Yes I'm married (all the best ones are)---- BUT ---- my wife is disabled and sex between us is not pleasurable or exciting due to her disability. So rather than consider leaving her I prefer to enjoy discreet relationships outside of my marriage. Maybe sometimes I think I'm a rat but other times I think I'm helping to preserve my marriage - everybody is entitled to a fun sex life when it's physically possible - aren't they? Help me indulge myself and you and me can enjoy mutual pleasure with nobody else suffering. p.s. I love oral both ways !! probably more than actual sex - if this gets you off I'm your man !!