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Ok here goes, but at the end, i want an answer as to whether or not i should post as single.
I know that all the slatting about cheating on your wife etc. is meant with a good heart, however heres my history:
I live with a woman who has a mental illness, she was abused as a child and is progressively becoming worse and worse. Sex or any intimacy with her is impossible, it shouldn't make her sad because it reminds her of when she was a child.
Now on the other hand, i am a man with normal drives and i think sex should be fun, light, enjoyable, intimate and at times downright dirty and lustful!
So I will support her through her problems, but I can't take those problems on, I shouldn't have to. I want fun in my life, i do have fun in my life, my friends, job, family, the only thing missing is sex and intimacy. Now i could have an affair; or as i have chosen to do, I could find like minding people who do not view sex as a hang up.
Well thats more than I wanted to say, but I am new here and don't want to get of on the wrong foot.
I know that all the slatting about cheating on your wife etc. is meant with a good heart, however heres my history:
I live with a woman who has a mental illness, she was abused as a child and is progressively becoming worse and worse. Sex or any intimacy with her is impossible, it shouldn't make her sad because it reminds her of when she was a child.
Now on the other hand, i am a man with normal drives and i think sex should be fun, light, enjoyable, intimate and at times downright dirty and lustful!
So I will support her through her problems, but I can't take those problems on, I shouldn't have to. I want fun in my life, i do have fun in my life, my friends, job, family, the only thing missing is sex and intimacy. Now i could have an affair; or as i have chosen to do, I could find like minding people who do not view sex as a hang up.
Well thats more than I wanted to say, but I am new here and don't want to get of on the wrong foot.
Hiye people, a little advice is what I am looking for I guess. As far as swinging etc. goes, I am single. This is because my partner isn't in to this, infact she doesn't even know! Naughty I guess, but if needs must, then needs must.
Well if any of you can enlighten me on how to go about making contacts I would be very greatful.
Cheers
Crispi
Well if any of you can enlighten me on how to go about making contacts I would be very greatful.
Cheers
Crispi
