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easyease
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Gender fluid, 53
0 miles · Leicestershire
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Orgasminator
That guy sounds not only like a leach physically but also mentally, typical "psychic vampire". I dont know what to suggest but times like this re-enforce my view that "the bastard always get's the girl".
I hope things work out for her but it sounds like she has a
low self-esteem and doesnt really love herself, so she shouldnt be with someone else.
I hope things work out for her but it sounds like she has a
low self-esteem and doesnt really love herself, so she shouldnt be with someone else.
Orgasminator
OK, so you won't be able to read this. But it's on the front page of the internet site of swedish newspaper Aftonbladet today. "Voice mail in Vista can destroy documtents" is the content. There is probably an english article out there somewhere as well. Apparently, Vista has a voice recognition thing that allows you to command the computer. So people sent mail with an MP3 that instructed the computer to delete files and empty the trash so they couldn't be restored.
Microsoft's reply: "Well, the speakers and the microphone has to be turned on, and the voice recognition has to be activated, so we don't consider it as a serious threat". Of course, the whole thing seems kind of like a joke, but if someone sent me a mail that made my work be deleted at the end of a day when the backup haven't been made... I would be pretty angry. It doesn't say if it is actually possible to delete system files though, or if it is only documents and personal files.
Orgasminator
swinging with a partners knowledge is cool, cheating on an unaware partner isnt..... though i guess only people who have been decieved to and had their hearts broken will share my viewpoint.
if someone is in a loveless marriage they should exit it, lifes too short to be unhappy.
if someone is in a loveless marriage they should exit it, lifes too short to be unhappy.
Orgasminator
there are different degrees of sexuality and everyone has a different definition of their own, i class myself as bisexual but i only enjoy oral sex with a guy, and i dont really find many men attractive as such(i just like cock), whereas there are a lot of men who use the photo ads who see themselves as straight but engage in anal sex with other men and they are also really fussy about the type of guy they meet.
Orgasminator
Quote by Steve_Mids
good point, i think im guilty of assuming that just because people class themselves as swingers that they are as broad-minded as i am. sorry for coming across as brash and all that.
me and my big gob... :twisted:
So to be a swinger you have to be as broad minded as you
did i say that? no Orgasminator
Quote by northwest-cpl:lol: its definately a thinner line to cross than some would like to think.
I always thought the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy was 6 pints of lager.
You mean 4 pints might do the trick sometimes? :lol: :lol: :lol:
Certainly looking through the chatroom lists, the bi chat rooms always seem to be plentiful and full ...full of married men........ :lol: oh gawd i better shut up ive upset enough people for one day. had a couple of nice pm's though which restores my faith in the cafe.
Orgasminator
Quote by splendid33
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
I know what you are saying........ but people can get very protective of the label by which they define themselves... (I know that I do- altho' that label gets broader daily it would seem)
men specifically say they are open to anything.....except the possibility that at some point in time for whatever reason they might just have sex with a man. being "straight" or whatever is, for some people, a comfort... and security. I know that for me defining myself as a lesbian for years was safe... Now I realise that it isn't as simple as that.
others may never be open to that change.
just tone it down a bit...
good point, i think im guilty of assuming that just because people class themselves as swingers that they are as broad-minded as i am. sorry for coming across as brash and all that.me and my big gob... :twisted:
Orgasminator
Quote by louise_and_joe
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
There you go again, "all the married guys". Im sure you dont mean to say that, but you should think about it a bit more before you post something which you know will offend people.
louiseok substitute "all" for "a hell of a lot", im not attacking any individual relayionships. Im just speaking from what ive observed in the photo ads section, and experience from meeting some of these people.
Orgasminator
Quote by Steve_Mids
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Quote by easyease
well your bloke has got you so how would you know what he'd be like if he didnt? icon_ Im not saying all blokes are the same but just there are a lot who will give something new a try because nothing else is available.
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
How to make friends and influence people
nope.....how to be honest, even though it might upset a few peoples sensibilities....... Orgasminator
Quote by splendid33
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
