Yes, that's exactly it.
When, we've talked it out I'll let you know. The only related thing we have decided right now is that we'll be faithful to each other. No outside partners. We hadn't thought about inside. There's probably lots of things we haven't thought about.
GG
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Equality,
Ah, that's one of the things our hostess raised. One of the things we hadn't thought about. We think that the big issue is jealousy and equality (although we hadn't thought about it) might mean that we might not be a threesome all the time so, perhaps, how would the third feel if the other two were off together?
Is this the sort of thing you were thinking of? We don't know yet. We'll talk about it. There are a couple of other things we hadn't thought to talk about but we're all on a high right now and we think nothing is impossible.
GG
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Ah, that's one of the things our hostess raised. One of the things we hadn't thought about. We think that the big issue is jealousy and equality (although we hadn't thought about it) might mean that we might not be a threesome all the time so, perhaps, how would the third feel if the other two were off together?
Is this the sort of thing you were thinking of? We don't know yet. We'll talk about it. There are a couple of other things we hadn't thought to talk about but we're all on a high right now and we think nothing is impossible.
GG
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Sorry Midlandsman. I guess your two didn't know about each other? My two do.
My, how busy you have all been while I've been away. I find myself down on page three.
Anyway, it's now official - we are "coming out" - we are now a threesome and we truly think it can work. We have just had a weekend near Barcelona with friends but on the way we decided that we were not going all that way not to sleep together so when our hosts met us we explained that we were a threesome so we would just book into a hotel.
Our hosts, old friends, were adamant that we were still welcome and I have had a truly liberating weekend. We're not going to hide it any more from our friends but, equally, we're not going to flaunt it among acquaintances.
The boys think GG is me and, when they read this, I suppose they'll be sure but so far I've been wide-eyed innocent Bambi on the outside and Dennis the Menace on the inside and they haven't really been sure. Come clean time soon
I feel happy. Be happy for me please.
GG
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My, how busy you have all been while I've been away. I find myself down on page three.
Anyway, it's now official - we are "coming out" - we are now a threesome and we truly think it can work. We have just had a weekend near Barcelona with friends but on the way we decided that we were not going all that way not to sleep together so when our hosts met us we explained that we were a threesome so we would just book into a hotel.
Our hosts, old friends, were adamant that we were still welcome and I have had a truly liberating weekend. We're not going to hide it any more from our friends but, equally, we're not going to flaunt it among acquaintances.
The boys think GG is me and, when they read this, I suppose they'll be sure but so far I've been wide-eyed innocent Bambi on the outside and Dennis the Menace on the inside and they haven't really been sure. Come clean time soon
I feel happy. Be happy for me please.
GG
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Hi MQ
PL knows. I think he likes it. If we lose the BF then we still have each other and it is with each other that we see our future.
Right now, honeymoon maybe, we're delighted with what's going on. It's been so difficult for me to bottle it all up insde me.
I feel so liberated.
GG
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PL knows. I think he likes it. If we lose the BF then we still have each other and it is with each other that we see our future.
Right now, honeymoon maybe, we're delighted with what's going on. It's been so difficult for me to bottle it all up insde me.
I feel so liberated.
GG
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I hadn't thought that people might be worrying about who I am. Maybe I shouldn't have said that I'm already here as somebody else. Makes people uncomfortable maybe. I think I'll probably dismantle this identity soon. But all the people who have PMd me will know who I am because I'll tell lthem. Thanks for everything.
Most of the useful stuff I've been given has been by PM but it's been nice just being me and I think I will continue posting as an individual rather than as a couple.
And I'm still pleased with our threesome and I want it to carry on.
GG
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Most of the useful stuff I've been given has been by PM but it's been nice just being me and I think I will continue posting as an individual rather than as a couple.
And I'm still pleased with our threesome and I want it to carry on.
GG
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A new day.
I'd thought I would get responses from other threesomes but it seems we are not as normal as we thought we were. I thought there'd be lots of people saying things like "This is how it was for us ..." Are stable threesomes so uncommmon?
So, thanks to the guys who PMd with support and questions and I'll answer any questions anybody has - either here or by PM.
Briefly, Proper Lover and I have been together for more than eleven years and about three months ago we started a threesome with another man. There must have been some affection to start with or it wouldn't have started at all but over this short time it has grown into an emotional relationship as well as the obvious which I will keep to myself. We haven't had problems with, for example, jealousy but we are aware that we might have and we have prepared ourselves for it.
We havent't prepared ourselves for it ending but probably we must in the light of somebody who burst my bubble a little. . At least I will have somebody's arms to cry in this time - I didn't when my marriage broke up.
The reason I set up a separate identity so I could talk about this was not to hide anything from the boys but because I thought it would be a bit like gossipping over a coffee with my friends.
Oh, we've been on the site for a while and some of the people I expected to respond have not done so. Don't know what to make of that; expect that maybe I'm not a good judge of people when I'm not face to face with them.
GG
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I'd thought I would get responses from other threesomes but it seems we are not as normal as we thought we were. I thought there'd be lots of people saying things like "This is how it was for us ..." Are stable threesomes so uncommmon?
So, thanks to the guys who PMd with support and questions and I'll answer any questions anybody has - either here or by PM.
Briefly, Proper Lover and I have been together for more than eleven years and about three months ago we started a threesome with another man. There must have been some affection to start with or it wouldn't have started at all but over this short time it has grown into an emotional relationship as well as the obvious which I will keep to myself. We haven't had problems with, for example, jealousy but we are aware that we might have and we have prepared ourselves for it.
We havent't prepared ourselves for it ending but probably we must in the light of somebody who burst my bubble a little. . At least I will have somebody's arms to cry in this time - I didn't when my marriage broke up.
The reason I set up a separate identity so I could talk about this was not to hide anything from the boys but because I thought it would be a bit like gossipping over a coffee with my friends.
Oh, we've been on the site for a while and some of the people I expected to respond have not done so. Don't know what to make of that; expect that maybe I'm not a good judge of people when I'm not face to face with them.
GG
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Thanks Angel. Pretty well everybody has been supportive. I didn't think anyone wouldn't be.
This is a bloody awaful time to be out of bed but I realised ithat in my last post I had identified myself to the boys if to nobody else. Had to edit it.
But yes, you/ve put your finger on exactly how I feel. I want to tell people and I don't have the people to tell.
Now going back to bed - I'll offer myself for questions in thr emorning.
Now I've got to edit this one as well - no I/ve got to add to it.
There is nothing I want to keep from either of them. It's just that I want to be able to gossip about it.
This is a bloody awaful time to be out of bed but I realised ithat in my last post I had identified myself to the boys if to nobody else. Had to edit it.
But yes, you/ve put your finger on exactly how I feel. I want to tell people and I don't have the people to tell.
Now going back to bed - I'll offer myself for questions in thr emorning.
Now I've got to edit this one as well - no I/ve got to add to it.
There is nothing I want to keep from either of them. It's just that I want to be able to gossip about it.
Yeah, it's crossed my mind more than once that we will lose him eventually but we've got him now and we all seem very happy with it. As for truth, well, in all honesty I can't see my mother benefitting from the truth. She would probably be supportive if I was having an affair but I don't think she'd be very happy about me sharing a bed as we do.
And the truth for my daughter. Well, I think she would see it as being OK for her to be a bit promiscuous but she wouldn't benefit from the knowledge that I'm not being promiscuous but sleeping,at the same time, with two men. I'm sure she that in the past three months she has had more partners than I have - I've had just the two.
What I wanted to do - and I've put a lot of effort into it - was do what we all do at emotional times and share it. I don't feel able to share it with anyone at home and I hoped I could share it here. Some people are supportive and some aren't.
But, hey, critiicism I've had and support I've had.
Sorry, I see there's more than one post to answer. Luvtolick - up to now we have gone out for a few drinks on Friday evenings and come back here to stay the night. . No great hero but a very happy time for the three of us.
GG
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And the truth for my daughter. Well, I think she would see it as being OK for her to be a bit promiscuous but she wouldn't benefit from the knowledge that I'm not being promiscuous but sleeping,at the same time, with two men. I'm sure she that in the past three months she has had more partners than I have - I've had just the two.
What I wanted to do - and I've put a lot of effort into it - was do what we all do at emotional times and share it. I don't feel able to share it with anyone at home and I hoped I could share it here. Some people are supportive and some aren't.
But, hey, critiicism I've had and support I've had.
Sorry, I see there's more than one post to answer. Luvtolick - up to now we have gone out for a few drinks on Friday evenings and come back here to stay the night. . No great hero but a very happy time for the three of us.
GG
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Hi,
Should have thought there would be a bit of mickey taking. It's just that things are going so well and I have nobody to talk it all over with. I think all three of us are happy with it but there's nobody to be pleased with me. There's nobody I can have a coffee and gossip with.
When I met the PL a few years ago I could talk about it and get a great deal of pleasure from just talking. With this relationship, nearly three months old, I've got to keep it to myself and I'm bursting with it.
Be pleased for me = please
GG
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Should have thought there would be a bit of mickey taking. It's just that things are going so well and I have nobody to talk it all over with. I think all three of us are happy with it but there's nobody to be pleased with me. There's nobody I can have a coffee and gossip with.
When I met the PL a few years ago I could talk about it and get a great deal of pleasure from just talking. With this relationship, nearly three months old, I've got to keep it to myself and I'm bursting with it.
Be pleased for me = please
GG
x x x
Hi,
I'm not quite as new as you might think but this is my second attempt to get started. We have been posting as a couple but my proper lover (PL) has been doing most of the posting - quite a lot joint but very few from just me.
Well, I thought that there is stuff I'd like to post without PL knowing about it especially as we have had a threesome (an extra man) for nearly three months now and it's driving me mad. I'm in love with two men and there's nobody I can tell about it. I want to hold on to boy friend (BF) and I don't want to upset PL. It's driving me crazy keeping all this just to myself.
It's driving me mad. I can't talk to my mother - she'd freak. My daughter, who seems fairly promiscous to me, is a great pal in other ways but I can't see her accepting her mother sharing a bed with two men - and it always is a threesome, never one on one. My friends wouldn't accept what I'm doing but, worse, one or two might think PL is now on the market. He isn't.
So, not the most computer literate person in the world, I worked for days setting up a secret identity so that I could get all these things off my chest. Flushed with excitement, I made my first post - and got deleted!!! Blown out of the water. I wa suspected of being a banned person trying to get back onto the site.
So any mod reading this and thinking maybe I shouldn't be here - please talk amongst yourselves first because one of you knows who I am.
For the rest of the site I want to stay anonymous for a while.
Life is so exciting.
GG
xxx
I'm not quite as new as you might think but this is my second attempt to get started. We have been posting as a couple but my proper lover (PL) has been doing most of the posting - quite a lot joint but very few from just me.
Well, I thought that there is stuff I'd like to post without PL knowing about it especially as we have had a threesome (an extra man) for nearly three months now and it's driving me mad. I'm in love with two men and there's nobody I can tell about it. I want to hold on to boy friend (BF) and I don't want to upset PL. It's driving me crazy keeping all this just to myself.
It's driving me mad. I can't talk to my mother - she'd freak. My daughter, who seems fairly promiscous to me, is a great pal in other ways but I can't see her accepting her mother sharing a bed with two men - and it always is a threesome, never one on one. My friends wouldn't accept what I'm doing but, worse, one or two might think PL is now on the market. He isn't.
So, not the most computer literate person in the world, I worked for days setting up a secret identity so that I could get all these things off my chest. Flushed with excitement, I made my first post - and got deleted!!! Blown out of the water. I wa suspected of being a banned person trying to get back onto the site.
So any mod reading this and thinking maybe I shouldn't be here - please talk amongst yourselves first because one of you knows who I am.
For the rest of the site I want to stay anonymous for a while.
Life is so exciting.
GG
xxx
