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Hi we are now listing septembers social / party to be held in burton on trent (just 9 miles from derby)
It's to be held on friday september 12th start with a late bar.
All S.H. members (forum / photo ads / and chatroom people) are welcome, plus our ts,and tv friends may make an appearance again as you made them feel very welcome at our last derby social.
We are now into our third year arranging socials here in derby.
this will be our 30th social.
We have secured another pub in burton on trent with a purpose built disco room and a downstairs chill out lounge (with pool table)(topless pool tournament maybe lol).
All regulars and newcomers will be made welcome,please reply to this thread
or private mail us.
There will be a disco upstairs, plus we have use of the lounge and an interesting courtyard, usual nibbles and raffle with very nice prizes again.
If your celebrating a birthday please let us know.
Due to recent publications in the cafe forum we respectfully ask you NOT to bring camera / recording equipment to our socials for our guests peace of mind.
1fcmidslad
3ormoreisfun
albion451
ali-chris69
bandscpl-uk
benson1
bi-fun-couple
bigboxfan
blkmale736+1
buxom-minx
cameron44
cherry-pie
cherrytv
chrissycduk
cleananddescret
danne-gary
deejay1981 (pm)
derbylad2001
dereckthemelongod
djcooperman
easycome
farmers boy
hotrod9
hj47
jayluvs69
kaz-allen
kinder75
letshavefun01
lolly +2
malmar
mandj2007
mims
mollyandchris
monty and jessy
muses+1
mw2
nicebutnaughty
nigekaz1
nikkinwuk
penfold73
projectman21
puscracker
rept
ronkriss25
sexybabe44
simply-me2008
skins
smile123+1
stan320man
stephannie
steveandpaula
stokefuncple
tammbie
thistle-rose
tricky4you22
tonylisa200
toomy10
topsy240965
twos69
+27 from another site
It's to be held on friday september 12th start with a late bar.
All S.H. members (forum / photo ads / and chatroom people) are welcome, plus our ts,and tv friends may make an appearance again as you made them feel very welcome at our last derby social.
We are now into our third year arranging socials here in derby.
this will be our 30th social.
We have secured another pub in burton on trent with a purpose built disco room and a downstairs chill out lounge (with pool table)(topless pool tournament maybe lol).
All regulars and newcomers will be made welcome,please reply to this thread
or private mail us.
There will be a disco upstairs, plus we have use of the lounge and an interesting courtyard, usual nibbles and raffle with very nice prizes again.
If your celebrating a birthday please let us know.
Due to recent publications in the cafe forum we respectfully ask you NOT to bring camera / recording equipment to our socials for our guests peace of mind.
1fcmidslad
3ormoreisfun
albion451
ali-chris69
bandscpl-uk
benson1
bi-fun-couple
bigboxfan
blkmale736+1
buxom-minx
cameron44
cherry-pie
cherrytv
chrissycduk
cleananddescret
danne-gary
deejay1981 (pm)
derbylad2001
dereckthemelongod
djcooperman
easycome
farmers boy
hotrod9
hj47
jayluvs69
kaz-allen
kinder75
letshavefun01
lolly +2
malmar
mandj2007
mims
mollyandchris
monty and jessy
muses+1
mw2
nicebutnaughty
nigekaz1
nikkinwuk
penfold73
projectman21
puscracker
rept
ronkriss25
sexybabe44
simply-me2008
skins
smile123+1
stan320man
stephannie
steveandpaula
stokefuncple
tammbie
thistle-rose
tricky4you22
tonylisa200
toomy10
topsy240965
twos69
+27 from another site
Quote by Try2
so on your own admission you (or as you say someone else who was attending that social) advertised on another site and because only 5 off the other site turned up you feel no one should advertise on another site to try to get a full room, seems selfish because you failed to attract more there why should we (as organisers of the derby social be penalised) from advertising elsewhere?so we feel the rules are ok as they are.
NO if you read the above I did not advertise my social on another site. Someone else posted it on another site as it was her birthday party and she wanted her friends from other site to know about it. It is something I would not do again.
I do not and would never post my socials on any other site as I get a full house from SH members every time I organize a social. If I wanted members from another site to attend a social I would organize one on that site for members of that site and not members of SH
The Cannock social on 30th Aug has 97 SH members who have confirmed and I'm waiting for another 26 to confirm. The last Cov social 111 attended the last Cannock social 90 attended and the Cov social before them 137 attended, so why would I need to look elsewhere to make up numbers and make the event viable.
I organize a social for members of this site and the members of this site have fully supported me on every social over the past 18 months. I can only assume people keep coming back every time as I give them what they want and expect from a social.
The day people stop attending my socials will be the day I stop organizing them. I wouldn’t carry on by getting people off other sites as I don’t do the socials for me.
If people who organize munches get enough SH members to attend a munch, then so should people who organize SH socials get enough SH members to attend a social.
IMO it doesn't matter who wrote the advert on another site, it was for other site members to join in the birthday party which i have no problem with but you must of authorised such advert surely or perhaps you may of exceeded your fire reg door limit etc? or is this why you never let on in your advert on here other site members may be in attendance at that social? plus i agree with what fabio states your almost saying people in remote areas can't have a biggish social because of lack of S H members in that area?
Quote by Try2
Maybe the rules need to be changed so all socials posted on SH should only have SH members attending.
Every social I have organized has had to have a reserve list as I get around 150 wanting to attend, so it shows that there are enough people on this site willing to support the social and I don’t see the point of getting people from elsewhere to make the night viable. The whole purpose of a social is for people to meet face to face from chatting in chat rooms / forums etc.
Over the past 18 months, only one of my socials was posted on another site by someone else and about 5 people from that site attended. It is something I would not do again as there is no control over who can walk through the door.
Keep SH socials for SH members and let others organize and attend their own socials from other sites.
so on your own admission you (or as you say someone else who was attending that social) advertised on another site and because only 5 off the other site turned up you feel no one should advertise on another site to try to get a full room, seems selfish because you failed to attract more there why should we (as organisers of the derby social be penalised) from advertising elsewhere?so we feel the rules are ok as they are.
Quote by dorkandwindyhi cock know were you coming from but you still need to be member of said club you cant get in club a if member of club b if that makes sense lol
was just wondering how some of you guys cope when visiting a swingers club,do you ask at the door before entering show me a list of who's in the building, presumably at a swingers club one goes to get naked and play while a social is just a drink,chat,dance with likeminded people?
yes but my point is people on here advertise for social meets at a club and non S H members will be in attendance at that club and what i can't get my head round is a social is just that a place to meet likeminded people for a drink, chat etc NOT get naked and play so can't grasp the issue here sorry.
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Just to say thank you to all that helped on Friday night at Derby Social it was a brilliant night one we wont forget in a while lol xxx Special thanx go to Mr & Mrs Benson for the hard work you did with all that food it was lovely xx Shameless for more lights than blackpool, love the new 1's, tunes was good too, Elvis for his show the 4 guys that did the strip for me, mmmm, all the flowers chocs bottles and presents the lovely funny and naughty cards and all 96 of you that turned up to make a great nite not forgetting the bar staff thanx once again it was brill and ty to easy for this thread love you all cocky xxxx
luvs you both keep up the good work xxxxxxxxx our first meet many years ago we had a 400 mile round trip and it wasn't worth it to say the least,we was invited there under "false pretence", as we was new and nervous we took fair bit of alcohol to drink, the hostess didn't seem interested in any bi action with mrs c (although dozens of emails and phone chat suggested she would teach mrs c all about bi stuff). and when I went to toilet the host took advantage of mrs c which could be described as but because i was "over the drink drive limit" had to stay there for few hours in a not too likeable atmosphere.
We too not keen on meeting someone with same post code either, 50 miles is a reasonable distance but would travel 100 miles for a busy house party.
We too not keen on meeting someone with same post code either, 50 miles is a reasonable distance but would travel 100 miles for a busy house party.
upon having my say in a forum regarding how long does one wait before meeting someone it got me thinking about distance, how far is too far to travel for you to meet someone? and more importantly how close is too close to you to not meet someone . ie/ would you meet someone in next street say?
Quote by northwest-cpl
Before the www and the opportunities that now brings, swingers used to meet at clubs, and then play at the club or not.
Unfortunately the clubs are being ruined as play clubs by the social swingers. Swinging as a sexual activity seems to be disappearing.
We've never arranged a meet in 8 years but have managed to play pretty much every week in that time. Different strokes for different folks but the dream for many doesn't seem to turn into reality very often.
your absolutely bang on there we've visited 18 clubs over the last 9 years and have seen a rapid increase of "the social swinger" which you say, in turn as resulted in a decline in the playing this is why certain clubs are offering free or half price admission to woo us back there.
Quote by Steve
we've found our best meets have been, start chatting in chatroom and meet same night for a drink and play if all agree to us thats NSA fun. IMO if you have to chat / mail for months and months thats more of a dating thing which is supposed to be diferent to swinging.
Chatting for months and months is called getting to know a potential playmate more intimately and can actually highten the sensation when the meet actually takes place and having to wait untill you can actually meet is called having other responsibilities which take preference...
Everyone is different and saying the way some people choose to go about things is more of a dating than swinging thing is harsh to say the least...
wasn't meant to be harsh to say the least its just my opinion like i said, our way works for us if your way works for you so be it, but to get to know a potential playmate more intimately must involve cyber sex / chat which we are not we dont really want to listen to their problems their "my mrs's dont understand me" we don't need to know there real names its nsa fun.(it's just a shag)putting it bluntly. if you need to know the ins and outs of their lives "to us" that doesn't sound like nsa fun its almost a courtship.
Cyber sex is something I've never done...
I do like to talk to people as my brain needs to be stimulated as much as my groin but as you say...
What works for some doesn't work for others..
well in my book talking about intimate things to a potential playmate over the phone or internet amounts to cyber my friend IMO.
