we've found our best meets have been, start chatting in chatroom and meet same night for a drink and play if all agree to us thats NSA fun. IMO if you have to chat / mail for months and months thats more of a dating thing which is supposed to be diferent to swinging.
after our social in derby on friday 15th august we've decided to continue celebrating mrs cocks birthday at the g spot in leicester the following night (saturday august 16th).9pm onwards. this is open invite to anyone on here be it your single or couple it's even a safe place if you prefer to cum as a tv etc. no membership is required if your a couple or single. theres a £10 per couple charge and we've negotiated a reduced charge of £25 for single guys. perhaps we can match you up with a single fem and enter as a couple for this one you need to mail us to be put on a list for this theres any interest we may have a gb and a splosh night
WE HAVE NOW BOOKED THE WELL KNOWN DERBY ELVIS IMPERSONATOR FOR THIS SPECIAL we are now listing august's social / party to be held in derby.
It's to be held on friday august 15th start,
All S.H. members (forum / photo ads / and chatroom people) are welcome,
We are now into our third year arranging socials here in derby.
this will be our 29th derby social.
This social /party is also to celebrate mrs cocks birthday.
All regulars and newcomers will be made welcome,please reply to this thread
or private mail us.
There will be a disco(arguably the best light show in the mids & music aint bad either / karaoke/ nibbles / decent raffle and we sometimes have strippers (oops did i type strippers meant surprises) lol there, so
party people very much invited.
If your celebrating a birthday please let us know.
Due to recent publications in the cafe forum we respectfully ask you NOT to bring camera / recording equipment to our socials for our guests peace of mind.
Many thanks for your emails and in the forum saying how much you enjoyed the last one.
please add to this thread or pm us if your free to attend this one.
thanks
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:high-smile: Happy Birthday RPM have a good 1 from us both :smile2:
suggest a date and venue and see whos interested we are if dates ok
being long time swingers we can still appreciate newcomers can get cold feet b4 a meet, hats off to you for telling the truth (you got cold feet) we get bored of usual stuff like family member got rushed to hospital or had an accident on way to meet you or the dreaded had to work overtime at last minute etc.
but really you should ask the few guys you let down if they think you are.
my question to you, say in a years time when you pluck up courage to meet a guy and youve chatted for months on here and chatted on phone travelled few miles to meet him and he gets cold feet and fails to show will you be understanding? my only advice is to be fair is tell the guy at the start of conversation that your nervous about a physical meet and could fail to show so he has the option of continuing his conversation with you or not.
i've got so pi**ed off with people knocking on my door to try to get me to swap to there gas / electricity etc, i now tell them when they ask to speak to the bill payer we dont pay for the gas / electricity bills now cos we frigged the meter so we get it we went out 10 mins later we drove past 5 of them at top of cul de sac having a debate at what i just told 2 of them lol.
jamie b 1970 thanx for mail... pity you didnt check times of your trains first isnt it, ok np
some people may call wam or splosh kinky? its been suggester its kinky only until you tried it lol
maybe the reason some people waste food is because its in plentiful supply here,(wonder if the arabs moan if they spill any petrol (at 12p per litre) and with busy lifestyles we may only do 1 big shop per week so what looks tempting on your shopping day you don't fancy eating it during that week, 2 for 1 bargains look tempting to most but if its chocolate thats on offer it gets eaten same week (so maybe we put a pound on in weight)but if you get 2 fresh products for price of 1 to eat in same week maybe the free 1 gets thrown away.
i had vision of the internet 30 years ago and reckon in maybe 30 years time when you do your shopping all weights will be monitored on your till receipt and consequently "they" will know what wasteage (packaging etc) there should be and your bins will be weighed b4 being emptied and a tax will be made to you if you go over that weight. watch this
another option is (if its not too far to travel) go to the bbb (birmingham bazarre bazarre) held every 3rd sunday i believe, its a fetish market held in a nightclub during the day,people can wear what they like there, either ordinary day clothes or any fetish you are into. its an eye opener, plus you get a broader idea of fetishes,as you've not actually stated which fetish your into at the bbb you get a broader idea of what fetishes there are plus the goods on sale are cheaper / better than your run of the mill anne summers they have a demonstration in the afternoon which could be techniques on whipping ,bondage,anything and you can pick up really useful tips on diferent subjects there.
hiya anyone into wam "splosh" fun please mail us for a meet soon
i thought it was a cigar called "h****t".lol ive put *'s there as you cant advertise such items on telly now. lol.
1) wasn't meant to be a sweeping statement sorry tried to say of the 4 or 5 couples who've seperated that we've personally met over the years if you backtrack few years they all came to a limit they passed lets say, which was seperate room fun and once you've done that you feel whats now wrong with going out with a diferent partner for fun.
2) i know it works for some of you guys and we wish you best of luck with it, it works for some of our good close friends however get chatting on a 1 to 1 with them we piece together a diferent story, eh it wouldn't be fun if we was all the same and had same
we always swing together (even if hubby just watches he's still there as my protector)etc. he makes sure guys cover up and even spots if when they withdraw if the condoms still intact etc. once a condom had split that much half was left inside me, as i was busy at other end i never knew and probably wouldn't until i got severe pains few days guy never said a word until challenged by my hubby, this lead to end of play and a check up,so how dedicated would a "non husband" be to protect the lady in that position?
if you was dogging and a group of "bad boys" came along would he fight to the death to protect "someone else's wife"?
we feel this is the thin end of the wedge, we've seen it happen a lot in our experience, it starts off diferent rooms,then go own way with another partner swinging, diferent days, diferent holidays, divorce.
its why i paid £1500 for my huge television and around £80 per month to sky for "NOT"
bb is a bag of crap
i usually applaud single guys who can accomodate but come on does this venue seem like a nice place to attract a fem / couple too for pleasure,and then maybe expect to get naked etc.
my advice is go on the club page look at the clubs webpage on there see if they offer the facilities you require and read the reviews,not forgetting singles may have a diferent perception to a good night at a club compared to a couple and vice versa,try work out what the reviewer likes and if there likes are similar to yours b4 deciding.
as you've stated your preferences in your profile just sit back and wait or if you read other peoples profiles and you fit their bill write to them, like someone wrote it is a better than most new profiles we read on on the bright side if you hadn't of wrote your only into slim / athletic people you may of had lots of mails by now,but they would of lead to nothing so don't get to dispondent. good luck anyway and give it time get chatting in chatrooms visit your nearest social / munch get known.
happy birthday missy have a good 1 or 3 cockys xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I hope there'll be some Derby folks left when I get there at half ten! Thanks for letting me in mrs cocky, got a snog for ya as a thank you if u want it lol X
