whats the attraction of a guy wanting your ass, you tell them your no -no's and once you get started enjoying the moment wham there there trying to shove there fingers, dick up there , all that does for me is bring me down a couple of levels so thus not enjoying the moment any more, then they say are you gonna swallow HA.
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Hiya and thanx to all them that joined us sat nite yes a great nite loads of laffs and beers so yes the next 1 in about a month so watch out for it on forum lets meet up sorry dave debbie and motorcycle rob you miss a great nite but goods news you will be on list for the next one ok gang it was worth the hard work to have a nite like that thanx again be good 
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:kiss hiya, were off in our caravan on above date and not sure where to go,we can travel 100 mile radius of m1 jn 25, so looking for suggestions from you guys, so if your a group or know of a busy dogging location where theres a caravan site close bye please mail us any thoughts of where we should plan to go, as a both bi couple were happy to meet, bi singles,tv's / cd's, or str8 guys if your vwe, all colours most welcome.p.s. the site must be k9 friendly as were taking our dog too.
your right flid, we love chams but bi mondays are not the same as when they started year last january, then they was absolutely fantastic, well worth having holiday off work to attend (due to shifts) but unfortunately now we'ed say there an ok night, mainly because like you've put a lot of guys that go have no intention of doing bi - stuff, now i'm a greedy girl and get what i want on the other nights but on a monday night we only play if the guys have fun first then if i want to i join in, so the problem on bi monday nights are:- too many guys go thats not bi and too many greedy girls go that give it away on that making it an ordinary night in our eyes. suppose we're lucky as we've seen some brilliant mondays but now there just ordinary so we dont rush to get there only when the shifts and fancy takes us.
hi, we've been members 5 years there now and tried 14 other clubs around the uk and chams for us is by far the best in terms of cleanliness,friendlyness faciliities and safest. you've picked the best mid week night to go as we've found tues / thursdays quiet there, with saturdays / fridays being the busiest and sundays can get busy staff are brill there,but read peoples views about there experiences there on the clubs / parties page on here but go with an open mind but rest assured you will be safe if its your first visit to a swingers like anything you only get out what you put in so don't be shy talk to people, what your / their there for and see if you get on but don't be afraid to say "NO THANKS" politely if the mood don't take you.
p.s. jusr read your profile and as it says your both bi curious ,you must try there bi / tv monday nights there,
hope this helps
p.s. jusr read your profile and as it says your both bi curious ,you must try there bi / tv monday nights there,
hope this helps
thanks shnukle,stuart for clarifying any confusion thats arose from any reply to our add., just like to add the reason why we wrote only notts / derby people please, was because we're only a small group thats got together over the past 4 months so on average only a dozen turn up at our social so some people may feel upset at travelling hundreds of miles (like some do for the main with hundreds attending) to be met by a dozen it's held in a smallish public bar.
also for any unsure newcomers to swinging wherever you go, be it social,munch,house party or even a full blown swingers club never feel pressurised to do anything you don't want to,i don't think anyone who attends ours expect anything on this night only a good drink,and a chat with likeminded people.
thanks
also for any unsure newcomers to swinging wherever you go, be it social,munch,house party or even a full blown swingers club never feel pressurised to do anything you don't want to,i don't think anyone who attends ours expect anything on this night only a good drink,and a chat with likeminded people.
thanks
hiya peeps, we're having our 4th derby / notts social meet in derby on the 29th april at 8pm, please mail for venue or catch us online in our derby cockslut,easycome or notts / derby meets rooms for an invite, please though only apply if your local to notts / derby area. singles / couples made very if you can't make it that night please don't fill our mailbox with questions etc, and we have a strict policy if you say your going to cum and don't you won't get another oppurtunity.
yep its possible,but still feel you need a strong relationship with solid foundations b4 travelling down this road if your doing it with your spouse, we're a mature couple (married over 30 years) been swinging 21 years so think we're a success story but have seen many a relationship fold through it.i know we will still be here in 10 years time(god permitting) just hope some of the others are. and like you say if we're not told the facts one has to presume, hence more info on peeps profiles please.
on another site we use we had our top 10 of excuses listed what we'ed been given in the past for not turning up, think top 1 was during the 12 hours from 1st contact up to time of meet there building had burnt down, but second was i didnt turn up at club cos big brother was on telly and the press had said someone might have sex in the b.b house tonight,then came the popular car broke down, had to work late, cat coughed so took it to the vet, bla,bla,bla.
Quote by Shireen_Mids
hi guys , the answer to your question is we masterbate alot cos we just cant dance!!!!! ps its the only thing im good at x
Sorry but this comment really made me laugh :lol2:
now my minds racing just imagined a room where a lot of guys camming, are wanking around some handbags.
Quote by Shireen_Mids
hi guys , the answer to your question is we masterbate alot cos we just cant dance!!!!! ps its the only thing im good at x
Sorry but this comment really made me laugh :lol2:
now my minds racing just imagined a room where a lot of guys camming, are wanking around some handbags.
Quote by sercher01
totaly agree with all that has bin sed now try this one? :shock:
there r some cpl's out there that get turned on by just the thought of swinging!
it gives them a buzz an off they go for a shag! :shock:
no intention of meetin up an swinging? :shock:
then there r the men who get terned on from watchin someone on cam an talkin about it then the same happens off to bed an give the old girl one? :shock:
its a kind of porn if u like :shock:
thats my opinion anyway
driving back from blidworth last night we had same discussion in the car, somewhere along the way the've introduced a new way of "getting off" we came up with what you wrote my friend, bugger the time / expense of travelling, hotel or club admission stay at home bombard some poor female / couple to show us this, do that 4 us, wank stupid (they not being on cam of course) and off to bed, so bloody selfish,
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ditto, all good advice above but why someone so young wants to start swinging so early in life concerns us, weve been members of chameleons 5 years now and seen a huge rise in "young" people attending and seen some long established marriages seperate through it, so why someone with little marriage foundation wants to start swapping partners is a cause for concern we think, but we do wish you success and luck in your think it through fully b4 you cross the boundary, once you've done something you can't undo it. (blimey starting to talk like our parents did)
We don't think age should come into it. Personally we don't play with people young enough to be our own kids BUT swinging and the sex we have in our own relationship are two different things for us and, presumably, the couple here? The length of time we have been together and our ages have nothing whatsoever to do with it.
yeah all i was trying to say was it takes a certain characteristic in some people to watch your partner having sex with someone else just few months after taking your vows etc, hence the concrete foundation explanation, that is of course your swinging with your spouse and not someone elses,
Quote by PoloLady
If there are two things that people can write in a PM or some other form of message that puts me right off - it is...
"I am genuine"
and the other being
"seeking nsa"
My inner dialog just hears - "I am genuinly looking for a shag".
Genuine what? - Genuine load of bollocks! (oops my inner dialog had control of my keyboard for a minute there)
To me a genuine swinger is about their attitude. For the term 'genuine' to hold any value, it is not something someone can just declare themself as being - it is a description of them given by others.
i'm sure some guys don't think b4 writing some stuff, they'll say can't accom. won't go to a club, how about a meet in your car in a car park,i said it's a bit cold 4 that well it won't take me long not had anything in months,HA (i shake my head in despair) it's almost funny, felt like saying yeah and leave a fiver on car seat as your treating me like one.
ditto, all good advice above but why someone so young wants to start swinging so early in life concerns us, weve been members of chameleons 5 years now and seen a huge rise in "young" people attending and seen some long established marriages seperate through it, so why someone with little marriage foundation wants to start swapping partners is a cause for concern we think, but we do wish you success and luck in your think it through fully b4 you cross the boundary, once you've done something you can't undo it. (blimey starting to talk like our parents did)
