Until now, the HAMMER HOUSE of HORROR, but ITV has just advertised a re-run :uhoh:
Heres praying that they haven`t dated like many other classics.
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foxys
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
Bi-curious Female, 56
0 miles · West Midlands
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We never request single bi-fems. Nothing to do with the sex, its just that we prefer the experience to be more wholesome. We like the 4 way connection and for the lads as well as the girls to connect and hit it off......socially especially we just prefer the 2 couples scenario rather than the 1 couple and single guy/girl. Sadly it happens all to infrequently.
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Quote by AlexClaireSX
Men NEVER but NEVER stand next to each other at urinals You always leave a 'free' one between you and your co user!!!!!!
Yeh, which is fine until you walk in to a four-urinal toilet only to find the 2 outside ones taken.
It`s nigh on impossible to disguise the fact that you have to "chose" between one of the guys . On the flip side, ooooh the feeling of rejection when you`re not chosen.
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Fruity, chat some more, ten minutes isn`t really long enough. If it`s your first time please don`t rush into it because you feel you are obliged to. If you don`t feel its right they will not mind and they will respect your wishes. ...If they don`t then clearly you made the right choice.
If you do decide to meet, just meet for a drink/coffee whatever. Its difficult , but easier to explain after a meet that you couldn`t take things further ...rather than at the meet.
Good luck whatever x
If you do decide to meet, just meet for a drink/coffee whatever. Its difficult , but easier to explain after a meet that you couldn`t take things further ...rather than at the meet.
Good luck whatever x
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You can allow a request whilst APPEARING to be off line and then check the profile (if there is one) which ensures you dont unwittingly block a request you may have been expecting. Otherwise, YES if it is uninvited or unintroduced we find it difficult to get past the impoliteness shown.
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Short on time. This scenario has opened both our minds....our main reason for being here.
Still confused though, we both believe that sex isn`t the most important thing in the world (in other words there are far worse/better ways to hurt /pleasureyour partner) however doing the one thing that you know would crush your partner is simply not on. The bit we now can`t quite accept is the suggestion that a married person playing away is a worse crime than the partner denying sex.
Feel especially sorry for baldy . I (m) could probably handle my partner having a deceitful one night stand easier than finding that she had been lunching with someone for 12 months without any sex whatsoever. This is because I couldnt handle her connecting with someone else on a higher spiritual level than one that exists already between us..
Excellent thread though.
Foxys x
Still confused though, we both believe that sex isn`t the most important thing in the world (in other words there are far worse/better ways to hurt /pleasureyour partner) however doing the one thing that you know would crush your partner is simply not on. The bit we now can`t quite accept is the suggestion that a married person playing away is a worse crime than the partner denying sex.
Feel especially sorry for baldy . I (m) could probably handle my partner having a deceitful one night stand easier than finding that she had been lunching with someone for 12 months without any sex whatsoever. This is because I couldnt handle her connecting with someone else on a higher spiritual level than one that exists already between us..
Excellent thread though.
Foxys x
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Quote by kinkyred99
There are lots of married people whose relationships change over time - for whatever reason. There are lots of married people who have very different views from their partners and why shouldnt they? The bottom line is we are all individuals, and I can think of much worse faults in a husband than him having sex with someone else.
This seems so true. To some married/attached guys who want to play away it may not seem such a crime, PURELY because they see it as ONLY sex. Im absolutely certain that there are worse crimes to commit against a so called loved one.
However Its about different perspectives. I would argue that if I was secretly gambling away our family income and lying about where the money was going, that to me should represent at least an equal crime ,particularly when you consider the possible outcome (family break up, children deprived financially, no heating, baliffs etc etc etc ) Both crimes hurt your loved ones as a result of YOUR self indulgence.
In short, regardless of how harmless YOU regard your crime, if you know for sure that what you are doing would crush your loved one(partner) or loved ones(children) no matter how much youve cleansed your conscience, you really really need to reconsider your actions.
There are exceptions to every rule but I personally can not understand how any one can cause wanton hurt to a partner.
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Quote by SurreyBloke
Hmm.
It reminds me of that old arcade game where you had a rollerball and had to defend cities against invaders.
Cant remember what it was called tho'
Surreybloke, it was Battlecommand..same genre as pacman, phoenix, galaxians, Zaxxon, scramble, crazyclimber,fantasia etc etc etc etc...I was good, my parents could buy peace and quiet for the whole evening out for 10p.........sometimes longer if it was possible to arc the plug and generate 10 free credits for nowt.
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Quote by gands0719
Heres a few bands that i have seen and were AWESOME...
Skid row
Girl I hear ya on this one ... I've seen them twice and both times they rocked, once when they supported Bon Jovi and the second time when they supported GNR at Wembley. Not seen them since then, but after Bas left I kinda lost interest
I saw Alice Cooper either last year or the year before (when Thunder and the Darkness supported) and he blew me away, I couldn't believe my eyes!
Anyone seen Foo Fighters or RHCP? They're next on my list (after, ahem, Kylie :embarrased2: )
Seen the RHCP, a few times...always good value. Shame they only play enormodomes and stadiums these days. Fantastic watching them at the Hummingbird in B'ham years ago when Mothers Milk came out, covered in DayGlo bodypaint (the band, not me
!!)Seen the RHCP, a few times...always good value. Shame they only play enormodomes and stadiums these days. Fantastic watching them at the Hummingbird in B'ham years ago when Mothers Milk came out, covered in DayGlo bodypaint (the band, not me :)!!)
That reminds me, for any Manics fans who have only ever seen them at arenas (as in the last few years) they are playing Wolverhampton very soon , where if you`re lucky the capacity is about 2 or 3 thousand. Best time to catch bands is on their way up or on their way down.
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FWIW we've never encountered the term hardcore but have had loads of emails informing us that they are not hardened take is that hardened may suggest that swinging is no big deal to them and that they are emotionally "hardened" to it all...this isn't necessarily a bad thing. Some may want the fun without the risk of an emotional attachment which is also, arguably, a good selling point...yet we have never ever had anybody admit to being hardened.
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We find full on a little too intimate, though its difficult to explain the parody of yes to oral sex, yet no to kissing. 
Maybe its because kissing is romantic as well as sexy.
Now I think back, the night I first walked mrs foxy home, when we stood awkwardly at the door for what seemed like a life time,waiting for someone to make the first move, I aint to sure that going down on her would have been the most romantic end to our first date. (horniest end maybe) :twisted:
Anyhow, it might have been a little embarrassing for her sister and boyfriend who were with us too.
Maybe its because kissing is romantic as well as sexy.
Now I think back, the night I first walked mrs foxy home, when we stood awkwardly at the door for what seemed like a life time,waiting for someone to make the first move, I aint to sure that going down on her would have been the most romantic end to our first date. (horniest end maybe) :twisted:
Anyhow, it might have been a little embarrassing for her sister and boyfriend who were with us too.
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We decided to join in on a "what is a hardened swinger" type thread
How things change. Anyway, got to shoot, almost time for our daily lunchtime gangbang :twisted:
Quote by foxy30s_cpl
We are unhardened which to us means that meeting/playing with a couple is still a huuuuuge huge deal which has to include pre-meet familiarity and aftermeet chats with a general glowy touchy feely attitude towards them and an urge to dicuss and have a good chat and laugh about the meet....maybe with a view to another meet???
We recently met a couple who were hardened swingers. We met, played, all enjoyed, but that was it.........fairly cold before, fairly cold after...more of a .."yeh, so we played together, what of it?"
This isnt even a critisism. Hardened in general refers to an increase in robustnus.....similar to most of us with xmas...how CAN Xmas today ever compare with those first few Xmas`s?
Mind you, having said all of that I dont think this automatically means that people who have had multiple meets do not cherish the meets and friendship as much....not all people are unmoved and impassive. We know this for a fact.
How things change. Anyway, got to shoot, almost time for our daily lunchtime gangbang :twisted:
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Oh gaawwwd, how I wish we could dig up something sensual and erotic for you all...... :love: .instead of......................
..........THIS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ............................................................. :scared:
(sorry, link removed)
oh and before anyone asks, no we dont, never have done and...........etc etc etc :shock:
Damn this photographic memory
EDIT :
*** apologies but having read the whole thread again , Ive rightly or wrongly decided to remove the link as many people questioned its appropriacy at the time.(sp?)
..........THIS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ............................................................. :scared:
(sorry, link removed)
oh and before anyone asks, no we dont, never have done and...........etc etc etc :shock:
Damn this photographic memory
EDIT :
*** apologies but having read the whole thread again , Ive rightly or wrongly decided to remove the link as many people questioned its appropriacy at the time.(sp?)
