Ice Pie
I can see what your saying and im not sure that duplication of a topic over time is that bad a thing. Newbies may not haves seen topics that have been discussed in the past and people do change or develp their opinions over time.
ThoughI suppose what non of us want is to see the same topics appearing week in and week out
No, never done it, but know people that have. They have got flights for just the cost of the airpost tax this way.
Good luck and dont forget to send a postcard!!
To everyone else - What I cannot understand is the number of people who did not see the incident and were not even there – suddenly have an opinion on it and have taken it upon themselves to escalate the issue, suggest suitable punishment and are pretty much close to inciting a witch-hunt.
We , the ones that were not there, have commented because we care about jiggle and hate to see him being bullied (intentionaly or not)
Also people must realise that what goes on at any sh meeting, be it munch or party or whatever, reflects upon the site and the other users. My greatest fear is that one day munch antics are going to land the site in the national press. Mark and others have put in a lot of work to make sh what it is today, and I for wone whould hate to see all that work dystroyed by a drunken "prank"
Jiggles i know you was offended, but the person(s) concerned took you aside on the night and apologised cause I saw it......................... it was a joke that went too far and you were upset, the people concerned were told and have apologised. You are one of the true gents in the room, I agree, but all this banning for ice throwing and name calling and kissing is riidulous, we are all here openly seeking sex, if ya can't handle it get off the roundabout, cause very soon there won't be anyone left in forums, chat room, munches other than the new people who cant get to attend any of them anyway!!
Ok i dont do muches(one of the reasons being the type of behaviour i have heard of happening at these events) and probably have no right to comment on this matter but i do know Jiggle (not in the biblical sense) and he wouldnt hurt a fly.
He may be little over enthusiastic at times(and yes in the past he has really wound me up) but he didnt deserve to be the butt of this "joke". We all know that he blushes easily and i find it really hurtfull that anyone would bully him like this , knowing the way he would react.
It is not fair to be-little the way he felt and reacted. It has clearly taken him a lot of courage to raise the problem here and he was considerate enough not to mention names.
Another insomniac I see !!!!
Welcome
Hate to buck the trend here but i dont think, as long as the couple involved are sensible, that you need worry about them in the way that your implying.
It would be a different case altogether if they were indulging solitarily, then i would be worried.
Assuming that they have a safe word, a safe sign and are intune with each other then i would think the biggest worry is the addictivness of the activity. Like most activities there is often the need to go further and further
I wouldnt worry about your friend talking to you about the subject, hes just found a new pastime , that he likes and that excites him and he wants to talk to someone about it!!Quiet natural really