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douglas
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 78
0 miles · Hampshire
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Warming the Bed
Okay, some of you have worn me down such that I have now lost the aim and purpose of this correspondence. A victory for the "carpet bombing brigade"?
I have however learned how to post generally, reply to specific posts and how to try to avoid mixing up the threads so thanks for that.
Bye all
Doug
I have however learned how to post generally, reply to specific posts and how to try to avoid mixing up the threads so thanks for that.
Bye all
Doug
Warming the Bed
Quote by bluexxx
Douglas, bit of serious advice for you mate...
Why not tell people what makes you soooooo very special rather than bitching about people being too fussy. Negativity is sooooo not horny. Everyone has preferences.... even you. Think about it.:roll: :roll:
Hi Blue
If I told everyone that I was special I would be fibbing.
Are you suggesting I fib a bit like some of the ads on the site?
Doug
Warming the Bed
Quote by Angel Chat
Thanks all,
So much advice,ranging from useful to insulting.
I don't think they were necessarily insulting, just picking up on the fact that you more or less said "why is everyone else so fussy, I'm not"
The reason seems to be Market Forces ie far more women to men.
It's actually the other way around, there are far far more men here than women, so the women can afford to be extremely choosy
I must say that I do not know how to reply to individual posts in forum so have only pm'd a few of them. I wanted to reply to some of them in forum, but could not
To pick out individual replies, click on the "quote" box at the top of that person's post.
Back to the question in hand, I'm fussy, because I have to have some level of attraction to anybody I sleep with. I couldn't just arrange to meet up with someone who was an unknown quantity (ie I hadn't had any kind of interraction with them before hand, be that reading forum posts, chatting by PM or some form of messenger) I need to have an attraction to the personality and/or the physical attractiveness of a person. I know I'm not alone in this.
I'd even go so far as to bet that you have your own limits as to who you would actually sleep with, and therefore you yourself will almost certainly be fussy to a degree.
HTH
Sorry for getting the man/woman thewrong way round.
My limits are decided when we discuss our likes/dislikes and perhaps when we meet (not yet happened).
Doug.
I have both been rejected and have rejected
Warming the Bed
Thanks all,
So much advice,ranging from useful to insulting.
The reason seems to be Market Forces ie far more women to men.
The responses that suggest I have had no luck are wrong.
I was only asking for opinions which I received in plenty
I must say that I do not know how to reply to individual posts in forum so have only pm'd a few of them. I wanted to reply to some of them in forum, but could not.
So much advice,ranging from useful to insulting.
The reason seems to be Market Forces ie far more women to men.
The responses that suggest I have had no luck are wrong.
I was only asking for opinions which I received in plenty
I must say that I do not know how to reply to individual posts in forum so have only pm'd a few of them. I wanted to reply to some of them in forum, but could not.
Warming the Bed
Hi all
Just a note to let you know I have not ignored the responses but PM'd them.
Thanks to Jah, I now know how to post a reply so here it is.
By way of an observation, my first post on this forum received 35 replies but only 1 useful post. All of the others went off at a tangent and hijacked the original question.
So far on this post, I have had 4 replies, 3 useful and one is in the process of carrying out a hijack.
If I compare the results of two posts ie 35 to 1 and 4 to 1 then ignoring the statistical insignificance, these results show a leaning of the readers to prefer techncal questions to answer.
Clear as mud!!!
Douglas
Just a note to let you know I have not ignored the responses but PM'd them.
Thanks to Jah, I now know how to post a reply so here it is.
By way of an observation, my first post on this forum received 35 replies but only 1 useful post. All of the others went off at a tangent and hijacked the original question.
So far on this post, I have had 4 replies, 3 useful and one is in the process of carrying out a hijack.
If I compare the results of two posts ie 35 to 1 and 4 to 1 then ignoring the statistical insignificance, these results show a leaning of the readers to prefer techncal questions to answer.
Clear as mud!!!
Douglas
Warming the Bed
I have only joined in the last few months and posted a beginner question.
I have a sensible reply to it although further replies went off at a tangent and effectively hijacked my question. I would appreciate only sensible replies to my next question which is:
Although I understand ther is a variety of people visiting this site who require anything from just a friendly chat through a spectrum to at the other end, rampant sex, why do people who quite clearly only want sex, ask questions like how big is your weapon, how tall are you, slim are you, overweight are you etc.
Surely if there are people like me who only want sex,and is prepared to make the experience good for the partner why ask all these questions.
My punch line is, if there are any ladies out there who agree with me and are female, any race,age build or colour and live within 50 miles of Heathrow, then send me a PM.
Otherwise, comments would be welcome
I have a sensible reply to it although further replies went off at a tangent and effectively hijacked my question. I would appreciate only sensible replies to my next question which is:
Although I understand ther is a variety of people visiting this site who require anything from just a friendly chat through a spectrum to at the other end, rampant sex, why do people who quite clearly only want sex, ask questions like how big is your weapon, how tall are you, slim are you, overweight are you etc.
Surely if there are people like me who only want sex,and is prepared to make the experience good for the partner why ask all these questions.
My punch line is, if there are any ladies out there who agree with me and are female, any race,age build or colour and live within 50 miles of Heathrow, then send me a PM.
Otherwise, comments would be welcome
