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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire

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kids playing dress up is one thing but parents treating kids as mini adults is another all together and its becoming all too common
let kids b kids we are old way too long so let them enjoy childish ways
i have a friend who insisted on telling her son he is sexy from a baby i mean honestly how could he be sexy he is a child handsome, cute or gorgeous even but never sexy, she seems to encourage him to b older than his years talking about things he would wish to do with his girlfriend (they are 7) that i'm sure anyone with any morals would be horrified at but she finds hilarious that a 7 year old knows such things, i fear they are heading for a mighty fall at this rate, i have known this friend forever since we were younger than her son is now and i know this has nothing to do with how she was brought up, another friend well actually aquantance really found it highly amusing that her 6 year old daughter copied her pole dancing routine she did for fitness declairing "doesn't she look sexy" NOOOOOOOOOOO she doesn't ffs the worst was she was getting the child to perform the routine for anyone that would watch glowing with pride
i'm sorry but i just don't get it, i have 2 sons and i have always been incredibly open with them answering any questions they had but always keeping it age appropriate and never encouraging them to grow up faster than their years dictate
i feel too many parents see their children as an accesory to show off and the trend is sadly mini adults
and this isn't jordon bashing its moronic parent bashing
for me its her lack of humility
and the fact that she promotes herself as a charity campaigner which i think is to try and show her as a selfless person but yet it smacks of selfishness to me might sound odd but makes sense in my head :silly:
i actually tried to admire her for doing the dancing on ice prog as i hoped it would encourage others with disabilities to try their hardest to overcome adversity but yet it still felt like a self promotion gig for her
i did try though
Quote by brucie

i'm guessing this was actually meant to be this

as he designed most of the outfits in the video
if not then i'm very confused as to the link you put maybe just over my head
huge huge loss to the fashion industry he was an amazing talent he was enough to make this fat bird wish she was skinny and rich at times
the link is to an israeli band. the song is "another brother goes down in to the grave". its about losing a brother in arms but fitting when ever any young life is lost needlessly. feel the vibe.
ahh right well makes sense then just the next one on the list next to it was the one i posted kinda spooky that then
vibe felt
Quote by brucie

i'm guessing this was actually meant to be this

as he designed most of the outfits in the video
if not then i'm very confused as to the link you put maybe just over my head
huge huge loss to the fashion industry he was an amazing talent he was enough to make this fat bird wish she was skinny and rich at times
i was 36 weeks pregnant with our oldest son so i was lounging in front of tv like a bloated couch potato and watched it on the news on a tv that had the worst picture you have ever seen so i guess i listened to it rather than watched it lol
desperate describes it best for me i think
he was never my sense of humour anyway to be fair
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right time for the next bbw bash and chams has rather kindly agreed to us having it on EASTER SUNDAY so those that have had trouble attending before due to work commitments should by rights find this the most convenient one yet as you have the bank hol monday next day to recover
now obviously with this being EASTER SUNDAY couldn't resist themeing it so i expect to see you all make an effort to be on theme so heres a few ideas to get your creative juices flowing something simple like easter bunny or an easter bonnet or easter eggs, chicks or hot cross buns lol oh i don't know get ya thinking caps on and lets see what you can come up with most creative will win a prize so pop this date in ya diaries and lets see ya there
SUNDAY 4TH APRIL
with it being a sunday times will be 2pm - 1 am so those that have the stamina can make a day of it or just an afternoon for those with work so hopefully a much more accessable day for everyone
it will be the same as last time its a normal club night so dress code is normal club dress code unless your entering into the easter spirit and dressing in theme then they can b bent a little but only a little and all the usual rules apply and remember there is no pressure to play for those that just wish to socialise then grab a bevvie n chat the night away to your hearts content and for those that do wish to play there are plenty of rooms both open and private to play till ya legs turn to jelly lol
those that didn't make it last time and are nervous just chat with someone that did attend and they will soon put your mind at rest there really is nothing to be nervous of this is a great way to attend a club for the first time amongst friends you know from the site
here is the link to chameleons website so you can check out any queries you may have

don't be put off by the dress code its lingerie or towel for the ladies and shorts or towel for the guys this may sound daunting but it feels oddly rather normal once your there as everyone is the same
membership is not required but you must bring 2 forms of id if your not a member and you must be on the guest list to recieve the reduced entry fee
cost of entry is reduced for this party night
COUPLES £15
SINGLE GALS £5
SINGLE GUYS £25
YOU WILL OF NOTICED THIS IS A PRICE INCREASE BUT THE CLUB WILL BE HAVING A PRICE INCREASE SOON SO THIS IS INLINE WITH THEIR NEW PRICING STRUCTURE
i will send hotel details and taxi numbers for those that require them just let me know
so come u lot lets have a top BBW bash
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284 omfg well you best all breath in gonna be standing room only at this rate
***PLEASE BE AWARE THIS EVENT IS ADVERTISED ON OTHER SITES SO NON SH MEMEBERS WILL BE ATTENDING***
had to dig this one up again just been listening to my friends sons band and i'm loving them so thought i would share with ya too
they have been goin a short while and are just about to support the lost prophets so are doin real well
hope you like

Quote by jesster
Hands up who has a scooby on their key-ring?

Not on my keyring, but i have 2 in a pot here. lol
Lost count of how many i helped my daughter make when the were all the rage a few years ago. Even made the owl which had sticky on wobbly eyes lol
omg i'm so glad others got caught on the scooby thing we were all doin them in my salon ffs very adictive they became looked like a bunch of overgrown 5 year olds we did lol
Quote by Kaznkev
After having to lose my temper big time with my daughters school....which made me cry !!
I lost my temper because they are the biggest fuck ups you ever had the misfortune to meet.
I just signed in to my emails to find the letter of apology.....
So what`s wrong with that I hear you cry !!!
It`s addressed to the wrong fuckin person !!! bangheadbangheadbanghead

awww hun can totally sympathise :therethere:
got a meeting at the school tonight over my youngest and i am planning to let them have it both barrels but i'm sure the tears will come too i often cry when angry through sheer frustration i'm not the brightest button in the box so in those situations they often talk me into confusion
they claim to of been trying to get hold of me for a while as things have reached crisis point yet there have been no messages on our answer phone and no missed calls on either mine or mr b's mobs and no letters in the post so they haven't exactly tried very hard have they when the first time they called i answered
:fuckinghell:
not looking forward to it at all
bouncy kiss
good luck, take a written list of point you wantto address abnd dont be afraid to refer to it,if you feel they are confusing you ask them to repeat untill you do understand.
I too cry when i get angry ,counting to 10 and regulating my breathing really helps .
Its too late for tonight but if it is an ongoing situation contacting your local parent support network may help for any future meetings, they may be able to send an advocate with you next time
And dont start me on admin and schools!
awww ty hunny for your help but thankfully it all went really well the guy we saw was the head and he was great he appologised straight away and admitted that they hadn't made a full effort to inform us of the situation sooner and they were going to do everything they could to sort out the problem
so absolutly no tears left there feeling much more confident that our lad will complete his A levels well 2 of them at least still gutted he has to drop one of them but that has been purely down to his own attitude not the school so can't be mad at them so at least we now know we got to kick his butt daily and make sure work is being completed and not just trust his word plus he has promised to complete them before starting phase one of his army training so was a good day after all
my fave client told me today that she was asked by a gentleman at her church if she would ever considered having a gentleman friend
she is 83 and widowed 5 years and the sweetest lady you could ever meet it just gave me a warm glow to see her looking like a giddy teenager over it
Quote by flower411
After having to lose my temper big time with my daughters school....which made me cry !!
I lost my temper because they are the biggest fuck ups you ever had the misfortune to meet.
I just signed in to my emails to find the letter of apology.....
So what`s wrong with that I hear you cry !!!
It`s addressed to the wrong fuckin person !!! bangheadbangheadbanghead

awww hun can totally sympathise :therethere:
got a meeting at the school tonight over my youngest and i am planning to let them have it both barrels but i'm sure the tears will come too i often cry when angry through sheer frustration i'm not the brightest button in the box so in those situations they often talk me into confusion
they claim to of been trying to get hold of me for a while as things have reached crisis point yet there have been no messages on our answer phone and no missed calls on either mine or mr b's mobs and no letters in the post so they haven't exactly tried very hard have they when the first time they called i answered
:fuckinghell:
not looking forward to it at all
well i wouldn't wanna try listing all the diff things mr b has tried over the years wouldn't be so bad but you lot are talkin bout when you stuff you tried as teenagers my ole fool still tries stuff now tut never grown up i guess lol
when i was 15 i used to use an impulse bottle as a dildo but one time i didn't realise i had it lid first going in and the bloody lid popped off inside :eeek: boy did i panic managed to fish it out eventually but it had me scared for a bit trying to work out how i was gonna explain that one away
bloody stupid game anyhoo look at the tiswas it get folks into and the money they get paid ffs
loony tunes :silly:
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Whatever is spent is down to the people and, I won't judge or be judged on the amount of zeros in the total.

totally agree its all a personal choice thing but have to admit i have always had a private internal smug grin at the fact my hubbys brother and his wife spent 10,000 on thiers 2 years after we wed had the works horse drawn carraige the lot yet it only lasted 18 months and i always felt that was because they were more into the whole wedding thing rather than the actual marraige, if someone wishes to spend a fortune and have a mind blowing extravaganza of a wedding then thats their choice i just hope that they keep in mind that after the confetti has all blown away there is then a marraige to work at and you do have to work at it but boy is it worth it i wouldn't change a single thing and i hope to one day be celebrating our golden anniversary with a huge smile on my face knowing it was £200 well spent lol
no dress i wore leather and he wore denim, no church was local registry office calling into wimpy on route for breakfast, only attended by close family and friends then back to my aunt n uncles pub for a small buffet and drinkies then home when pub shut at 3 pre all day opening spent afternoon consumating it then back to local pub with mates in the evening would be gobsmaked if we spent more than £200 and we are about to celebrate our 21st anniversary in april and i wouldn't change a thing its all about the marraige not the weddding
yes cut and pasted from earlier posting i know but having lazy day you was lucky to of got that much out of me first time round lol
i'm going to look into local operas see if i can give it a taste that way i think
thankyou for your help been very usefull guys
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mmmm a good question whips
Well im hoping for my own personal groundhog day tommorrow,the snows even returned !:giggle:
If i had to choose just one,probably my wedding day
,no white dress(a pair of liberty shorts and pink silk t shirt)
no romantic venue,East ham registry office,
10 friends,the reception was a vegetarian banquet cooked by our 2 friends who d grown up in india,after i showed them where east ham high rd was lol
I was woken by my best girlfriend with a glass of champagne and fell asleep in kevs arms on the sofa,Im not even sure we have any photoes but it is a day i could relive over and over again.

awwww hunny thats lovely
ours was slightly similar
no dress i wore leather and he wore denim, no church was local registry office calling into wimpy on route for breakfast, only attended by close family and friends then back to my aunt n uncles pub for a small buffet and drinkies then home when pub shut at 3 pre all day opening spent afternoon consumating it then back to local pub with mates in the evening would be gobsmaked if we spent more than £200 and we are about to celebrate our 21st anniversary in april and i wouldn't change a thing its all about the marraige not the weddding and yes that would also be my groundhog day
Quote by Kaznkev
Im no buff,paddle in the shallows of opera but Madame butterfly is wonderful,
its relativly modern and the music is sublime,
briefly the plot is a japanese woman who falls in love with an american,has his illigitimate child and waits for him to return, i wont tell you the end, but this link gives a flavour

very beautifull
ty hunny
just trying la traviata for size at the mo liking it but i am thinking would be worth while researching the story before i commited to seeing one or maybe get cd so i'm not going in blind
but then i'm thinking maybe the impact of going in blind might be quite good fun
toad in the hole with a big pile of creamy mash cauliflowerand leeks with cheese sauce over them and roast onin gravy mmmmmmmmmmm mmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
well i just decided on dinner lol
now i know your a cultured bunch and i'm guessing proper opera buffs would never even consider watching popstar to opera star but having dipped into it myself i have found there are a hell of a lot of arias that i love so i'm thinkin i might just like to go and experience an opera so i'm asking advice from those that are in the know
what would be a good place to start?
would it be listening to it on dvd to be able to pick one that grabs me to actually see?
or is there one anyone could suggest as a good starting point to look out for to actually go and see?
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thanks cubes been a while ...............been there but just watchin .....ya know what i mean but thanks for the reply.
trav..

ello stranger good to see ya back :rose: