Newbie here. My wife and I (we're 25) have only ever had sex together (we were teenage sweethearts you could say), and lately (last 1 1/2 years or so) our bedroom sex talk has had a lot of fantasies of other people together with us. We talk about it a lot during sex, and I would love to see her get banged by another man, and she says she would love to see me fuck another woman. I would like a threesome both ways MFM and MFF, and she says she would like it and that it turns her on. She loves watching porn with me and fantasizing about other people licking her clit, and banging her, as well as me with others. When I've gone out, I've never cheated on her, but I've told her I did a couple of times (told her the truth afterwards) and she got REALLY hot with it and we had great sex.
Here's my question. Do you think we should act out this fantasy of sex with other people? We're from Canada, and going to Italy this September for our anniversary, and I think this would be a perfect time to try to have a couple of threesomes, but I don't want it to harm our relationship. I would hate to see us act this out and really regret it afterwards. I'm sure I wouldn't. I can't speak for her though. I've thought about just surprising her one night with a threesome with another girl (she really wants to try another girl). Would this be a good idea?
I know that this forum is full of people who love group sex, so the opinions might be a little bias, but any constructive suggestions would be appreciated.
