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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire
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you often see abuse handed out in the bbw room peeps think that cause we aren't ya perfect size 10 then we are fair game to abuse these are obviously knob heads that do not know anything of wat is considered to be a good swinging attitude of being non judgemental
if something is not your cup of tea then you just walk on by no need to be nasty to them there are plenty of peeps on here for them to be able to find thier perfect cuppa
if something is not your cup of tea then you just walk on by no need to be nasty to them there are plenty of peeps on here for them to be able to find thier perfect cuppa
Sex God
i would just like to defend those that are organising "socials" at clubs i myself organise the BBW ones at chams but do not call it a "social" as i felt it wasn't actually a social as play went on there so i called it the "BBW bash" but i think others call them socials as they didn't have any idea wat else to call them not to mislead any one
we originally decided to do them as we had many bbw friends expressing an interest to attend chams and wanted hands holding but we struggled to find dates where we could suit everyone so as we had attended other gatherings there that a friend organises we decided it would be a good idea to do the bbw bash there too as it would give other bbw's that were self concious for watever reason the chance to relax and enjoy thier first experience of a club in the company of like bodied women and men that lust after those wobbly bits without worrying if they would be the only wobbly one in the place
it was meant as a one off but it was so popular that many others that were unable to attend asked for another then another and now yet another
i would like to make it very very clear i do not get paid a single penny for the night and it does take quite a bit of organsing admitedly only sendin invites out answering pm's and generating guest lists but this does take up a fair bit of time but our only perk is we get to enter the club on that night only for free and everyone else gets a reduction it is not done to promote the club it is purely done for the enjoyment of the BBW's that attend with thier partners and any single guy that enjoys the company of BBW's
there is plenty of peeps that do go to just socialise and do not join in with the play which is all good there is no pressure for anyone to join in with the play which might be the reason as to why others call thiers a social maybe a "social with perks if you wish" might be more apt any other suggestions will be gratefully considered
yes the club does benefit from having a night that is busier than a normal thursday night but then they do give a very generous discount for entry so i feel it is a win win all round
sorry if these nights offend anyones sensibilities but your not having a gun to your head and being forced to attend they are there if your interested if not the trot on by
these nights that we and others organise are a great chance for those that wish to mix socialising and playing altogether on one place which i for one think is great and lookin at the numbers we get attending these nights so do many others
so long may they continue
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we originally decided to do them as we had many bbw friends expressing an interest to attend chams and wanted hands holding but we struggled to find dates where we could suit everyone so as we had attended other gatherings there that a friend organises we decided it would be a good idea to do the bbw bash there too as it would give other bbw's that were self concious for watever reason the chance to relax and enjoy thier first experience of a club in the company of like bodied women and men that lust after those wobbly bits without worrying if they would be the only wobbly one in the place
it was meant as a one off but it was so popular that many others that were unable to attend asked for another then another and now yet another
i would like to make it very very clear i do not get paid a single penny for the night and it does take quite a bit of organsing admitedly only sendin invites out answering pm's and generating guest lists but this does take up a fair bit of time but our only perk is we get to enter the club on that night only for free and everyone else gets a reduction it is not done to promote the club it is purely done for the enjoyment of the BBW's that attend with thier partners and any single guy that enjoys the company of BBW's
there is plenty of peeps that do go to just socialise and do not join in with the play which is all good there is no pressure for anyone to join in with the play which might be the reason as to why others call thiers a social maybe a "social with perks if you wish" might be more apt any other suggestions will be gratefully considered
yes the club does benefit from having a night that is busier than a normal thursday night but then they do give a very generous discount for entry so i feel it is a win win all round
sorry if these nights offend anyones sensibilities but your not having a gun to your head and being forced to attend they are there if your interested if not the trot on by
these nights that we and others organise are a great chance for those that wish to mix socialising and playing altogether on one place which i for one think is great and lookin at the numbers we get attending these nights so do many others
so long may they continue
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Quote by Miss_B_Having
well my day started with what i think was a couple of bloody insults :shock:
as the taxi driver picked me up for work this morning for work with my face freshly applied hair freshly styled the cheeky bugger said
"end of a heavy night"
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
what was he trying to say???
no i replyed the start of one feeling hurt thinkin i must make even more effort at this rate
then as he dropped me at work (hairdressers) he said
"oh you got the first appointment then have ya"
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
i don't think he was intentionally trying to insult me but this poor guys attempt at conversation didn't start my day the way i would of liked
needless to say i didn't give the man a tip :cry:
so who else has been thrown off guard by unmeant insults?
Cheeky fecker, moral of this story is catch a bus next time
Talkin of unmeant insults someone did make a comment the other day about my cam and the fact he had a widescreen monitor, he sooooooooo didn't mean it the way it sounded but I thought it was funny as feck - I think I'm warped!!
bus bus good gawd no would mean gettin up an hour earlier n u know me lazy bint that likes her bed
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Quote by meat2pleaseu
then as he dropped me at work (hairdressers) he said
"oh you got the first appointment then have ya"
Should have said 'yes, i'm going for a job interview so i don't end up working as a fekin minicab driver'
fraid i was thrown off guard witty retorts all came to mind a good hour later hate it when that happens 
Sex God
well my day started with what i think was a couple of bloody insults :shock:
as the taxi driver picked me up for work this morning for work with my face freshly applied hair freshly styled the cheeky bugger said
"end of a heavy night"
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
what was he trying to say???
no i replyed the start of one feeling hurt thinkin i must make even more effort at this rate
then as he dropped me at work (hairdressers) he said
"oh you got the first appointment then have ya"
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
i don't think he was intentionally trying to insult me but this poor guys attempt at conversation didn't start my day the way i would of liked
needless to say i didn't give the man a tip :cry:
so who else has been thrown off guard by unmeant insults?
as the taxi driver picked me up for work this morning for work with my face freshly applied hair freshly styled the cheeky bugger said
"end of a heavy night"
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
what was he trying to say???
no i replyed the start of one feeling hurt thinkin i must make even more effort at this rate
then as he dropped me at work (hairdressers) he said
"oh you got the first appointment then have ya"
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
i don't think he was intentionally trying to insult me but this poor guys attempt at conversation didn't start my day the way i would of liked
needless to say i didn't give the man a tip :cry:
so who else has been thrown off guard by unmeant insults?
uch: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell: :doh: Sex God
Quote by Maggiejames52
Hmm, I don't own a basque either. James always says I should be more daring in what I wear but being big I am very wary of what I look like. Is this the time and the place I lose my inhibitions in this respect?
I will have to think about it...............
oh it most definately is hun if i can squeeze my rolls into one then anyone can go for it bet you'll look absolutly gorgeous in one
its not compulsory though its just for fun its much more important you feel comfy in every aspect
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Sex God
i think i umderstand where you are coming from i often feel on the perifory as my posts are not as eloquent as most 
and i often just post silly innane comments as i can't be arsed with argueing :shock: as it often feels a couple tend to do there are some here that i think just chip in with subtle put downs nothin obvious but can be cutting all the same and unless i feel really strongly about something it just doesn't seem worth commenting on
in fact i have lost count of the times i have started to reply to a thread got half way through n thought nah not worth it n deleted the lot purely cause i think many on ere would groan to even see i have posted never mind wat they would reply to my post
so yes i do think there is a kinda clique ere n i do think you have to be a certain type of peep to be allowed to infiltrate that clique rather than amount of posts i mean ours says over 900 posts now and that is actually a mistake as we have been ere since 2004 (still shows as such on prof just not on ere) and posting most of that time just that for some odd reason it wiped our joining date and amount of posts so at a guess it would of been knockin on for more 2000 by now and yet still feel on the sidelines so no number of posts counts for nowt in my book
don't get me wrong there r some real lovely peeps ere some of which i would love to go out for a bevvie or three with get to know better and they have always made me feel welcome but oddly enough these are ones i have never thought of as being in with the in crowd these are ones i have found to be just plain old good individuals
i hope no-one takes this as me whinging cause i'm not i'm quite happy on the sidelines i always have been in my own little blonde world and have no prob with the way things are just trying to be polite n reply n let the op know they are not alone
and i often just post silly innane comments as i can't be arsed with argueing :shock: as it often feels a couple tend to do there are some here that i think just chip in with subtle put downs nothin obvious but can be cutting all the same and unless i feel really strongly about something it just doesn't seem worth commenting onin fact i have lost count of the times i have started to reply to a thread got half way through n thought nah not worth it n deleted the lot purely cause i think many on ere would groan to even see i have posted never mind wat they would reply to my post
so yes i do think there is a kinda clique ere n i do think you have to be a certain type of peep to be allowed to infiltrate that clique rather than amount of posts i mean ours says over 900 posts now and that is actually a mistake as we have been ere since 2004 (still shows as such on prof just not on ere) and posting most of that time just that for some odd reason it wiped our joining date and amount of posts so at a guess it would of been knockin on for more 2000 by now and yet still feel on the sidelines so no number of posts counts for nowt in my book
don't get me wrong there r some real lovely peeps ere some of which i would love to go out for a bevvie or three with get to know better and they have always made me feel welcome but oddly enough these are ones i have never thought of as being in with the in crowd these are ones i have found to be just plain old good individuals
i hope no-one takes this as me whinging cause i'm not i'm quite happy on the sidelines i always have been in my own little blonde world and have no prob with the way things are just trying to be polite n reply n let the op know they are not alone
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
you say shame on the magazine but what about her, i was reading a magazine the other day and as i was going thro it there was a picture of her looking very ill in bed at home with her kids sat at the side of her looking very sad......sorry but shame on her for allowing that pic to be taken and published, theres a fine line and allowing pics of your children crying at your dieing bedside is not only crossing that line its wiping your feet on it on your way over :shock:
couldn't agree more ok she wants to make money for thier future her choice yes but some dignity is called for i feel
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i remember one year when i was ickle (about7ish) i took my saved up pennies to the local shop which had a very limited stock as it was only a small village shop but for some reason i thought oven gloves would make a top pressie i was dead chuffed with my choice my mum made all the right noises bless her but now i look back on it i think nooooooooo even a bunch of hand picked daffs would of made a better pressie
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Quote by creampie123
I had a huge crush on my physics teacher and got caught twice with a pic of him that Id printed off the school's intranet. The 2nd time I was caught by my resistant materials actually printing it offcos got the first one confiscated
Miss Cream xxx
i think thats wood work, metal work and plastic work to us oldies init!!!!
That's the one :thumbup:
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I was meant to say resistant materials teacher
Miss Cream xxx
well i'm feeling really old we never even had the internet when i was at school :shock:
i was a good girl me never got in any trouble
might of had summat to do with the fact i was hardly there though :grin:
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Quote by Freckledbird
The main benefit of the monarchy is that they understand that they have no power, no responsibility to anyone, and no need to seek approval. They are toothless for a reason.
So what exactly is the point of them being there? A head of state with no power may as well be an ordinary citizen. Why should the head of state just be the descendants of the family that just happened to be the most ruthless of all the waring tribes - the Mafia of their day.
I would rather elect someone than have them foisted upon us.
You do elect someone - when you vote.
no one voted for gordon brown though did they
Nah, TB just got up one day, said 'eyup Gordie, take over for me, will ya?'.
The Labour party was elected by the majority of the people who voted - the ministers elected their leader, didn't they?
exactly we don't elect um they do
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Quote by Resonance
Hmmm... Sounds to me like your Omparian Scudaruff has gone into the "B'schaenk" mode and that is causing a conflict with your M.D Pubic Ram slot.
Have you tried switching it off and back on again? I believe one time I did that and in doing so solved the Arab / Israeli conflict.
you loon :silly: :giggle:
