Sahron,
I really feal for you!!
First thing you need ot do is disregard all the crap thats been posted here (yes that probably includes what im about to write)
No one on here is going to understand where you are coming from unless they have been there and i am probably the nearest to having been in your situation. My h/b is not as interested in sex as i would like him to be. the difference is he knows i play away and is happy with he didnt i would probably still be here!! Ive known a number of men in the reverse situation (wife not interested) and you know what? the minute they get a bit on the side, they reduce the sexual pressure at home and their relationship with the wife improves!!
sometimes im convinced the wife senses what is going on behind her back and realises the benefit, so decides not to ask too many questions.
All marriages / relationships are different. The reply that said you should leave you h/b was in my opinion, the worst possible reply on this theread. A relationship , especially one involving a child, is the most precious thing their is and worth preserving, too often nowadays people put their own selfish needs abouve their families!!
So take no notice of what others who are single or in more open realtionships say do what you think is right, if they dont like it that is their problem, happen you wouldnt approve of all they do?
Finally dont apologise for your spelling, as far as i know this is still a swingers site not a spelling site!!
Good luck
xx
Personally I would go on my own if I was you..
Prove to yourself that you can do it and then everything else will be will take courage , but you will feel so much better for it.
oh dear, once again i find myself in the minority, maybe you shouldnt read what im about to write venus!!
As someone who is old enough to be a grandparendt - gentically (though im bloody thankfull noe of out 3 have decided to make us so) i disagree
I havnt got a problem with anyone wanting time away from their kids, it helps everyones realtionship, kids are demanding and time consuming. Yo bring them up correctly (as im sure Venuses kids are) takes imesurable energy and leaves you tired and drained. For that reason i would ask , are grandparents the best people to leave your kids with especially if they are reluctant or harbour any hesitant thoughts?
I would never have left mine with their grandparents, in fact i wouldnt have even asked. To escape we used to swoop the kids with friends - parents of children around the kids age or a childless cousin who loved having them!!
As a potential grandparent , i would run am ile if my kids tried to leave me with theirs for a week!! Sorry but ive spent over 20 years bringing them up, the mere thought is like a sentance to hell
Leave them with grandparents and you will hear about it for ever and ever!!!!!!
Put some information in your profile!!!
No thanks i might break a nail and those uniforms are awful!!!!
You know when i sae the the title of this thread i thought it might be a lot more interesting!! :twisted:
No its not died, they are still rolling in!!! :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
First time i met anyone we had a bottle of wine between ys and it helped.
Since then i have learnt that anymore than say a glass and a half and all i want to do is sleep!!
The more i get to know aperson before i meet them then the less i need alchohol. Last time i met anyone i didnt have a drink at all and it was brilliant!!
but 2 offers i had over the last month involved back of Vans .i meen err what is that all about .Some desprate guys out there or what. To cheep to pay for hotels . I meen come on guys we all like a bit of fun but at least spend the first meet on a bed lol Any body else had the same
offer or is it just me
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