I prefer my wife to have affairs with married men rather than singles. Married men are mostly only after the sex not to replace their wives. I feel it less threatening to our relationship.
I’m in a sexless marriage. My wife hasn’t allowed me to have sex with her for over 27 years and I’ve never played away. However, I would love it if she would. When I say she won’t have sex with me, I mean she won’t fuck with me. She does occasionally help me have a wank and teases me about taking a lover, but no luck yet.
Years ago when we were younger. My wife had an affair with a man from work. It lasted about 12 months. I still love to hear about it and what the used to do together. When she stopped having sex with me because of my transgender issues, I tried to persuade her to take another lover but have had no luck. The fact that she won’t have sex with me makes the thought Of her having a regular lover even more erotic.
I am fully shaven and dress fully as a female but it isn’t as a turn on, it’s because I’ve always wanted to be a woman. My wife is aware and very supportive and helps me buy my clothes and make up. I always wear a silky nighty in bed,which she doesn’t particularly like but accepts. She always buys me a new nighty and negligée for Christmas. When we were younger we used to have “girls” days and nights out.
The down side is, although we love each other very much she has no interest in me sexually as she says she can’t feel turned on by me. She says it is like doing it with a woman and turns her off. Consequently, we haven’t had sex for years. We are like best girl friends or sisters. I have tried to persuade her to have an affair, but she says she isn’t interested and has lost interest in sex. She does help me have wanks occasionally and I love her to tease me about her having a lover, but I can’t seem to persuade her to do it for real. I would love to be dressed as a woman and welcome her lover into our home to have sex with her. It would be suitable punishment for me being transgender.
I would love my wife to have a regular lover who she could have sex with once or twice a week, including overnight visits. I would like him to stay with us for weekends with me having to sleep in the spare room. I would also like to drive her to his place for sex and pick her up after to take her home. Unfortunately, she says she isn’t interested. I think it would take a very handsome, patient guy to seduce her. She is a very pretty, size 8, older woman that attracts a lot of male attention. So am surprised it hasn’t already happened. Still, I live in hope.
My wife stopped having sex with me as she was turned off by my cross dressing. She hasn’t been with a guy since then. She seems to have lost interest in sex altogether, as she has got older. I’ve tried to persuade her to find a lover but she says she isn’t interested. I would love to find a guy who would invest the time in seducing her and re kindling her interest in sex. It would be a turn on for me for her to have a regular lover.