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cuddly__catlin
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 61
0 miles · Derbyshire

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Quote by winchwench
Ingredients necessary to enjoy S.H......
Thick skin...........
A large pinch of salt........
A warped sense of humour.......
Liberal sprinkling of tolerance............
Throw it all into a pot, simmer gently, sit back,savour & enjoy! :thumbup:

Oh and enjoying sex helps as well wink smile
Wouldn't know. I keep telling you all, i'm a virgin. :angel:
If your a virgin im a nun rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
mmmmmmmmm haveing sex over bonnet in the rain, its great. i wouldent even let snow stop me ;-)
Quote by sheddy
however it always sticks in the back of your mind , wondering why they have been banned, what if it was for violence to another member? or something just as bad, its a minefield,

<<<<< sticks head above parapet, holds breath and he's off..........................
People get banned for plenty of reasons and to be honest I can apriciate why we aren't told what they are banned for however ........ in the profile text that says "this member is currently banned from this site" could we not add the line "untill 20/12/2006" for example.
If we had made contact and aranged a meet with someone and then found them banned the length of the ban could give some indication as to what they had done wrong. We would happily meet someone who had tried to hide their e mail addy in a post or soemthing on those levels..........but as WRATS said if they had been banned for violence or things of the same serious level, we would be certain not to have anything to do with them.
I'm aware you could ask the member why they were banned but they may not always be honest.
<<<<<ducks for cover as sheddy idea's tend to generate flack lol
Thats a good idea so no flack from me unless you want it :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by makaveli69
Nice profile Caitlin WHERE'D you spring from lol

Ive been here a long time lol
just been away for a while, but back now biggrin
Tina xxx
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I went in the chat room once and there was a woman sat with a young child on her knee :shock:
well u know me, not one for keeping my gob shut and i had to say something even tho all the guys was quite happy to sit chatting to her and even commented on how cute her child was confused :? anyway all i said was, do you think a swingers chat room is really the best place to have your child on view? to which she turn the cam off and left without saying a word, and i was left with half a dozen men having a go at me :? for saying something and making her leave, one man even said i must have a sick mind to think there was anything wrong with a mother holding her child on cam and what did i expect her to do if her child needed looking after leave it to cry rolleyes :roll:

you did the right thing.
and her child did need looking after so she should have done that and when child asleep then go on cam.
my son is 14 and if hes in room i wont put my cam on.
so good for you naughtynymphos1 :thumbup:
if your meeting them at a social, then you dont have to worry, you will see what there like and then judge for yourself.
so go and enjoy yourselfs, if they arnt what you want in the end then theres plenty more people there for you to meet and get to know.
just lay back and enjoy lol
its a fun site and ive been on here for ages, and ive had fun and when ive been down, ive had people on here ive never met asking if im ok and if i need to talk i can.
sometime when people have a joke on here it can look like there takeing the piss, but you will realise soon anough there just pulling each others leg.
so i hope you both join in and have lots of fun meeting new people.
Tina xxx
people get banned for different reasons. if you have there email address then send them a email and ask. and then you can judge for yourself.
and make sure you meet them in public and then you can see what there like.
hope you have fun and enjoy yourself.
Tina xxxx
P.S not very good at putting my thoughts into word lol
i do it all the time, its geat. i was so shocked the first time it happend. was at top of bed and it hit floor past bottom of bed. dont know which one of us was more surprided, me or him lol
just go with the flow, lol
Move lol
no only jokeing, just keep looking and be prepared to travle.
im sure you will find lots of fun biggrin
well im not a couple, but i think the same as you, i want to chat and get to know someone before i meet, so that were both comfortable.
yes i have done the meets were ive met only after chatting for a hour but ive come to learn that its more fun if you know abit about the person your going meet.
and theres more chance that you will meet again and again ;-)
Tina xxx
P.S i think thats the longest post ive ever written lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by Kiss
Well, I've not swung, been to any munches, meets etc. or anything, so I'd like to be considered for membership. Do I get a badge?

That is a possibility...... however I'm rather concerned as to where you would pin it? :shock:
lol
I know where id pin it lol
and no its not on you know what biggrin
Tina xxx
Hi and Welcome little miss.
hope you have fun and find all that your looking for.
biggrin :D :D
Tina xxxx
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
ihas anyone here refused to swing with someone because they or their partner were ugly?

Nope because we ask to see a picture first so wouldn't really meet someone if we didn't like the look of them biggrin
Tony wink
i always show people im going to meet some pics of me, and i always say that when they meet me and if they decide im not there type, just to say so, and theres no hard feelings on either side.
and we talk a bit about what were both looking for.
but ive never had one say im not there type yet, but i do know it will happen one day.
Tina xxx
What about spot the differance.
someone on cam dresses up then after a period of time goes and takes off or puts somethings on and we have to spot the differance.
well im tired lol
Tina xxx
mmmmm yes snails yum yum biggrin :D :D
maz i think your great for rescueing your gold fish, id have done the same.
hope its ok and recovery now :D
Quote by mazandden
I think there's a difference between using a bit of light humour in an awful situation, to the kind of humour that was rattling around in texts after the likes of diana and steve irwins deaths, the tsunami, the 9/11etc.
I don't want to go back to the steve thread, but just want to use it as an example in that a lot of people don't know the guy, probably weren't that upset by his death, but are jumping on the band wagon to get a crack out of the poor guys death with childish sick jokes. Same goes for all the other jokes in these situations.
Thats when I think galllows humour is wrong, its not being used as a coping mechanism there, what coping does someone have to do to 'come to terms' with the death of a celebrity they don't know?
I understand the need for this in situations such as those the emergency services come across on a day to day basis, (not that i have ever noticed it or used it myself when working) but ! don't think there is any place for these kinds of sick text message jokes.

i agree with you.
the jokes are sick. and the people that are telling them would be the first to complain if they had something bad happen to them and everyone told jokes about them, wouldent they?
Quote by MandH
What about all the times they leave the toilet seat up.......eh girls???

Well excuse me !!!!!!!! ........................ It is not us men that leave the toilet seat up, but you women that leave it down !!!!! mad
M
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
im going through the same thing mutley, i split with my bf 2 weeks ago. so i know how you feel.
Tina xxx
Quote by louise_and_joe
Yes thats true, but you come to accept things like that. I dont think they realise that they do it.

its when you forget and go to the loo in middle of the night and sit down.
you should see the dints in my bathroom ceiling lol
Tina xxx