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cuddly__catlin
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 61
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Quote by louise_and_joe
When im going to meet someone new, i always say, that if im not what they want after
all then just say so and vise versa and there will be no hard feelings.
and i still get nervous until they say yes you are what i want
so just be honest.
Tina xxx
Hi Tina, i guess it is a good idea to state before you meet that if you dont click then a polite no thanks will be ok. Also definately meet for drinks first rather than meeting them at a hotel, where you have no opportunity to say no.
yes but id always say no if i wasent comfortable and id hope they would too.
Quote by Lissa
Thanks peeps..................got a tear in my eye here
Long story short, had a really unpleasant event several months ago. Someone with an axe to grind posted a link to one of my dogging posts on a vanilla site we use. :shock:
Caused all sorts of really nasty upsets as you can imagine. But, I've decided bollocks to 'em. Those who were our friends before the shit hit the fan and have stayed our friends are TRUE friends. Those who no longer speak to us were never really friends in the first place. I'm not gonna sit at home hiding anymore.......................I'm back and I'm bad!!!!
:D :D :D :D
Good on you lissa, its times like this you find out who your friends are.
Welcome back
Tina xxx
Quote by da69ve
May have been better to simply pm one of the Mods and ask why the pics were removed
Hi Steve , I did ask sarg if they had been removed .
He said 3 had been removed cos they contained a second party .. yes 2 had a ball and a bit of cock , but come on !! a plastic skeleton .. this was only meant as a bit of a laugh tho.
I've added the skeleton pic again because I thought it totally silly but if its removed this time then i'll leave it off , but what about all the other 'plastic' objects in others pics !
M_N XxX
so it was removed.....and you decided to put it back up again!
i have just checked the AUP on photos....and i do believe it did break the AUP....if the pic is posted and its considered a joke pic then it will be removed!
Remove it then if it breaks your AUP rules !
I hope all the plastic bunneis are ready for the boot too or dont they break rules .. This is just stupid !
you added the pic as you thought it was abit of a laugh.....it was a joke.....so it broke the AUP......if there are other pics that also break the AUP you can report them.....as the Mod team do encourage that....so it is possible your pics were reported by another member of the site.....you might find it absurd that it was removed but where do you draw the line on acceptable pics!
so what is unaccectable about that perticuler pic?
and im sorry but if someone reported that pic then there very sad lol
i do agree you do have to draw a line somewere but the skeleton is plastic same as most vibes and dildos.
i say keep the skelly it puts a smile on my face and on other peoples faces.
and that cant be a bad thing can it????
yes but if you were posing with a couple of plastic vibrators in a silly jokey way.....that too would be considered unacceptable......i mean this is a swinging site.....i'm sure there are plenty of other sites you can add your jokey silly pics to......the skeleton maybe plastic....like a vibrator....but would you use the skeleton in a sexual way?
no i wouldent use it that way but some might
:lol: :lol:How do you think it got that way? someone sucked the life out of it :lol:
Quote by da69ve
May have been better to simply pm one of the Mods and ask why the pics were removed
Hi Steve , I did ask sarg if they had been removed .
He said 3 had been removed cos they contained a second party .. yes 2 had a ball and a bit of cock , but come on !! a plastic skeleton .. this was only meant as a bit of a laugh tho.
I've added the skeleton pic again because I thought it totally silly but if its removed this time then i'll leave it off , but what about all the other 'plastic' objects in others pics !
M_N XxX
so it was removed.....and you decided to put it back up again!
i have just checked the AUP on photos....and i do believe it did break the AUP....if the pic is posted and its considered a joke pic then it will be removed!
Remove it then if it breaks your AUP rules !
I hope all the plastic bunneis are ready for the boot too or dont they break rules .. This is just stupid !
you added the pic as you thought it was abit of a laugh.....it was a joke.....so it broke the AUP......if there are other pics that also break the AUP you can report them.....as the Mod team do encourage that....so it is possible your pics were reported by another member of the site.....you might find it absurd that it was removed but where do you draw the line on acceptable pics!
so what is unaccectable about that perticuler pic?
and im sorry but if someone reported that pic then there very sad lol
i do agree you do have to draw a line somewere but the skeleton is plastic same as most vibes and dildos.
i say keep the skelly it puts a smile on my face and on other peoples faces.
and that cant be a bad thing can it????
Quote by Kiss
It has to be all or nothing. Where would SH be able to draw the line? You can have one testicle of another person but not two, and 1 inch of cock is ok but no more!
i thought this thread was about a plastic skeleton?
i do agree we have to draw a line but a PLASTIC SKELETON lmao
sorry not haveing ago
Quote by ms_naughty
Hi ms naughty, so I see you have a bone to pick with the admin. Well, it could take a while before you get a response - they are probably operating with a skeleton staff.
I agree with you, how absurd!
Mike.
Thanx Mike .. i've got wet knickers now .. that made me laugh so much .
M_N XxX
i nearly wet myself too
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: oh yuk you diddent tell me you had wet the floor aswell lol
yes i agree with naughtynymphos1
the first couple i met the lady was bi and she knew what she wanted but let me take things at my own pace.
i diddent go there intending to play with the lady, but i did know that she wanted to play with me, but she diddent push it in anyway.
it turned out to be a fantastic time and we met over and over again ;-)
the first couple i met the lady was bi and she knew what she wanted but let me take things at my own pace.
i diddent go there intending to play with the lady, but i did know that she wanted to play with me, but she diddent push it in anyway.
it turned out to be a fantastic time and we met over and over again ;-)
