Hmmm....
when was the last time you gave out the landline to a prospective swinger?
probably a long time ago?
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duncanlondon
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
UK
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a mobile phone number just isn't good enough to accept as a means of security. and where trust and confidence come in, is in making a decision not taking a risk. which they would be doing if they relied on the mobile as being enough. i wouldn't advise or support the idea that a mobile is enough. it sounds like they need to hold off the home meets until they have experienced some other things.
if someone was setting out to do something wrong; they can easily get an unidentifiable phone. making it useless as a reference.
but it's not a wasted exercise. if they don't want to give their number, then its more likely to be their main phone and will identify them. that is for your own assurance and peace of mind.
but it's not a wasted exercise. if they don't want to give their number, then its more likely to be their main phone and will identify them. that is for your own assurance and peace of mind.
reason and accountability.
she has no reason to be accountable for this (your desire to spread your sexual wings).
she probably already knows what you are capable of, or thought you never had it in you.
but here it is and you want to do something about it.
so gently does it, she doesn't need to be victimised by your needs.
but you need a sex life. so have a careful talk and just say you need a sex life, and leave it at that. if she has no reason to be accountable she won't ask questions. and you can do what you need without rubbing it in her face.
oddly enough plenty of couples do this without raising a voice or batting an eyelid. and remain together and live through these things.
she has no reason to be accountable for this (your desire to spread your sexual wings).
she probably already knows what you are capable of, or thought you never had it in you.
but here it is and you want to do something about it.
so gently does it, she doesn't need to be victimised by your needs.
but you need a sex life. so have a careful talk and just say you need a sex life, and leave it at that. if she has no reason to be accountable she won't ask questions. and you can do what you need without rubbing it in her face.
oddly enough plenty of couples do this without raising a voice or batting an eyelid. and remain together and live through these things.
Its beginning to sound like: wifey goes and out and fixes up some new bum for hubby? Its not unusual in the swinging world, depending on how its done.
It looked like it was on the edge of getting into some darker areas. Possibly the guy getting into some madness and you being the victim?
Obviously now you don't feel right about it, so it will all come to an end.
It looked like it was on the edge of getting into some darker areas. Possibly the guy getting into some madness and you being the victim?
Obviously now you don't feel right about it, so it will all come to an end.
Maybe they are high capacity operators and you have been seduced or recruited into their world of supercharged sex. your feelings and requirements have so far been met, in that you were happy with a discreet affair. but it may be nothing in comparison to what they are now looking for.
3 some's, gang bangs, bi stuff might be around the corner for you. this could be your big lucky break.
hang in there and see what happens. just be ready to make a run for it if you think things are going to turn out really bad. then those strings will snap quite easily.
3 some's, gang bangs, bi stuff might be around the corner for you. this could be your big lucky break.
hang in there and see what happens. just be ready to make a run for it if you think things are going to turn out really bad. then those strings will snap quite easily.
So if no one's actually said that the end is nigh, are you going to continue?
You don't need to go on feeling like this for too long. If you don't see a lifetime of a menage a trois then its destined to end at some point. although some affairs do go on for life.
if you can't get over it, the sex may come to an end, but it sounds like it might be worth seeing if there's more mileage in it yet.
perhaps hubby fancies you.
its worth finding out what they want next, you don't have to do it. but it sounds like they have been through this before and its only the start of something else.
couples can go through some quite unexpected things and maybe this is where you will see what they are really all about.
juicy stuff mate!
You don't need to go on feeling like this for too long. If you don't see a lifetime of a menage a trois then its destined to end at some point. although some affairs do go on for life.
if you can't get over it, the sex may come to an end, but it sounds like it might be worth seeing if there's more mileage in it yet.
perhaps hubby fancies you.
its worth finding out what they want next, you don't have to do it. but it sounds like they have been through this before and its only the start of something else.
couples can go through some quite unexpected things and maybe this is where you will see what they are really all about.
juicy stuff mate!
you may still be using your 'sex head', and revelling in some much needed self healing. but the response from you social circle could be various and not always beneficial to your own partnership. so weigh it up before going too far too soon.
you are in effect asking your friends to accept you as a practising adulterer. are they equipped for that?
also this 'lifestyle' may not atually suit you as much as you think it might.
so a bit of caution and discretion to begin with.
you are in effect asking your friends to accept you as a practising adulterer. are they equipped for that?
also this 'lifestyle' may not atually suit you as much as you think it might.
so a bit of caution and discretion to begin with.
