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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire

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Quote by Ms_Whips
i saw the first episode of this when it was first aired. i was looking forward to seeing it to see how they would deal with the challenges. there was a lord such-n-such who was a complete arse and stayed in hotels and got angry at the program makers for finding him out. he made a mockery of what the program was trying to do. i did think that some of the celebs were trying to take it seriously while others were very lame considering they were only going it for such a short time compaired to the people who have no choice.
i buy the big issue, i've also given the money to my son and he has gone and bought it too. i think though that alot of people were jaded about giving as at one time (in doncaster) alot of people were begging as a job. i'd heard them talking about it on the buses, best places to go, how much they had got, tricks of the trade and so on. these people weren't homeless, just taking advantage of people's kindness. in the end i stopped givening money. instead i would buy them food and a coffee, or food for their begging tool, a sad looking dog. it still beats me why anyone who can not feed themself would have a dog but i suppose if they had the dog already when they became homeless dunno but again, in doncaster, there was a spate of people begging with dogs.
i'm not going to judge anyone for drinking or taking drugs, sometimes anything to escape and all that. but i would hate to think i had funded it. i'm also amazed at how many smoke who beg too. you'd think food and shelter would be more important. again this is why i started giving food and a hot drink instead.
anyone can end up in a situation that renders them homeless and anyone who can survive it and change their situation has my deepest respect. i also agree that lottery money should not go to the arts, let the toffs fund their own entertainment. it could be much better used for hostels and revamping run down houses for the homeless. they can do it for the imagrants, why not our own people?
whips

quite often the dog is a stray and person and dog kinda adopt each other kindred spirit type stuff and most deffinately a companion situation as it is a very lonely existance trust me
as for the begging as a job those people need to be strung up by their little toes n flogged it makes a mockery of those that have no choice and i have to admit i could pick out someone who was genuine from a fake its all in the ingrained dirt and the eyes there is no mistaking the eyes
and i totally agree with the lottery funding we need lots more shelters and soup kitchens and charities to help the homeless help themselves out of that situation,they don't want it handing to them on a plate but to be given a bit of hope that you can escape it would make all the difference and yes i do know there r quite a few that don't want to change that like the annonimity of the life on the streets but there are so many many more that would give anything to have a fresh start at life
and great to see you back whips btw missed ya hun kiss
Quote by tweeky

all attacks of the i swing variety to be directed at tweeky,not me ! lol

In reality we dont ourselves. At one point it was not through a lack of trying but at the current moment in time I just cant be arsed to waste time looking anymore. We are still open to the idea but we dont really seek it out anymore. So I guess I am an hanger on wink
i couldn't hang on if i tried too bottom heavy rotflmao
Quote by minxysub
lol i am a thread killer.....

No you're not.... I am! smackbottom
In edit: I just realised I probably shouldn't have used that icon for you!
lol
lol is the perfect icon biggrin
i do wish we could use it in chat as well innocent
ya know wat i think i'm a thread killer too cause the amount of times i reply on a thread and sit n wait for a comment after mine n it never comes as i watch it sink further down the page with my name as last posted ffs rolleyes
Quote by minxysub
I was going to say that ASDA have a sale on DVD's just now.... then realised what DVD's you mean redface

:giggle: oh you do make me giggle fluffy
run around......................................now

i got another on the tip of my tongue but the bugger just won't fall out me gob driving me nuts
wow ty guys i thought i might come back to find some "they put themselves there they have no one to blame but themselves " threads but no
its good to see that others do try to feel empathy for those in that situation but i do think there are still way too many that just ignore the fact you see them walking past preteding not to see doing everything in their power to find the building on the other side of the street incredibly interesting
lp is right about the prog i was worried it would be the usual celebrity self promotion crap but they actually seemed to start to see things through the eyes of the homeless and i can honestly say it awakened some old memories for me about how it felt
i was one of the very lucky ones i didn't spend many nights actually on the streets i was mostly in a squat and quite a few nights in a shelter and being a girl got a seperate room all to myself whereas the guys slept in a dorm clutching their belongings for fear of having them stolen during their sleep
its very degrading living like that having to eat in soup kitchens, scavenging in bins at the back of supermarkets for food (and the freegans think they invented that one rolleyes) picking up long dog ends for a smoke begging for money from strangers or even worse from friends actually that was the worse to see friends try thier hardest to avoid eye contact in the street for fear you was gonna ask for money
now i'm not looking for sympathy and you would be insulting me to give it so don't think that of me i just want people to stop and think because we all are just one pay packet away from a life on the streets
so stop. look around at what and who you have and thank your lucky stars that life is good even if it doesn't always feel that way it actually really is good be thankfull
happy birthday beautifull hope you have a truelly wonderfull day
:inlove::rose:
hi fergus
sorry hun no idea where you can get um from but just noticed ya a new poster so :welcome:
hope someone can help with your query
Quote by Kaznkev
ohhh fab ty ,thats great after discovering im apparently outsize at a 16 passionkiss

outsize bollux ffs woman who cares what size ya are sexy is a mind set not a dress size n you are one hell of a sexy woman now come ere n hug passionkiss
this was a prog i caught last night before switching the box off and i felt compeled to watch it

don't worry not whole prog just a bit about it
well it made me think i mean really think just how lucky i am even though it took time to get there my life has been fantastic really in the end
it started out pretty shit then found myself homeless and living rough luckily only for a few months then i got a slight leg up in the fact i got off thwe streets into a b & b then met my now hubby at the age of 17 and my life just got better and better now the point to all that babble is that watching that prog last night made me realise what a lucky escape i had
when i pass homeless on the streets it does make me stop and think and yes i do give to those begging as i know first hand that that few quid or pence in many cases can make a huge difference to your day
and i don't judge those that wish to use that money to buy their cheap cider or druhgs cause if i'm gonna be 100% honest here i wanted to get off my face the whole time too just to try and not have to face the reality of where my life was heading
as i sit here at my kitchen table watching yet more snow out of my window with game casserole cooking in my oven with my kids safe and sound in the room next to me knowing that later i will get a nice hot shower before switching on my electric blanket so i get into a nice warm bed to watch a dvd before drifting off to a very comfortable nights sleep i thank my lucky stars my life ended up the way it did as i know for fact that others that were living rough around the same time as me are either dead or still doing so
so i urge you if you get the chance to catch this prog at any time please do so as it will hopefully open some closed eyes to the plight of way too many people in this country
i think a lot of what stops me posting can be worrying what impression i am making andd this in itself makes me mad at myself in my vanilla life i couldn't give a flying fook what anyone thinks of me i know i am a good person and if someones opinion of me makes them not wish to get to know me then thats their loss
yet on here i feel slightly different there has been many times i have posted my opnion on something and the replies it recieves kinda make me feel like some of them are looking down their noses at me thinking what a load of bollux i am spouting and how ill educated i am to have such an opinion
well i have just decided that those that think that way aren't worth the time and energy worrying about they aren't the sort i would wanna meet anyhoo so i now will post my opinion and be damned i no longer care
gawd that is liberating lol remember now why i addopted that attidude in my vanilla life too now
so flipa
rotflmao
Quote by mrs-bmw
Well I`m not in anyones clique, I look thru the forum everyday and if I feel like posting I do, sometimes like Bouncy I delete it and think whats the point, I don`t get replies to my twopennorth but I`m not all that bothered to be honest, I just say what I say when I say it.
Some threads started by certain people are very contentious and I have found them extremely offensive and even found myself drawn in to replying to them, I`ve learnt my lesson now and stay out of those threads as when quite a few voiced their opinions the circle closed and it was a "oh they are brightening up the forum with their extreme opinions we should leave them alone", well I think we all can have extreme opinions but personally I would word it differently, a little tact wouldnt kill them I`m sure.
I want to read the forum and enjoy it at the end of the day
Like Bouncy I`ve read thru it and was going to delete it, my opinion doesn`t count anyway but there it is.

it does count hunny trust me it may not be approved of by those that think they are the only ones that matter but trust me there are many more like me that do take on board every single opinion wether i agree with it or not and in this case i do
Quote by Dirtygirly
my turn to resurect a post of my own thought a group hug could be in order again all things considered
so come on you orrid lot get in ere n hug
i'm built for hugs ya know :thumbup:

Clearly it's the time of year for the bickering and then the hugs! :giggle:

oooo think u might b right must b the winter blues that does it roll on spring i say so we can frollick in the meadows :grin:
so are you a thread starter or like me more of a poster
i used to think i was at times a bit of a thread starter but having trawled through all of my old posts looking for my first one ever i have found my memory as ever fails me and i was completely wrong in my remembering
i always thought i was a bit of a thread starter but my memory served me completely wrong i have started hardly any and i am definately more of a plain ole poster
although i am now going to try and be a more productive forumite and start hopefully posting some fun and maybe even thought provoking threads
yeah right tis gonna b just like my good intentions for excerise i start out with all the best will in the world but then it turns into a non starter rolleyes
my turn to resurect a post of my own thought a group hug could be in order again all things considered
so come on you orrid lot get in ere n hug
i'm built for hugs ya know:thumbup:
posted the day we joined
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/52372.html
Quote by bouncy332
so come on guys do u like a BBW to play with cause we need some new cock to play with in the northants area and would prefer a true BBW admirer so help me out and let me know if u exist biggrin

its funny looking back through old posts i find i only became active in the cafe in june 2008 i was only really active in the meets and dogging forums previously
i have found the first topic i started also about swinging whilst pregnant
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/285080.html
flumps i loved that prog
also a couple that have been mentioned already rhubarb and custard
and double deckers
ooooo and another one magic roundabout i woke up on the sofa after a night out once to the magic roundabout at around 5 in the morning the first time i had seen it as an adult very trippy so much stuff went right over my head as a kid or was i actually tripping i will never know lol
hong kong phooey
just keep remembering more and more gawd i was even a couch potato as a kid didn't stand a chance lol
i have one friend from here i just can't call by her real name as it just isn't her whereas her user name describes her perfectly
friends from here still call us mr & mrs B even in everyday situations so much so that one of my clients that has a surname beginin with B and the girls in the salon have taken to calling mrs B i have to litteraly stop myself answering when they talk to her
i always thought tune essance was tuna essance no idea why but whislt having a frank of views one time i said "Tuna dear boy" to have it promtly pointed out it was tune not tuna oh did i feel a fool and appologised promptly in fact i actually think my mistake was a good thing as it made for some giggles which rapidly diffused the whole thing and in fact turns out i kinda like ole tuna boy he is a decent sole :giggle:
Quote by Sassy-Seren

surely my opinion is just as important as evryone elses is

It sure it sweetcheeks wink
sorry have i got chocolate all over them again hang on n i'll get a cloth :giggle:
Oh my......now I'm having very dirty thoughts :twisted:
oh i say redface do share lol
Quote by Sassy-Seren

surely my opinion is just as important as evryone elses is

It sure it sweetcheeks wink
sorry have i got chocolate all over them again hang on n i'll get a cloth :giggle:
Quote by Thebonediggers
all the single ladies makes me smile if i see a guy singing it....and makes me think of leotard guy dancing to it on you tube!!
although i did change the lyrics slightly.....it still needs to be sung by a woman!!
All the single male-ys, All the single male-ys,
All the single male-ys, All the single male-ys,
Now put your hands up
Ya wanna join the club?, you just broke up?
Youre doing my own little thing?
Decided to dip and now you wanna trip
So you came and joined SH
You placed your ad, “I need a shag”
But youre not getting any attention
You cry your tears, it feels like years
When really its been only3 days
Cause if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
Don't be mad cos they aint queueing up for it
if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
Oh, oh, oh
You’ve got cock shots, “ what more do they want”
Its stretched up to look 5 inches
”Ive said Im clean, they know what I mean
Why aint they all falling over me? “
You want some sexual tension, did I mention
There aint no cast iron certainties
You have to wait your turn and you gotta learn
That swinging carries no guarantees!
Cause if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
Don't be mad cos they aint queueing up for it
if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
Oh, oh, oh
Don't treat the girls, like theyre some kind prize
Please don’t tell them lies
Your truth is what they prefer, what they deserve
Be a man that makes them, then takes them
And delivers them to a destiny, to infinity and beyond
Pull me into your arms, show them you have charms
If you don't, you'll be alone
And in the forums having a moan
All the single male-ys, All the single male-ys,
All the single male-ys, All the single male-ys,
Now put your hands up, oh, oh, oh
Cause if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
Don't be mad cos they aint queueing up for it
if you like it, then you should be prepared to wait for it
Oh, oh, oh
**the above poem is intended for entertainment purposes only...any resemblance to anyone living or dead is purley coincidental!!!!**

gawd your so bloody clever worship
made me giggle :giggle:
Quote by Thebonediggers

has it worked this time??

OMG :eeek:
that is just too funny
well funny this one i have posted very similar a couple of times before yet not as well worded admitedly but yet whilst looking back through the vaults for them they seem to of been removed rather odd
i have been using the forums for a good few years now and i have always felt its been a case of if your in with the in crowd which i most certainly ain't and thats no secret i don't like the group mentality and refuse to join in with it its not my bag i prefer to take every person on their own merits and even those i feel take advantage of their in crowd status i still take on board their views and opinions but do feel that they get away with much more than the rest of us
was just about to delete and not post as i way too often do
i'm fed up with starting to type my opinion then think oh whats the point and delete it
surely my opinion is just as important as evryone elses is
then why do i feel all the eyes rolling as they read mine then and see it in the replys
just for once i am going to click submit and to hell with it
just wish i had the eloquance to put things better
Quote by mrmnmrsg
my memory, mrm's really bad, I ask the same questions over and over again, G gets annoyed with it sometimes Im sure, like for today for instance, she started work at mid day and this morning for the 3rd time I was told I asked what time she was starting work, it's worse than that, I can study for 6 months for a promotion exam and as soon as I sit infront of that exam paper it all goes........
I'm useless Im sure lol
MrM
x

omg mr b does that drives me insane with it will ask me what time i finish work 4 times then when i loose my rag at the fith time of asking he will absolutely insist he hasn't even asked once before :doh:
Quote by Sgt Bilko
..... When you move to the other side of the world but still can't resist popping in here to see whats been going on!! redfaceredfaceredface

awww sarge good to see ya gorgeous don't arf miss ya kiss
i knew i was an addict when i put the computer on before the kettle :eeek: