'm still undecided and i would also love to hear arguments for getting rid of too so i can make a balanced and informed decision as to my view on the matter
god i love stuff like this i learn loads
thankyou all in advance and wait with baited refresh button for replies
Quote by Too Hot

ok i will admit as he said it i thought oooo no no we can't get rid of that but as the day has gone on i'm thinking go on then why do we really need it so go on then you wonderfully opinionated bunch educate me tell me why we REALLY need it and that is genuine not patronising so i would appreciate not being patronised myself please

Iran and North Korea (for example) are on the brink of obrtaining a nuclear capacity sufficient to produce Nuclear bombs. Both countries already have Intercontinental missile technology.
There is a train of thought that the only thing that stopped a nuclear catastrophe in the 60's and 70's Cold War era was the absolute certainty that whoever fired first would equally be obliterated from the planet (about 100 X over actually). The UK Polaris and later Trident programme meant that if we lost our best friends (USA & France) we would still be able to respond to a nuclear attack in kind.
The theory of nuclear defence is that any aggressor is likely to think twice before attacking a country that can respond in kind. To say that North Korea and Iran are unstable is a bit of an understatement and if both or either of these countries had nuclear weapons then their "bullying factor" increases by many multiples.
For this reason the UK should in any reasonable persons opinion retain an ability to respond to a nuclear attack overwhelmingly sufficient to obliterate the aggressing country and make them think twice before committing to a course of action that would destroy them, their country and every living thing in it.
ty for that i'm seeing wat u r saying but i was thinking that if the nuked us then france would feel the fallout surely so wouldn't they step in in our defence
also surely we got more than one i'm thinking maybe in the hundreds surely we could save a fair whack of money halving the amount is that viable?
and is trident just the launch pad thingy so we could keep misiles just lose a few launch pads???
the problem i have is it is the only thing that is, so far, stopping my cross going in the lib dem box as i agree with everything else they say so far so i need to explore the reasoning behind getting rid of trident from every angle so i do appreciate you taking the time to explain stuff to me
thanks
Quote by __random_orbit__
Mine has gone now too, Thanks Bouncy!
anyhow, what's wrong with randoms?
eh eh?
lp

it was all the wrong randoms would of made my day had it beed u wink
Quote by kentswingers777
For those of us old enough to remember, labour Governments leave a legacy of Quango's and civil service over employment. This government is no different as the government is managing almost every aspect of daily living from education to armed forces to health to the way we travel around.
A few things struck a chord with me yesterday in the debate:
1) The Police station in Hull about to buy a new £72,000 car (I often watch Police Interceptors on Sky and wonder at the need for such vehicles).
2) 400 Uniformed Police officers employed in HR duties.
3) Headmasters receiveing 4,000 pages of instructional emails every year (who writes them?)
4) 17 Army Brigadiers for every Brigade in the Army
5) Local maternity hospitals closing yet NHS managers get a 7% pay rise.
These things are happening NOW and it is too late for Gordon Brown to say that things will change, there has been 13 years of government and two and a half years of recession to make those savings. I believe that Cameron missed his opportunity to ram the potential for cost savings message down our throats because it was clear on almost every topic that there is wastage. Yes, he mentioned it frequently but there were no facts and figures to support what he was saying.
As for the Liberals, I can't take anyone seriously who would contemplate removing the UK's independant nuclear deterrant in these dangerous times:thumbup:.

ok i will admit as he said it i thought oooo no no we can't get rid of that but as the day has gone on i'm thinking go on then why do we really need it
so go on then you wonderfully opinionated bunch educate me tell me why we REALLY need it
and that is genuine not patronising so i would appreciate not being patronised myself please
my pleasure hun
was kinda nice feeling semi popular for a while but that bloody pinging soon grew ultra irratating
Quote by Plimboy
You should be so lucky! I don't even get a little "ping" from this Site.
Plim :sad:

awwww hunny pie have a hug :therethere:
Quote by Kaznkev
a hung parliament is when no one party has more mps than all the rest put togeather,so passing laws has to be done by getting the other parties to the tories have the most mps they will probably ask the northern irish unionists to support them,but the unionists will want something in that northern ireland is relativly stable now this will not be good for peace over there.
Labour would probably try to get the welsh/scottish nationalists,again they would want "bribes" for there support.
The party with the most mps would be the government,but not very powerful.
Not everyone thinks this would be such a bad thing!

ah ha ok i see
undecided as to wether that good or bad need to think on this one not liking the having to bribe others to get their vote could be open for abuse
cheers hunny
Quote by st3v3
You can turn it all off from http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/members/my-privacy.html

but what do i do once i get there?
i remebered that bit from before but not wat to do once there lol
i know this has been covered but can't find the thread needed
how do i turn off that annoying chat bar down there///
its driving me crazy pinging all the time
wouldn't mind so much if it was friends but its just randoms
Quote by Kaznkev
In terms of Clegg,the Tories need to win a number of seats from the lib dems to get a workable majority,Government voters tend to be very "sticky" apparently,(yes living with A government graduate and psephology nut at a time like this is fab).Clegg getting the chance to be known and listened too might really effect the result in some key in the majority of the country the seat will not change.

ok i've read that 3 times now n still have a puzzled look on my face any chance of having it in hairdressers terms (thats even simpler than laymans terms lol )
smackbottom for the putdown!
Well,if i understand correctly,most seat dont change,you know the sort vote red or blue no matter 1997 the result was so phenomenal because unexpected results came was not the normal way elections the parties are fighting over a few places,the tv refers to them as key marginals.

Now this is why you will see the leaders in the same few places again and again,as really its these 100 seats that matter.
At the moment the Tories are not looking like they are going to win the 20 lib dem seats that they need for a majority,Partly because Clegg is appealing to many who might vote tory as an anti government stickiness i mentioned is the fact that for many there is an attitude of better the devil you know when it comes to voting,so they wont vote against the government,becaue they are the government.

So whats the situation?
There are about 100 seats that matter,20 belong to the lib dems,the better Clegg does the less likely the few people who actually change their vote are to vote tory.
And so the whole thing comes down to a few thousand people!
And yes knowing this i still think its important to vote.
omg as if spanking me is a deterant mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ty hun makes a bit more sense to me now
so help me out here again please treacle what will a hung parliment mean and how does that come about?
Quote by awol
It's taken me a little while to post on this thread as one of my heroes is both revered and hated across the world in equal measure, so there will probably be a similar split on here.
So, my hero is none other than Ernesto "Che" Guevara, revolutionary, guerrilla leader, doctor, author, intellectual, diplomat and to me probably one of the most important and controversial figures of the 20th century.
El Che, was a highly inspirational and controversial figure. He is seen by his followers as a charismatic, decent human being. A brave man who led people not only by using lofty ideals but, by resorting to lead people by example. However, aside from all this El Che was also, just like all of us, a flawed human being. He was stubborn, arrogant and to a certain extend a bit self deluded. Not in his capacity to lead and inspire people but in his passionate and unwavering belief that Socialism would unite all the disadvantaged people's of the world and on his mission to eradicate social injustice.
It was his arrogance and stubbornness that, in my opinion, during his last campaign in Bolivia caused him to antagonise the Bolivian Communist Party (whose support he needed to start another revolution) that left him and his troupe isolated which ultimately resulted in his demise.
As a boy growing up in Latin America I saw El Che as a Hero who stood up against American imperialism and left a lasting legacy to this day.

worship
i'm with you the guy has me in awe and also even more controversially i guess is fidel castro another who had strong believes and stood fast on them i might not sgree with everything he stands for but it does not stop me admiring him
Quote by Kaznkev
In terms of Clegg,the Tories need to win a number of seats from the lib dems to get a workable majority,Government voters tend to be very "sticky" apparently,(yes living with A government graduate and psephology nut at a time like this is fab).Clegg getting the chance to be known and listened too might really effect the result in some key in the majority of the country the seat will not change.

ok i've read that 3 times now n still have a puzzled look on my face any chance of having it in hairdressers terms (thats even simpler than laymans terms lol )
the only prob i can see is its voluntary
make it compulsary i say
fab idea
had it been in force when i was a kid i would of rebeled like crazy admitedly but yet overall i think it would of done me good
Quote by Kaznkev
too many speeches,but if it gets people interested in politics,it must be a good thing.
i think clegg definately came off best.

:thumbup:
exactly there r lots of people out there that don't quite manage to get there heads around politics and if this helps them then its a good thing
now i know lots of you will shoot me down and tell me that it was a load of bollux and didn't actually tell anyone anything of any use but for a political retard like myself its actually a great help to actually hear what the manifestoes are
i am married to tory boy who believes so much in them that he will never admit they have ever fucked anything up and i know they have and i certainly won't forget how labour have fucked everything up whilst they have been in and yes i do know the liberals history but even i'm sure there can't be anyone left from that time to influence the current lib dems :eeek: so i was looking forward to actually seeing all the party leaders together to hear what they had to say and try to make a judgement for myself
and mock me as you may but i sat watching avery second of it and all the post prog stuff with my pad n pen giving them all scores on how i rated their policys and i had decided not to make my judgements on how they argued stuff or body language or even tie bloody colour (being discussed on gmtv wtf??) but i purely scored on how much i agreed or disagreed on their policys
i take my vote very seriously as a woman and apart from one year, where we moved house 200 miles so truelly didn't have time and it was inevitible tony was going to win so didn't see how we could make any diff either way, i have always voted since coming of age sometimes blindly and as i even admited last night to my son that one year as i had no clue who i wanted to vote for i picked it as i do a grand national horse picked a name i liked (and yes i can see you rolling your eyes)
so this year having finally matured enough to realise just how important it is to make my vote count i have decided to put aside all pre concieved ideas about any of the parties and listen to everything they have to say at these debates and make my version of an informed decision and so far i am reluctant to admit maybe hubby was right and i really am naturally a liberal as apart from the trident thing nick clegg won the most points for me
so go on mock away i can take it lol
we have always shared cost but whilst recently trying to organise a group meet i have been thinkin as they guys r coming from diff areas and we are staying fairly local we should take cost of hotel as they have the cost of their travel it just seemed fairer to me but had travel been equal then would split cost of hotel equally too
awww sugar gonna miss u guys :sad:
i know we don't see you about as much as we used to but still always knew you was only a pm away
well hopefully we will still bump into you on msn from time to time
hope you have lots of luck and happiness kiss
best bits are when a client comes in feeling low and with a friendly ear nice cuppa n whole new look walk out with a much lighter step, or when a client comes in and says "do wat u like i#m feeling funky" and i just get the opportunity to create, also having become my own boss means that when my column is empty my time is mine to do with what i like and if i want time off for anything i don't have to ask anyone
worst bits have been since the recession my clientelle has taken a noticible decline and my purse strings are much much tighter and i have way too much time to do with what i want i'm really looking forward to things picking up and finally getting busy again, mr b is constantly calling me a part timer but trust me i would love to be fully booked all week and so would my bank balance
Quote by tweeky
well i can see this from the other side
back in our early days a guy on here approached us to join him and a single girlfriend of his which we did and spent a very enjoyable afternoon with them and during our time with them found they were not a real couple he was a married guy and she was his swing buddy
at this point couples swinging was relatively new to us we started swinging to enjoy mmf and as much as we had enjoyed our time with them both i was particularly taken with the guys tongue skills he was the first guy we had played with that i had enjoyed as much as my husband so thought that i would rather like the opportunity to enjoy that tongue again also it had ended up being more of a soft swap afternoon and i really fancied fucking this guy which was something that played on my mind for a while after as i'm sure many would admit they have walked away from a meet thinking ohhh i would love to of ......
so a couple of days later when he popped up on my msn i just asked does he swing solo or is it purely a couples thing for them
now i do not see that i actually did anything wrong i was simply asking a question i am a firm believer that if you do not know something yet wish to ask!
he said he wasn't sure as it hadn't come up before, now this to me would be a no then as if he had to ask his swing buddy then they were obviously more than just swing buddys so i just said don't worry about it
he then asked his swing buddy how she would feel and to say she opened a can of whoop ass on him is an understatement she kicked his arse and had a right go at me too
now this i never quite got
you may think i was impolite to ask but how would i know their situation if i hadn't asked?
and why did she go so mad the guy was honest with her he didn't have to be he wasn't honest with his wife about her so u would of thought she would of at least appreciated that fact
don't know if this will help u see it from the other side or not but was worth a try
and anyone who knows us as swingers would tell you we are very respectfull of others relationships and swinging boundries so try not to judge the other couple so harshly

Its a rejection thing. In some peoples mind you all played together. Then after you as a couple want him and not her. Can you understand why she might feel a bit rejected? All the talk in the posts above about married or single does not have a lot to do with it in actual fact. Mrs Tweeky for example would be mortified if we were to play with someone then they contacted me for a session afterwards excluding her. If we are married or not its got nothing to do with it its just about being rejected or feeling rejected. Some people have more sensitive personalities than others. Certain types of people will feel rejected by the exclusion.
yes i see how she might feel that way but we weren't rejecting her we just were looking for something different from our next meet
i have lost count of the amount of times i have been asked if i play solo and mr b has been asked if he plays solo neither of us has felt rejected just realised that the one doing the asking was looking for something different from what we were prepared to give thats all
playing solo has never been our thing but we know quite a few couples that do so i can see how why orhers would ask cause if you don't ask you don't know
ya need a thick skin in many senses to swing as far as i see sensitivity will ruin the experience
this is just my opinion nothing else do not wish to offend was just trying to help
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
"stuff"

Had a similar moment at AC/DC a while ago when Angus Young (haha) lost his schoolboy cap early on in the throes of his performance. His long hair stopped level with his ears although he seemed to have plenty of energy throughout the concert. At that event there was no big screen - a fact for which I was thankful. We worked out they must all be around 60 years old :eeek:
fingers in ears la la la la la la
not listening they r headlineing download this year and i am going with a blindfold i just wanna hear um live lol
Quote by varca
could have been. lovely view.
lp

Hope the hand eventually healed! :lol2:
I wish rockstars would grow old gracefully.... can't help thinking that Mr Coverdale would have looked sooo much better if he hadn't gone under the knife and been botoxed to high heaven...
In his heyday..

cruel so so cruel
we saw whitesnake at download last year
dave was my heart throb from a very young age fancied the arse off him but was too young to go and see them live so this was my first opportunity to see them live i had no illusions that they would be as good as they were in their hey day but i thought it would still be amazing to see them live
just before they came on we had gone for a bit of a wander so as they started we were right near the back then i heard them, stopped dead in my tacks heart beating that bit faster spun round to see the man of my dreams on the satge ok so he was a little dot but there he was, i grabbed mr b by the arm and said quick come on i gotta get closer so hurridly pulled him down the hill toward the stage, found a little gap in the crowd half way down with a fair view of the stage and stopped ohh there he was my love my heart, not close enough though so again i start almost running to get closer mr b huffin n puffin behind me asking do we have to he was there under protest as it was not a fan of crowds prefers to sit back n just listen to the music done his time in the mosh pits too old for all that now he claims i pull up tutting not a happy bunny just about to say well stay there u old man n i'll go on my own i need to be close to him *swoon swoon*
then i notice the big screen to the left of us there he is the man that i have fancied the arse off of for so many years
OH MY FUCKING GOD
he is OLD not just a bit old i mean proper OLD
shit quick run back up that hill he looked so much better from up there
"why r we retreating" asks mr b
"cause he looks old" i exclaim in horror my eyes my eyes my heart is broken fantasy gone
"well of corse he looks old" laughs mr b "he is old but then my dear so are you"
bastard
well i can see this from the other side
back in our early days a guy on here approached us to join him and a single girlfriend of his which we did and spent a very enjoyable afternoon with them and during our time with them found they were not a real couple he was a married guy and she was his swing buddy
at this point couples swinging was relatively new to us we started swinging to enjoy mmf and as much as we had enjoyed our time with them both i was particularly taken with the guys tongue skills he was the first guy we had played with that i had enjoyed as much as my husband so thought that i would rather like the opportunity to enjoy that tongue again also it had ended up being more of a soft swap afternoon and i really fancied fucking this guy which was something that played on my mind for a while after as i'm sure many would admit they have walked away from a meet thinking ohhh i would love to of ......
so a couple of days later when he popped up on my msn i just asked does he swing solo or is it purely a couples thing for them
now i do not see that i actually did anything wrong i was simply asking a question i am a firm believer that if you do not know something yet wish to ask!
he said he wasn't sure as it hadn't come up before, now this to me would be a no then as if he had to ask his swing buddy then they were obviously more than just swing buddys so i just said don't worry about it
he then asked his swing buddy how she would feel and to say she opened a can of whoop ass on him is an understatement she kicked his arse and had a right go at me too
now this i never quite got
you may think i was impolite to ask but how would i know their situation if i hadn't asked?
and why did she go so mad the guy was honest with her he didn't have to be he wasn't honest with his wife about her so u would of thought she would of at least appreciated that fact
don't know if this will help u see it from the other side or not but was worth a try
and anyone who knows us as swingers would tell you we are very respectfull of others relationships and swinging boundries so try not to judge the other couple so harshly
Quote by kentswingers777
Jon Gaunt......
A man not afraid to speak his mind, which is usually right anyway.
So afraid of him that Question time lost their bottle, but still got Griffin on there.
Will wait for the inevitable.............here it comes. lol

who is he?honestly ,im not great on pop culture,but love learning new things
(and yes i suppose i could google lol )
radio talk show host n sun columnist
ty bouncy,not sure that would make him heroic in my eyes,i mean i love the writing of Tolstoy,but hes hardly a hero
totally agree someone who spouts their opinions willy nilly does not a hero make
fraid i can't claim to have some high brow inteligencia as my hero as i do not know of anyone its not my area of knowledge (its not covered in fashion mags) but my heros r those that risk their lifes daily for the good of others sometimes misguidely but do so all the same

That of course is your opinion, but the op asked people and I gave an answer.
I did not think this was a knock anyones opinions on their hero thread?
As I stated he is one of many,but dare not give anymore. wink
again i agree i could never make a hero i spout opinions way too often wink
Quote by Bluefish2009
Oooooooooooooooh! :giggle:
Apologies if I touched a nerve... of course I can only speak from the experience with the people I work with. My slur was against them, not everyone with a degree! Just to clarify! wink
Some of them graduated with honours. Sadly not in common sense!
And by the same token... those people I work with who have degrees, think that 20 years experience count for nothing so I dare say we could all take offense to some degree or another! :mrgreen:

I reckon that the cleverest people are the ones that know what they DON'T know. biggrin
well i must be uber clever then cause i know i knows nuffin :silly:
well not quite true cause i know he got ya'll real goodlol
And you also now, it would seem... lol
ah no check page 1 i said from the start it twas his ploy and i was not really actually commenting on his post just claiming my cleverness not summat i get to do often in fact its as rare as hens teeth
Quote by Kaznkev
Jon Gaunt......
A man not afraid to speak his mind, which is usually right anyway.
So afraid of him that Question time lost their bottle, but still got Griffin on there.
Will wait for the inevitable.............here it comes. lol

who is he?honestly ,im not great on pop culture,but love learning new things
(and yes i suppose i could google lol )
radio talk show host n sun columnist
ty bouncy,not sure that would make him heroic in my eyes,i mean i love the writing of Tolstoy,but hes hardly a hero
totally agree someone who spouts their opinions willy nilly does not a hero make
fraid i can't claim to have some high brow inteligencia as my hero as i do not know of anyone its not my area of knowledge (its not covered in fashion mags) but my heros r those that risk their lifes daily for the good of others sometimes misguidely but do so all the same
Quote by foxylady2209
Oooooooooooooooh! :giggle:
Apologies if I touched a nerve... of course I can only speak from the experience with the people I work with. My slur was against them, not everyone with a degree! Just to clarify! wink
Some of them graduated with honours. Sadly not in common sense!
And by the same token... those people I work with who have degrees, think that 20 years experience count for nothing so I dare say we could all take offense to some degree or another! :mrgreen:

I reckon that the cleverest people are the ones that know what they DON'T know. biggrin
well i must be uber clever then cause i know i knows nuffin :silly:
well not quite true cause i know he got ya'll real good lol
oh i feel very let down thought it was gonna b a thread about mrs secksy gushing whilst dogging :grin: