Quote by Reese
You know very well that im eant WED night!!
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What?? You mean Ted's not coming tonight?! :cry:
~Reese! :o
P.S. to Ben: Well? Have you phoned her yet?!
Ted may be cumiing but if he is i have nothing to do with it!!
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foxylady__123
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Quote by niceguysdoexist
Well errrr ....I did happen , totally accidentally of course, to notice that the handle of a petrol pump against your groin can feel rather nice when filling up with petrol.
It must be me :oops:
Dont you just love shaking the pump when youve finsihed putting the petrol in???
Quote by bikerdave
no man has any right to take advantage of any women. no matter how they are dressed
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Thank you, I wasnt going to enter into this conversation because I wasnt at the munch but i have been very alarmed at the some of the, "she was asking for it coments" which all seem to assume that men have no control over their actions!!
It s particularly reasuring that you made the comment as a male
Again thanks
Quote by jomu
The other person was probably only after a quick shag...you seem to want a relationship...most of the people I know in this scene only WANT a quick shag, and rarely meet more than once or twice.
It's called life, I think !
I think that is a tad harsh!!
A lot of us realise that first time sex , altough fun in its self, often misses the trust element that develops on subsequent meetings.
Why this guy should bottle out like that for a second meeting is beyond me, but i tend to guess his wife may have found out or he is feeling guilty. Main thing is not to let it get to you, move on , hes a plonker its not your fault, there are plenty more fish...............
Quote by Hokum
You'll never persuade a woman who is not into swinging to start.
The truth is that men are always more receptable to the idea of swinging than it is men that broach the subject not women. It's difficult for women to seperate love and sex that is the crux.
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Nonsense, men are not the ones who, always btoach the subject first. How can you make such a sweeping generalisation?
And as for it being more difficult for women to seperate love and sex believe me its not for all of us!!
Quote by neilinleeds
The following is not directed at any mods!!!
Why do people want to be in 'hidden mode'?
Who or what are they hidding from?
What is the point?
My only conclussion is they have some strange pshycological problem and are trying to hide from themselves?
uuummmm . . . . well . . . .
if, for example, i was showing online 24/7, and someone PM'ed me, and i didn't reply, well they might think i was just ignoring 'em?
and if for example, a MOD was online and showing, when all they wanted to do was read a few posts and join in the banter as and when, well it would be a tad hard when people started PM'ing them to say"delete this post, ban that fecker, have you seen that, what you gonna do about it?" etc etc etc?
i don't show online cos i ain't always online, even though i am always online, and i'd like the option to be online, and do online things?
n x x x x ;)
OK o understand the mod thing.
As for someone pming you, surely no one expects an instant reply? Surely its excepted that altough your there you may no be physically there?
:kiss: :kiss: Will those do instead?Quote by mal609
James
Can I ask you something? Are you using some form of voice activated text system? A lot of your posts are very badly written which is not down to a bad education, ie jell us instead of jealous. It makes your posts very difficult to read.
Mal
I dont find his post difficult to read, at all, but then i am dyslexic!!
Quote by chamoix
Has anyone else found using this site i have been able to stick to my healthy eating and exersices a lot more than without it.I have even bought as set of weights and an exersise bench,so it realy does help one stick to a health regime.i supose that it is the fact that i might find it embarassing to meet people and not be in my best shape,so thanks for the insentive swinging helps a lot.
no not foud tht but have found its brought me some well needed extra exercise!!
Quote by VenusnMars
It is all very well condeming people for thinking and using physical violence, but we do unfortunately live in the real world. Violence is of course deplorable, but when dealing with people of a certain mentality, it may be the only course open, though one would hope the shotgun would not be necessary.
Unfortunately the real world dictates that the `good guys` don`t always win.
Exactly my point!!
These situations are very volatile as it sounds are the perpatrators of the nusience. Are people suggesting that Alex does nothing and waits untill her or one of hers are physically attacked, remeber the other side are likely to see her as an easy target as she is a lone female.
Unfortunately in the real world there are not always easy answers to give. Suggesting Alex doesn`t take a possible route which could make matters worse, is not the same as supporting that she sit back and do nothing. The latter is not an ideal solution, but the former is not either.
Agreed, but she should try to keep one step ahead of them
In my opinion , violence perpetuates more violence, so in a situation that is heading that way it is best to get the boot in first, especially if you have the smaller feet!! It is a difficult situation to be in and very difficult to understand unless you have actually been there!!
When violence perpetuates violence, Alex could very well leave herself wide open to a backlash of violence which as a female on her own with children she could quite possibly find herself incapable of coping with, they know this, which is probably one of the reasons they are centering her out. On top of which, if she had any part of being the person who threw the first punch, then not only would she have the possible backlash to cope with, but the backlash of the law also. Dealing with a problem by making it worse and adding another is not going to help. Sometimes this approach IS effective, but in many many cases it opens up a huge can of worms. Too many cases for it to be worth the risk IMO.
I think only Alex can decide if any course of action is worth the rik, we arent there 24 hours a day. I do think she should try to be pro active rather than re active.
Just editing my post to suggest an alternative way. Maybe it would be enough for the "right" type of person to be seen around Alexs home, with out them actually needing to do anything more than be there and give the neigibours, "the look"?
Pehaps a gang of leather clad, bikers?? Hagrid, where are you ?
I think this is a very good and positive idea, they need to know that Alex is not as alone and vunerable as they have supposed (just make sure they are capable of maintaining a distance Alex, for there is nothing worse than an outraged protector diving in and throwing threats around on your behalf, no matter how honorable their intention
). I`d also advocate following up on any legal avenues possible. They may not be all that effective (which varies from council to council), but sometimes simply the knowledge that the eye of the law is upon them is enough to make them think twice before using violence. I disagree with the mentality that `all chavs are the same`, we are talking about individuals who *can* be a problem in varying degrees. Their courage in coming up against the law varies from person to person.In my experience the type of person Alex is dealing with could give a shit about the law!!!
Sorry Foxy, I`m in discursive mode! :P
Venusxxx
You clearly had a better nights sleep than i did
Suzzyxx
It is all very well condeming people for thinking and using physical violence, but we do unfortunately live in the real world. Violence is of course deplorable, but when dealing with people of a certain mentality, it may be the only course open, though one would hope the shotgun would not be necessary.
These situations are very volatile as it sounds are the perpatrators of the nusience. Are people suggesting that Alex does nothing and waits untill her or one of hers are physically attacked, remeber the other side are likely to see her as an easy target as she is a lone female.
In my opinion , violence perpetuates more violence, so in a situation that is heading that way it is best to get the boot in first, especially if you have the smaller feet!! It is a difficult situation to be in and very difficult to understand unless you have actually been there!!
Just editing my post to suggest an alternative way. Maybe it would be enough for the "right" type of person to be seen around Alexs home, without them actually needing to do anything more than be there and give the neigibours, "the look"?
Pehaps a gang of leather clad,well built bikers?? Hagrid, where are you ?
These situations are very volatile as it sounds are the perpatrators of the nusience. Are people suggesting that Alex does nothing and waits untill her or one of hers are physically attacked, remeber the other side are likely to see her as an easy target as she is a lone female.
In my opinion , violence perpetuates more violence, so in a situation that is heading that way it is best to get the boot in first, especially if you have the smaller feet!! It is a difficult situation to be in and very difficult to understand unless you have actually been there!!
Just editing my post to suggest an alternative way. Maybe it would be enough for the "right" type of person to be seen around Alexs home, without them actually needing to do anything more than be there and give the neigibours, "the look"?
Pehaps a gang of leather clad,well built bikers?? Hagrid, where are you ?
Quote by Shloppy
/quote] Part of the attraction is not being able to stand the person!!
So Foxy do you feel the same compulsion to shag people you like, if so who the hell haven't you shagged?
Actually no, some people are too nice for me to shag!! I have met three of them and they both may be on here at the moment,(to two of those i appologise , the third i think feels as i do) Nice , so nice they would be the type of men i would be friendes with, no way could i shag them!! iknow its rediculous, but i just couldnt !!
That does not mean i only shag bastards , there is a middle ground.
Quote by manofmuchfun
I bet many of you who have categorically said NO WAY would possible fuck a stranger. The stranger could then turn out to be the most annoying obnoxious fukwit in the world.
and just one other point - how the hell do manage to fuck someone who's not in the same room?
My answer would be possibly. I think that idealogical differences could be overcome in bed (or wherever), physical revulsion may be a little harder to overcome.
its different with a stranger cos you dont know them ?
but how the hell can you shag some twat that you actually know and despise ?
maybe a body but how many others can we choose from out there .....loads !
Part of the attraction is not being able to stand the person!!
Quote by bikerdavegot to admit you have balls to say that. at the moment i dont know iam still thinking.
Following on from the Physical Attraction thread
Could/would you fuck someone you hated and detested? Someone who has opposite values/ ideas to yourself?Someone you cant bare to be in the same room as?
I could / would without doubt!!
conclusion - no
Nope, sorry to dissapoint , i aint got any balls!!!iam glad you havent got balls .cause your bum wouldent look as nice as it is. mmmmmmmmmm
[/quoteThanks for that comment, just what i needed on a shity day!!
I dont think id like to have balls they would make me too vulnerable (venus is going to have a great time analysing that comment!!)
Quote by bikerdavegot to admit you have balls to say that. at the moment i dont know iam still thinking.
Following on from the Physical Attraction thread
Could/would you fuck someone you hated and detested? Someone who has opposite values/ ideas to yourself?Someone you cant bare to be in the same room as?
I could / would without doubt!!
conclusion - no
Nope, sorry to dissapoint , i aint got any balls!!!
Quote by Ice Pie
Just a slight variation on the theme here, I was wondering...
Regardless of whether you would have sex with someone you don't like, would you have sex with someone who can't stand you?
:rotflmao: Tes, of course i would, but only on my terms and my conditiions, eg when i wanted and how i wanted!!! 