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gailen
Over 90 days ago
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Bisexual Female
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Quote by freckledbird
You've said yourself that you've chosen to go on couples night, so I think you've already decided that you don't want to be surrounded by single males -YOU have decided that you don't want single males there, not the club, so it's logical to assume that other couples are of the same opinion (at least for a first visit).
You aren't being shot at, you've been given opinions (that you asked for)
Bev
xx
Yes we did choose couples night for that very reason - as its our first visit i guess i wanted her to feel comfortable.
No - i wasnt being shot at
I only put that bit in for a bit of humour?Thanks for the comments
Sexpert
Quote by freckledbird
Still comes down to most couples wanting to meet other couples and not single guys. Clubs make it more expensive to allow for that, by putting membership out of the price range acceptable for most. It also means more revenue generated for them along the way. Would you want to go to a swingers club if it was full of single straight men?
Bev
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PLease forgive my naivity on this matter (im making my first visit to a club this weekend - with a friend) but are you saying that clubs want single guys but the members dont?
I have to admit that for our first visit we purposely chose couples night.
*prepares to be shot at*
Sexpert
I Hope this is in the right section - if not im sure i will soon find out
Im going to Chams on Saturday with a lady friend of mine and another couple. I wondered if anyone of you lovely lot were planning to go there too and maybe we could say hello?
Would be good to meet some of you from here.
Im going to Chams on Saturday with a lady friend of mine and another couple. I wondered if anyone of you lovely lot were planning to go there too and maybe we could say hello?
Would be good to meet some of you from here.
Sexpert
Quote by cummon
Discount sounds good..............
I will get my organisers head on soon I promise............
Steve
All i said to Tim was - that we were going to bring a fair number of people along on a Saturday afternoon and would let him know in advance. So may i humbly suggest that you (or someone ) call him?
Sexpert
Quote by Tania
I have porn ambitions myself. Would like to direct a porn film that I would write. I got the rough idea written as a story. Will email the first 3 people to respond with their wish to see and review the plot.
If the plot involves a mature guy - then id love to read it!
maybe audition for the part ?? (not saying which part before anyone asks)
Sexpert
Quote by Parrot
Hi all,
I live oop t'North with my whippet but I have to be down in Ringwood for 2 weeks starting on Thursday.
If you fancy a beer, in a public place, just say so. (No strings)
I'll even bring the parrot as a chaperone, lol
Steve
I spend a couple of days a week in the Basingstoke area - its not a million miles away - so maybe meet for a beer half way?
Would be good if Misschief could meet too?
Anyone else?
Sexpert
Quote by Bignetsuke bird
Gailen, I'm sure we've spoken before in a pm.
Yes we have!
Netsuke
Quote by Bignetsuke bird
But we're going to Wishmasters Birthday party in May (Herts/Beds Munch as was) and if your old enough to be someone's Dad then I'm old enough to be someone's Granny. But I don't care.....still young at heart, stil think and act like 17 (sometimes this can cause embrassament)....but again I don't care. But we're as nervous as HELL :!:
Life is for living and you only here just one time....this isn't the practice lap...it's the only chance we've got......so
ENJOY
:love:
Netsuke
Im down for that party too - or at leat i think i am?
Look forward to talking to you - unless you both fancy a beer before then?
Sexpert
Quote by davejwe are
HI all - i hope im posting this in the right place - if not please forgive me.
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!!
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age
You all seem so much younger than me,
!
and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.we do
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.were not
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!:shock: shiverrrrr!!!!!:shock:
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner
Thanks Dave - just what i needed - i knew i could rely on someone!! :(
Only kidding - im looking forward to it really - especially now
Sexpert
Quote by Tania
Anyway, nipples are like little erotic switches that can send waves of pleasure down the whole body. I love men's nipples and it is usually the first thing I notice in them. I have many ways of dealing with nipples, lots of .....hmmm shall we say.... implements for them.
Happy to demonstrate at a private party.
Sometimes i love my nipples played with and they are indeed sensitive - very!
Other times it does nothing.
But in my deep and murky past, i have had all sorts of clamps etc put on them at various times and it isnt so much while the clamps are on that is sensitive - its when the clamps come off - Oh wow!
If you need a subject for your demonstration then i volunteer
Sexpert
Quote by little gem
Age doesnt matter, hun, most of the people on here are older than me (im 23 before you wonder) so no stress
See you there Galien!
Thanks Little Gem i'll look forward to meeting you - but im probably older than your
dad? :shock:
Quote by rainbows
Gailen - I was that shivering wreck in the corner at the Notts Munch last year - so understand where you are coming from!!!!!
You will last 5 secs there before being drawn into the general meleee. Trust me!!!! Just be yourself and have no expectations. Have fun! That's the main thing!!!
Rs
I intend to have fun and enjoy, and NO i have no expectations other than to meet some lovely people
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assionkiss: Sexpert
HI all - i hope im posting this in the right place - if not please forgive me.
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!!
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age
You all seem so much younger than me, and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner!
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!!
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age
You all seem so much younger than me, and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner!
Sexpert
Quote by bluexxx
problem solved it was indeed a Bi male Dogger trying to get my attention. Turns out he uses Swingingheaven too.
Sorted. So, was he a good shag?
If so, when are you going to introduce me to him?
Guess there is only one way to find out Blue
"ducks to avoid the reply"
Sexpert
Quote by Cicero
I'd like to think that the older a fella gets and gains more experience of life and not just sex, he becomes a more thoughtful person.
But speaking generally an older guy might want to put his partner's pleasure first before his own. Her enjoyment is paramount. He gets turned on by HER ecstacy and its not because he sees himself as a kind of stud but rather that he is sharing something intimate and so enjoyable with her.
I think also that older fellas would be more interested in the whole person (female or male) and and not just their body. If I find someone's personality attractive, I'll automatically find them sexually attractive. And any sexual contact that takes place will be that more enjoyable and richer.
Speaking as an older bloke (51) I'm in no hurry to jump into bed with someone. Quality rather than quantity has never been truer.
As for slowing down as you get older, yes of course it happens. Some older blokes would hate to admit it but its a fact of life. A definate advantage of slowing down is that sex seems to last longer and thats good news!
Older blokes are very much at ease with themselves.
Sex is much more fun now. It seems to last longer, has more laughter, and a lot of tenderness and warm smiles.
Love Cicero
Perfectly put Cicero - i totally agree! Im 55 (so im probably considere an antique by now).
Sexpert
Ive only had one real dabble with a Ouija board and there was "someone" who wanted to speak with me - so i asked that "someone " a question. NO-ONE in the room knew the answer to that question - but the answer came back loud and true!
Ive not dabbled since and i agree that things like that should be left alone unless we know exactly what we are doing!
Scary!
Ive not dabbled since and i agree that things like that should be left alone unless we know exactly what we are doing!
Scary!
Sexpert
Its a good point Serendipity. (and i hope the cold clears up soon - ive had it so i sympathise)
When im in earshot of a conversation like that i too tend to clam up - but if im invited to join the conversation i will try to put the alternative argument. (without giving away anything of course )
I agreee with phuturetek - id bet that a good percentage of the same people who condemn it in public would secretly love to "have a go"
When im in earshot of a conversation like that i too tend to clam up - but if im invited to join the conversation i will try to put the alternative argument. (without giving away anything of course
)I agreee with phuturetek - id bet that a good percentage of the same people who condemn it in public would secretly love to "have a go"
