I put up an ad on here asking for people to reply with a face pic and I get roughly 10 replies every time I update the ad. Thing is, they ALL get deleted. Not ONE person ever seems to include a face pic with their reply, or have one in their gallery. Now we all know some people like to remain discreet as they don't want to be recognised but you'd think it would be easy enough to keep a face pic in your private gallery in order to attach it to emails. I also seem to get several replies asking me to send a link to my private gallery, which is a fair enough request IF the person asking has just sent me a face pic or has one displayed AND I like what I see. Otherwise, no chance I'm afraid. And fellas, what's the point in sending a link to your private gallery when all you have in there is bum and cock pics?

Back to what I am looking for. So many people on here are seeking 'regular' fun on their profile but when it comes to the crunch most meets turn out to be one-off's. I don't do one nighters and can't think of any reason why someone should want good sex to stop at just one meet. Yes I know this is a swinging site and not a dating site so don't waste your time trying to point this out to me. I just firmly believe that part of the swinging ettiquette should include meeting for a drink or coffee beforehand rather than blindly turning up at someone's house or a hotel, shagging and running off into the night. Call me old-fashioned but what happened to a good old chat beforehand?

Please note, I will ignore whispers in chat and emails in general if you don't have at least some form of pic on your profile. Will reply to those with a partially covered face pic or a body shot with partial face showing. Please stop using the old 'it's a work computer' excuse!