bloody busy
being a hairdresser its a manic month trying to fit all my clients in and get everything organised for christmas day i mean how can one day take up so much of the preceding month
i do now take crimbo eve off last year due to a friends wedding and i enjoyed having a nice chilled day before crimbo day so will be doing the same this year and can't wait just hope my plan to have everything done by the 23rd happens otherwise i will be running round like a headless chicken as per
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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire
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Sex God
the best advice i can give is don't go with any expectations of play just go with the idea of going to find out what the place is like and if play comes your way a bonus
we have been going to clubs for a few years now chams being our favourite due to the relaxed friendly all welcoming atmosphere so if the place you talk of is anything like it you will be sure of a great night
when we first went it was nerve wracking and we were unsure due to the dress code but within 5 mins of being in there we felt so comfortable and at ease in our state of undress it was quite odd
i think the place you mention has a clothed dress code though so that wouldn't be an issue but not certain so best check their site for dress code hun
try not to b shrinking violets get nattering to as many peeps as poss even if you don't find them your bag just cause you say hi how are you does not commit you to playing with them, we have lots of friends made at clubs that we are possably not their cuppa sexually but are great to socialise with we don't think that if someone chats with us then we best shag um
and to be honest some of the best fun we have had has been someone that just walks upto us and asks if we wanna go to a room and not much chatting done just lots of shagging and glad they did ask cause niether of us have the nerve to ask someone outright sadly wish we could sometimes cause there have been plenty we wanted to :sad:
i'm babbling again sorry
so basically just intend to go for a chill out evening and if anything happens fantastic
hope thats of some sort of help
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we have been going to clubs for a few years now chams being our favourite due to the relaxed friendly all welcoming atmosphere so if the place you talk of is anything like it you will be sure of a great night
when we first went it was nerve wracking and we were unsure due to the dress code but within 5 mins of being in there we felt so comfortable and at ease in our state of undress it was quite odd
i think the place you mention has a clothed dress code though so that wouldn't be an issue but not certain so best check their site for dress code huntry not to b shrinking violets get nattering to as many peeps as poss even if you don't find them your bag just cause you say hi how are you does not commit you to playing with them, we have lots of friends made at clubs that we are possably not their cuppa sexually but are great to socialise with we don't think that if someone chats with us then we best shag um
and to be honest some of the best fun we have had has been someone that just walks upto us and asks if we wanna go to a room and not much chatting done just lots of shagging and glad they did ask cause niether of us have the nerve to ask someone outright sadly wish we could sometimes cause there have been plenty we wanted to :sad:
i'm babbling again sorry
so basically just intend to go for a chill out evening and if anything happens fantastic
hope thats of some sort of help
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Sex God
my fear for the guy is that aspergers sufferers are very literal and faultlisly honest not understanding the concept of dishonesty and the top dollar law folk will twist and turn the poor guy till he won't know which way is up and he won't stand a chance so i for one hope it won't even make it that far
Sex God
the poor poor guy i can't even begin to imagine how i would make a decision i think i would go for my son first but unless in that situation where you have so many split second decisions to make then you can never truelly call it
life throws such utterly cruel curve balls at us
life throws such utterly cruel curve balls at us
Sex God
i have been thinking what impressions that we get of people are correct
when i first started using the forums there were peeps on here i got the impression were just looking for an arguement constantly but now realise that some things can be misconstrued in txt as there is no hint wether its meant seriously or jokingly
i sometimes think i might give the impression of being an ill educated, ill mannered bolshy little bitch ok so the ill educated bit might b right but i like to think the rest would b wrong
oh ffs now i'm worried i'm giving the impression i want everyone to jump in n go no no my dear we think your lovely i'm really not wanting that at all
the actual point i was trying to make is i have found over the time i have been using the forums i have learnt that the when i think someone is a brat that actually they ain't
omg i babble bollux sorry
wat started this was lp's voices thread some of the voices i read in have real attitude to them but i have since reassesed my perception of their character but yet their voice still has the attitude in my head funny one that
when i first started using the forums there were peeps on here i got the impression were just looking for an arguement constantly but now realise that some things can be misconstrued in txt as there is no hint wether its meant seriously or jokingly
i sometimes think i might give the impression of being an ill educated, ill mannered bolshy little bitch ok so the ill educated bit might b right but i like to think the rest would b wrong
oh ffs now i'm worried i'm giving the impression i want everyone to jump in n go no no my dear we think your lovely i'm really not wanting that at all
the actual point i was trying to make is i have found over the time i have been using the forums i have learnt that the when i think someone is a brat that actually they ain't
omg i babble bollux sorry
wat started this was lp's voices thread some of the voices i read in have real attitude to them but i have since reassesed my perception of their character but yet their voice still has the attitude in my head funny one that
Sex God
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
not meaning to be pernickety but you deff said you felt we should not judge her
ok ok so i did mean to be pernickerty
please don't judge me for it :twisted:
I agree, my only earlyer point was, which got lost, is that some are happy to judge others while in other threads complain about being judged.
chill ya boots only messin with ya ok point taken will refrain from moanin if i ever feel judged again you have managed to convert me
May I just compliment you on your gorgeous nipple, well I am sure you have a pair but I can only see one. sorry for bing a pain in the ass
sorry i don't do anal
Sex God
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
not meaning to be pernickety but you deff said you felt we should not judge her
ok ok so i did mean to be pernickerty
please don't judge me for it :twisted:
I agree, my only earlyer point was, which got lost, is that some are happy to judge others while in other threads complain about being judged.
chill ya boots only messin with ya ok point taken will refrain from moanin if i ever feel judged again you have managed to convert me
Sex God
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
not meaning to be pernickety but you deff said you felt we should not judge her
ok ok so i did mean to be pernickerty
please don't judge me for it :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
I for one judge people all the time. Constantly. Abrasively. and very very Harshly.
Well, those that deserve it anyway.
However, this may form an opinion, and draw a picture of that person that will inform me as to how I act should towards or around that person.
My opinion of them may be formed, but it is certainly not rigid.
My 'judgement' of them may be formed quickly, but is always open to adjustment.
I have my own measures by which I treat people, whatever my opinion of them in the first instance may be.
I will only adjust my own (dare I say 'fare') treatment of people should they confirm or give me reason to adjust that treatment.
Forming an opinion, indeed 'judging' people is a natural thing... one of our basic 'animal instincts', evolved from the 'fight or flight' reaction. It may have been 'sophisticated' through or glorious evolutution and complicated thought process, but basic it remains.
It's not the 'judging' that is wrong... it is how you use that judgement to inform your treatment of others.
now then, as for them there flk on the tele, do they not rely on their persona's to build a career? They deserve whatever they get if that is what they present.
in all fairness, that KP woman is a bit of a cu...
lp
now thats wat i was trying to say just haven't got the eloquence dear lp has
Sex God
we talked about it for many years and even put adds in contact mags back in the day but i kept chickening out actually meeting anyone
then we stumbled across dogging litterally, we had gone out for the night to the cinema which finished earlier than anticipated so decided to make most of evening and have a bit of outdoor fun so went to a car park we knew expecting it to b quiet as it was late at night and in the middle of nowhere but found it fuller than we had ever seen it in the day frightened the life outta me but curiosity over took fear and we stuck around to find out what was occuring and then found ourselves becoming regular night time visitors to the car park
then after finding out our new activity was called dogging and getting our first pc we signed up to a few sites this being one of them and have since moved on to clubs and left dogging behind who needs a cold wet carpark when you can have a hot wet jacuzzi
then we stumbled across dogging litterally, we had gone out for the night to the cinema which finished earlier than anticipated so decided to make most of evening and have a bit of outdoor fun so went to a car park we knew expecting it to b quiet as it was late at night and in the middle of nowhere but found it fuller than we had ever seen it in the day
frightened the life outta me but curiosity over took fear and we stuck around to find out what was occuring and then found ourselves becoming regular night time visitors to the car parkthen after finding out our new activity was called dogging and getting our first pc we signed up to a few sites this being one of them and have since moved on to clubs and left dogging behind who needs a cold wet carpark when you can have a hot wet jacuzzi
Sex God
Quote by The_libertine69
Just logged on and looked at my Inbox, and Sent box, and there were a whole bunch of messages there, a good number of which I'd saved.
I browsed around the site, including chatroom, and went to reply to a message I'd recently received and every, and I mean every, of my e-mails had gone from the Inbox and Sent folder. Not even ones sent/received inside the last 30 days were there!
WTF happened as it certainly wasn't anything I did!!
mine too site seems to have gremlins at the mo stuff not working properly i'm sure normal service will resume shortly
Sex God
Quote by Bluefish2009
This was aimed at any one person in particular. I have just been a little surprised by how easily we condemn others, I wonder if we would all say the same things if we were all face to face in the same room or would choose our words more carefully?
Now I am judging others, what does this place do to you? I am getting out while I still can
see my point exactly you can't help but judge we do it without even meaning to it doesn't make us bad people just human
it only becomes bad when we get nasty and personal with it
if you read wat i write and think nah she isn't my cuppa i would rather not get to know her better then thats cool but if you read it and then get nasty calling me a fat ugly idiot for my opinions then thats not cool
i think i would choose my words more carefully if face to face in the same room as someone but only as i don't like to be intentionally cruel to anyone but i would still put my opinion across even if worded a little more carefully than i would here
i think that sometimes peeps forget this is a forum that is for discussion on how we feel about things or people, to do it without looking judgemental would make for a very boring forum with hardly anyone cotributing which to be honest i feel it is getting that way as many have dropped off posting for fear of being judged a bad person for posting what essentially they are really being invited to post
Sex God
as i said on a previous post we are only human and it is human nature to make judgements
can you honestly tell me you never ever make a snap judgement on someone on a first meeting? that judgement may be proved wrong on getting to know the person but you still made an initial judgement
i know i have judgements made about me every day and i'm sure you are making a judgement about me whilst reading what i have written
if you think about it you have made a judgement on others by judging them judgemental or maybe you would disagree
blimey i'd love to be as perfect as you naver making any judgements
can you honestly tell me you never ever make a snap judgement on someone on a first meeting? that judgement may be proved wrong on getting to know the person but you still made an initial judgement
i know i have judgements made about me every day and i'm sure you are making a judgement about me whilst reading what i have written
if you think about it you have made a judgement on others by judging them judgemental or maybe you would disagree
blimey i'd love to be as perfect as you naver making any judgements
