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cuddly__catlin
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cuddly__catlin
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Quote by smokerjim
I know from the recent experience of a friend's mum that a women's refuge is just that - they allow NO male vistors or phonecalls from men, for the secruity of the women living there. It is a shame for me and smoking muff, because we are closer to Val, then our friend is - but unless we get a phone call from her saying lets meet at such and such place, we are leaving her to get her head straight.
Jenna, you could do a lot worse than find your local refuge, go down there and have a chat with some of the people there - they will help you a lot more than most here ( ie - like myself, those with NO experience of what happened to you ) and will be happy to caht with you.

i agree i spent 6 months in a refuge they helped me alot.
you can go to your doctor like i did and they found a refuge for us.
the people in the refuge found me a house and helped me start over again.
Tina xxxx
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cuddly__catlin
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i left my husband 13 years ago for that reason.
i had 12 years of verbal abuse and put downs.
i felt has if i was worth nothing.
but when he punched me that turned everything around and gave
me the courage to grab my 3 1/2 and 5 month old kids and walk out.
yes i had to start again with nothing but it was the best thing i could have done for me and my kids.
so if hes hit you i would say find the courage to leave for your own safty and your kids
saftey to if you have any.
hope this helps in some way xxxx
and while im here can i just say thanx to everyone that has given me advice today.
it has helped a lot and now i can see things more clear and im hopeing we can work things out.
never set out to say anything on here about my probs in first place but it has helped me
a lot.
hijack over. smile
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cuddly__catlin
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a year ago a guy was doing one of my fave things, which is fisting.
all of a sudden i felt a rip and searing pain. owch
try explaining to the doctor how it happend lol
all i said was could you check me out cos b/f got a bit over enthusiastic, spelt wrong i know lol
i was so embaressed redface
the doctor who was male just said take it easy next time lol
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cuddly__catlin
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Quote by Sgt Bilko
here i go crying again, pls some one slap some sense into me.

If I must!!
thanx but it isent working.
maybe i should do what lambchop is doing and drink myself to oblivion.
knew i shouldent have posted on here.
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cuddly__catlin
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Hi lambchop im going through the same thing right now.
so i know what your going through, it hurts like hell.
and i diddent think anyone could cry so much.
i cant give you advce cos i need it myself .
people say it will get easyer each day, when does that start cos its getting harder for me each day.
god i told myself i wouldent do this on here but i saw your post.
and just wanted to say your not alone.
and here i go crying again, pls some one slap some sense into me.
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cuddly__catlin
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ill join you in getting drunk.
ive had and still am haveing a shitty week.
so ill open the vodka might make me feel numb, well im hoping it will.
but keep all the men away from me im off them at the moment mad
any one got a glass?
on second thoughts ill drink from the bottle, i think you get drunk quiker
that way dont you?
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cuddly__catlin
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Hi and welcome.
you dont have to be a swinger to be on here.
i used to be a swinger thats why i joined this site but now ive hung up my
swinging shoes and me and partner are consentrating on our relationship.
never in my dreams did i think id find love on a swinging site biggrin
hope you find what your looking for and have lots of fun getting to know the mad people on here lol
Tina xxx
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cuddly__catlin
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Quote by blonde
Here I go again ................ saying something when I probably shouldnt..........
BUT..........
Why dont you get told why your post has been locked ????
If not on the thread then a little PM from the person doing the locking would be nice !!!!
Just think its rude and unhelpful that a thread is locked and the person doesnt even know why .............. so could quite easily get it wrong again !!!!!
Shoot me, shoot me bolt
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

i wouldent shoot you, i agree with you. it would be nice to know why threads
were locked, then me and others might not make same mistake.
Tina
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cuddly__catlin
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most diddent seem silly and some i would have replyed to.
but i geuss people have different veiws on whats silly or not.
most were just questions.
Tina
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cuddly__catlin
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is it just me or does it seem a lot of topics are being locked again?
wouldent mind but theres some i would have liked to post on.
Tina
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cuddly__catlin
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ok i except what you have said.
and congratulations on your first post in here Angel Chat biggrin
was a good idea but i agree putting it into pratice is not pratical.
and may spoil the chat room we already have.
Tina xxx
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cuddly__catlin
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Quote by bluexxx
i know it will be a lot of work for the mods

It would actually be no work for the mods at all.... at least the ones who are not chat room ops (most of us). I have given the reasons why I personally think a dogging chatroom would be redundant and bring no extra value to the site... but as it has been requested that I show Mark the idea, that I have done.
Thanx bluexxx biggrin
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cuddly__catlin
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I agree the chat room is chaotic.
its a good chat room but i think we need sub rooms for
different interests.
i know it will be a lot of work for the mods, but i think its worth
you thinking and talking to Mark about it at least, then come back to us
and explaine the reasons for or against the idea.
Tina biggrin
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cuddly__catlin
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My most enduring memory of my life so far?
the birth of my 2 children. biggrin
the bad memorys i like to try and forget.
Tina
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cuddly__catlin
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i watch a program on tv few years ago.
was about sex changes.
they used a pump on a woman who wanted to be a man and changed
her clit to look like a cock.
it ended up about 6 inches long.
Tina
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