sorry to have moved the discussion of course - was just the one that got a lot of publicity and presented itself well - reminded me of some of the great swinging clubs in Paris of which I have been to 2 - was great, very stylish and more surreal than tacky.
Ok, new to (organised) swinging. I am 36 y old, pretty cool and fit sexpot. I don't want to just go to a party and be the third...wheel. Especially I would love to try upper end parties like fever. So, I want to find a female match first. Any idea where to look, post ad etc. (to meet females who are serious).
Don't have probs with meeting girls but want to get straight to the point as I'm sure there's girls who are curious about it but don't want to try w/out some security about her initial consort.
Any thoughts appreciated.
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