well i suppose there was all sorts of mixed thoughts and feelings during the period of suspiscion and denial.
however once she was confronted with proof positive she responded in a characteristic way.
surely the debate points towards wifey being homophobic? she was willing to tolerate women but not men?
So if the description of the hardened is beginning to gather some kind of recognition and acceptance, the next questions are..............
is it a logical conclusion to the swinging life?
when is it going to happen to me?
what do i do next?
I think it involves a deliberate and determined mentality by the hardened to achieve something. Again it could be applied anywhere in life. A sense of resolve and planning, investment etc. Engineering situations to produce the most effective result.
ie offering themselves and exploiting others for fuck fodder. a full on assault to get that beezer shag.
but maybe that's what we all do, except its disguised under a lot of make believe protocol.
Also one can consider any kind of experience can become 'hardened' into something you want it to be.
going to mcdonalds is a process which is somewhat predictable throughout, but contains a guaranteed experience which you do not expect to change.
ie you just want that bit which hits the spot. and in some cases there is no compromise. it has to contain certain elements to qualify.
as the expression is more often used as 'we are not hardened', it does not tell people what you are like.
but where i think it could applied is for people who are rigid about what they do, more or less dictating any experience with them, becoming entirely for their purposes only.
great! chapter 7 of grays anatomy by the look of it.
even more detail for the blackmailers to use.
I will let you into a few secrets. Where you see a guy wanking, he has a couple on his bed shagging.
when you see a couple, they are watching a guy wanking on their bed.
any other shots will have a guy wanking somewhere in the room although not always visible on cam.
the shots of the ceilings are for the braggers who can hit the ceiling when they come. but there will still be other guys in the room wanking getting ready to attempt a ceiling shot.
that's about it really............
So we are talking 'carelessness' over 'calculation'?
do most agree that the meaning of such words changes when applied?
wanker means useless
arsehole means deliberately annoying
cunt means deceitful
bastard means deeply offensive
there seems to have been a certain amount of incorrectness; which i think is what is causing the offence.
baking is done in batches, not bunches; as they don't arrive as a bunch like grapes; but are constructed deliberately in set amounts.
which must make a lot of difference if you are being slagged off by someone who's calculations are not impirically correct, and find that you have to sustain such an insult.
anyway what do you now want to call these people if they are somewhat ambiguously titled as donuts?
any suggestions?
turnips?
One only has to look at the logic of the thread title to see its off to a doomed end.
Its either an insult or not.
Failing that use a suitable word for the insult, one which shows balls and commitment.
ie say what you mean, mean what you say.
Why are the threads about 'what we should be doing' usually longer than threads about anything else?
You seem to be one for the tight and 'trashy'.
Try a full length see through material, which shows enough of your figure, but gives it a softer edge.
Just as in medicine there is no magic bullet to cure a disease, so it goes for swinging. In that it won't fix anything that is fundamentally broken. It will provide a distraction, and entertainment etc.
we have an addict in our family and he's been at it for nigh on 40 years now. but he likes and more or less lives for it. he's had highs and lows but still hangs in there with it, stopping and starting.
that makes quite a difference in how you manage it as well. he's never had enough money to buy much, so uses it at a 'sensible' level. living with and without it. so in effect has become a seasoned and experienced user.
but a vulnerable novice with an unlimited supply can and usually does end up a disaster case. because there is no controlling factor, which is mostly the supply of, cost of, opportunity of. in the celebrity world there is no control.
the only escape from the drug and the world providing it, was the drug itself.
but performing is a demanding discipline, and she lost that.
Yeah doctors!
50 years ago if you went to see your doctor about a nagging cough he would probably recommend you change your tobacco!
No this is the SH culling season.
members log on for the final time and are found dead at the keyboard some time later.
is it possible that people have got back to doing what they wanted to do in the first place ie swinging?
having done SH and such like; where else can you go now?
ya daft bugger!
anyway it's not that bad. anyone who uses the internet, social networking etc. comes across material such as this untold times, so i don't think they are going to be that interested for too long.
you may have to live down a period of embarrassment but it will pass over soon enough.
call the blackmailer's bluff, I expect nothing more will happen.
maybe its an out of work NOTW hacker.
So now you're famous!
It was really scraping the barrel to 'engineer in' a debate on .
After all the film is all about that, which up till now hadn't been mentioned.
Anyway I like Dean Stockwell in Blue Velvet, where he mimes to the sound track of the Big O (Roy Orbison)
'He's so fucking suave"
I am beginning to wonder who else could be included in the photo section.
perhaps the couples elderly parents or extended family members might be useful, just in case they drop in unexpected? At least we would be forewarned by recognising them.
I think its largely what we are used to seeing in the world of erotica, soft or hard porn etc.
that is; that women are more photographed than men. and the general public and purveyors of such don't normally demand to see some suitable male counterpart posing alongside them.
although in some societies and during some eras men and women have had an equal role in erotica. but at the moment that is less so.
appreciate the attention, but if i could just get back to my usual sardonic mode.................
there's a black guy in north london who wears a set of roller boots with big inflated wheels. he holds onto buses and gets towed around behind them.
do you want one?
i mean you don't sound like you'd get on with me or my buddy.
actually i think these state of the nation threads are always in the forum, so must be an essential part of it.
back in the day before mobiles and the internet, the landline was the point of contact. over the years i got a few late night calls, either from sad hubbies or silent calls.
not something people would want to live with now. or the fear of.
Of course its not done now. . the big no no.
but we all reserve that right, that last piece of privacy etc.