i work in a stress job looking for an outlet ,looking for a mistress for occasional daytime fun who can push my limits and be in control whom I can learn to trust and to whom I can serve and respect and would expect some respect in return ,not really done anything like this before but have thought about it a lot and would like to try, I'm very discreet and would expect the same and willing to try anything with the rite person .

 I'm not a paid up member but will see how it goes first hopefully looking for someone fairly local to durham area even if they are part of a couple thx