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derbyladsouth35
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 miles · Nottinghamshire
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Warming the Bed
Thanks for your mail so far (zero if im honest lol) but heres to keeping my hopes alive x
Warming the Bed
I hope you dont leave the site as well, i certainly dont need anyone to back peddle and we have both moved on and learnt from this. i apologise if it has dragged on longer than it shud and if i have upset you or anyone else with my comments, i know if i now send a mail and it is not opened not to judge or question anything. thanks Dave
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
I doubt the guy you are talking about requires us to back peddle, he does not seem the type to require that kind of thing after we appologised in the first place and he is the only one we said we hadn't recieved a mail from, to be honest we would have expected him to be informed by the site if a mail cannot be sent to someone due to thier privacy settings but obvously that is not the case on this site. We have now corrected our mistake and held our hands up to it if people believe that an apology is not enough just say in the thread and we will close our account as a pennance. that should make you happy
Quote by MidsCouple24
Whoops your quite right, just checked and we did have single males blocked, sorry for that, must have done it years ago and as we were still getting those annoying and timewasting "friends requests" from guys (and couples) we didn't realise it was activated, it is off now.
Mids.........
This isn't just a Homer moment, this is a coffee meets monitor moment
I think some back peddling is needed in this thread
Glad you got it sorted, and now you may be able to recieve more PM's :thumbup:
Dave_Notts
I doubt the guy you are talking about requires us to back peddle, he does not seem the type to require that kind of thing after we appologised in the first place and he is the only one we said we hadn't recieved a mail from, to be honest we would have expected him to be informed by the site if a mail cannot be sent to someone due to thier privacy settings but obvously that is not the case on this site. We have now corrected our mistake and held our hands up to it if people believe that an apology is not enough just say in the thread and we will close our account as a pennance. that should make you happy
Warming the Bed
Hi, i have now sent 2 messages and both havent been opened yet, Have you checked your settings because i believe you can hace it so you dont receive any messages from single guys so you will never receive my messages
Warming the Bed
Hi, im looking for a couple with bi or bi curious guy to explore my curious side. i can accomodate around doncaster area most days, travel or meet in hotel if you prefer. As this is my first time im only looking for a couple at present. Thanks dave
Warming the Bed
Thanks Dave. I will re send it to save any more hassle and once again i apologise if i have upset any one
Yes I know, but before you can do that you have to send the person a mail and this guy has NEVER mailed us.
You belive he didn't and he believes he did. There could be a glitch on this PM, the privacy settings could have prevented it coming though, someone could have pressed delete by mistake........lots of reasons really.
I suppose if admin is contacted they could sift your inbox to see if one was sent........if it is that important to you.
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts
When you send someone a message, if you go into your sent mail folder it tells you if they have opened the message or not.
Yes I know, but before you can do that you have to send the person a mail and this guy has NEVER mailed us.
You belive he didn't and he believes he did. There could be a glitch on this PM, the privacy settings could have prevented it coming though, someone could have pressed delete by mistake........lots of reasons really.
I suppose if admin is contacted they could sift your inbox to see if one was sent........if it is that important to you.
Dave_Notts
Warming the Bed
thank you for your apology and i apologise for my rant if you have not received it . I have checked my emails and it was sent on 22nd August. Good luck xx
Quote by MidsCouple24
If that is the case then we appologise unreservedly to him because we do reply to all mails, though many feel this is not necessary we think it is just polite and only take a minute and as we only get 1 mail a fortnight on average it is no big task for us
Warming the Bed
Thank you for all your advise and sorry i havent replied earlier (when the thread got moved i cudnt find it lol). One idea i wont be going with is the 'sh' membership though. i will keep you informed x
Warming the Bed
You have been critising but when someone does send you a message you do not even open it. If this is the way for everyone that sends you a message then how are you to meet anyone off this site anyway. Im not saying you would meet me, but you have been having ago about various things but then dont have the decency to open the mail and say no thanks. I have been swinging as a couple and as a single and always replied even if it was to say no thanks although i know this is cetainly not the case on here with 99% of the members (thanks to the couple of members who have replied). I hope you find what you looking for because you are a good looking couple but manners are a 2 way thing. Yes i know there are alot of 'liers' out there and this makes it harder for the genuine ones who are here for the right reasons and if you are turned down, you respect the decision. Good luck and i hope a few idiots and lack of replies havent turned you off sh. just an after thought, maybe they thought you were too good looking and didnt want to get turned down again so didnt send you a message.
Warming the Bed
i would love to meet up with you as well and im willing to travel and can accom but didint post because some people prefer closer to there home. dont worry about the attractiveness because that is certainly not a problem x
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Thanks for your ideas foxy but my ex has already organised a party for her so i want to do something else, its not a competition but just want her to remember it. The weekend is also out because my ex is very protective and would not let her go even though she 18 now. but thanks for your input.x
Quote by foxylady2209
Depends on her of course - impossible to judge what an unknown teen would enjoy.
But what about arranging a 'do' that is themed around, for instance, the 1940's.
Or, if she enjoys travel, what about paying for her and a couple of friends (the sensible ones) to spend a weekend in a European city?
Warming the Bed
Hi, im fairly new to the forum but thought id ask for ideas. Its my daughters 18th birthday soon and was looking for ideas to make it memorable for her. iv searched the internet and its the same stuff. Any ideas but try to keep it clean lol xx
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Hotel booked for friday and sat so should be a good weekend x
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I would love to come, after that last one you held. no way going to miss out on this one x
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Quote by derbyladsouth35
I know that loads will look at this but a very small chance i will get a reply but if you dont ask you dont get. Im staying in a hotel very close to the motorway tonight and tomorrow. im a genuine single guy, (yes i know we all say that) looking for couples or single females. pub next door so could meet there first if anyone wants to. keeping my fingers crossed, dave
Warming the Bed
I know that loads will look at this but a very small chance i will get a reply but if you dont ask you dont get. Im staying in a hotel very close to the motorway tonight and tomorrow. im a genuine single guy, (yes i know we all say that) looking for couples or single females. pub next door so could meet there first if anyone wants to. keeping my fingers crossed, dave
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Hi, confirming i will be coming for the saturday night, would be up for the sat day as well but got a work do friday night in sheff so may see you around if i knew who you were lol x
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had a great time too, will keep an eye out for sure xxxxxxxx
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Quote by derbyladsouth35
Hi, if there is room , i would like to come. No-one will know who i am with this profile but i was the male half of daveanddebbie69. Been to a few as a couple but none as a single so thought it might be a way of meeting new people, thanks xx
Warming the Bed
Hi, if there is room , i would like to come. No-one will know who i am with this profile but i was the male half of daveanddebbie69. Been to a few as a couple but none as a single so thought it might be a way of meeting new people, thanks xx
