Quote by shavenmr
If look in clubs section, new club is soswingers, has link to webpage.
and they are offering free membership up to 30th jan
which according to website will be party nite
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dorkandwindy
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Bi-curious Female, 69
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Quote by anais
If a member has two or three of them on their profile, it would convince us that he was more likely to be genuine and TURN UP.
Okay Kenty... sorry to chop up your post but this bit jumped out at me. Bear with me... (and please remember that I don't really care whether they have a verification system here or not as long as it has the opt out choice for those who wish to opt out)
So lets for a moment pretend that I'm a single bloke.
I've been on a few meets and I have a few green ticks with some verbal verfications.
1. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Brown. I turned up, I'm genuine. You have personal issues with Mr & Mrs Brown. Would that change your mind about playing with me?
2. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Green. I turned up, I'm genuine. Mr & Mrs Green's profile clearly states that they like to play bareback. There is no mention of whether I insisted on protection or not. Would that change your mind about playing with me?
3. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Purple. I turned up, I'm genuine. Mr & Mrs Purple were later to be overheard discussing their meeting with me in the chatroom one evening. They said I had a very small penis. As it happens I don't have a very small penis, it just so happens that Mrs Purple has a very big fanny. Would that change your mind about playing with me?
4. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Orange. I turned up, I'm genuine. Mr & Mrs Orange didn't hit it off with me. I couldn't get it up, was incredibly rude to Mrs Orange, Mr Orange punched me and we all went home unhappy. They left me bad feedback. I hid it. Would you be any the wiser?
5. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Pink. I didn't turn up. They left me bad feedback. You wouldn't know about that though. I very clerverly hid it!
Yes we all have people who waste time. Yes we all have different opinions. Yes we all have choices. I just think it's so much better to make up your own mind about people rather than listen to gossip or take other people's word for it because what floats your boat might not necessarily float theirs. Verification isn't just about ensuring that you find people who actually turn up... its about all of the examples I've mentioned above.
I'm mostly just thinking aloud as I do but if Admin have a system in place that allows you to report people who are mascarading as a couple when in fact they are a single bloke and then they deal with it as they see fit then there you have a ready made, built in verification system.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it! :wink:
Oh... and I am most definitely a girl! :giggle:its a pity then that admin. dont deal with it they dont even reply when you submit dodgy profiles money is more important
I disagree - all reports are looked really have sent in two support tickets and never had reply anyway not really interested in you comments thx
Quote by Dirtygirlie
If a member has two or three of them on their profile, it would convince us that he was more likely to be genuine and TURN UP.
Okay Kenty... sorry to chop up your post but this bit jumped out at me. Bear with me... (and please remember that I don't really care whether they have a verification system here or not as long as it has the opt out choice for those who wish to opt out)
So lets for a moment pretend that I'm a single bloke.
I've been on a few meets and I have a few green ticks with some verbal verfications.
1. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Brown. I turned up, I'm genuine. You have personal issues with Mr & Mrs Brown. Would that change your mind about playing with me?
2. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Green. I turned up, I'm genuine. Mr & Mrs Green's profile clearly states that they like to play bareback. There is no mention of whether I insisted on protection or not. Would that change your mind about playing with me?
3. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Purple. I turned up, I'm genuine. Mr & Mrs Purple were later to be overheard discussing their meeting with me in the chatroom one evening. They said I had a very small penis. As it happens I don't have a very small penis, it just so happens that Mrs Purple has a very big fanny. Would that change your mind about playing with me?
4. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Orange. I turned up, I'm genuine. Mr & Mrs Orange didn't hit it off with me. I couldn't get it up, was incredibly rude to Mrs Orange, Mr Orange punched me and we all went home unhappy. They left me bad feedback. I hid it. Would you be any the wiser?
5. I arranged a meet with Mr & Mrs Pink. I didn't turn up. They left me bad feedback. You wouldn't know about that though. I very clerverly hid it!
Yes we all have people who waste time. Yes we all have different opinions. Yes we all have choices. I just think it's so much better to make up your own mind about people rather than listen to gossip or take other people's word for it because what floats your boat might not necessarily float theirs. Verification isn't just about ensuring that you find people who actually turn up... its about all of the examples I've mentioned above.
I'm mostly just thinking aloud as I do but if Admin have a system in place that allows you to report people who are mascarading as a couple when in fact they are a single bloke and then they deal with it as they see fit then there you have a ready made, built in verification system.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it! :wink:
Oh... and I am most definitely a girl! :giggle:its a pity then that admin. dont deal with it they dont even reply when you submit dodgy profiles money is more important
Quote by GnVmore chance of gordon brown doing it than some cowardly french git
At PMQ's today, he announced what we all had been waiting for..
Gordon Brown is......
SUPERMAN :shock: :shock: :shock:
He saved the world!!!
Look out for the red underpants over his grey stockings
read all abart it...
If the French don't like their politicians, they just take them out on the Champes Elysées and behead them...that stops the smell of garlic i presume
Quote by GnVmore chance of gordon brown doing it than some cowardly french git
At PMQ's today, he announced what we all had been waiting for..
Gordon Brown is......
SUPERMAN :shock: :shock: :shock:
He saved the world!!!
Look out for the red underpants over his grey stockings
read all abart it...
Quote by danne-garysame problems here cant even issue support tickets now the sites knackered
im still having problems despite them telling me three times via support tickets that the problem is sorted but it clearly isnt
i only have the problem here on this site and i have it watever laptop or pc im using ?
any help or advice ?
Quote by noladreams30thats ok if you like face book
Do you not remember earlier this year there was a "what bits of Facebook do you like?" thread. I'm guessing that people said they liked the newsfeed which is why we now have one...
this is an adult site (or supposed to be) should still have the choice to show or not to show
Quote by Bungle1961
Awwwwww...tis not good!!
When i click on inbox... my mails are there.... When i click on sent box.... my inbox mails are still thereIt won't show me the sent box!!
But i do still have my friends.... and i like the bit where u can invite people to be friends :thumbup:
my sent box is not there either
it just displays my in box when clickdno sent mail here either and cant retrieve old mail
