And there was me thinking you had done 2000 postings just about your computer!!!!
Im astounded!! 8,500 miles and all that!! Maybe its me but i fear the commitment of saying i will stay over or whatever!!
Ive got to wondering how far people would travel for a meet? I was talking to someone earlier who had women travel far further than i would ever consider going to meet him and wondered how far others wopuld be prepared to go or have gone?
for my part the futherest Ive ever travelled is Birmingham which is about 100 miles, but we had chatted for months beforehand and yes he was worth it!!
So question is how far would you go?
Maybe with his southern accent the word Brew didnt come out quiet right?
Arnt these Southerners Whimps?
First of all i must state that ive only skimmed through the first page of this post, so if ive missed anything i appologise.
Secondly, group dyanamics are always interesting, both in real life and on here.
I rather think that life on here tends to reflect real life. Most people have a need to belong, that is why they form cliques, which i would argue have an optimum size and that give people a much needed sense of belonging.
There are a few people who seem not to need these groups, infact even some that will go to great lengths to avoid becoming a clique member and i count mysellf amongst the latter.
As for why someone want to belong and others dont give a shit, i would contend that it is greatly influenced by early socialisation and ones position with in the family go into all these issues would clearly take to long , but sufficient to say that only ones and elder children usually have less need of group support than middle or younger siblings, in my experience. anthropo,logy would tell us that humans need group as it makes survival easier.
The one issue that stood out form the thread was the number of people sayijng they dont feel comfortable enough to express themselves her, that they feel they cant write as well as others.I feel that is a shame as everyone has something worth saying and they should not let others intimidate them, using long words dosnt necessarily mean that a person has a more valid opinion at all!!
In conclussion, cliques , both here and in real life, are like religion, a wonderful thing, for those who need them!!
also did you know that,A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes.?
Im afraid mine was on the lounge carpet too!!The carpet burns lasted for ageessssss !!!
Venus
No its not that , havnt done that for oooooohhhhhhh days now!!
Venus
Oh dear, your fiingers must be sooooooooo sore!! Tell me do you get the pain in your wrist like i do? :high-smile:
fisting is fun!! but you need surgical gloves and lots of lub!!
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