cheers buddy!!! thanks.
leaving this thread alone now.
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hornyman69
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
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I have already disscused this with my wife. She is not happy for me to have sex with other people, and is terrified that I will leave her. Pleasuring myself does not fill the gap. I have considered taking drugs to control my natural urges. I don't intend posting any more responses, didn't realise so many in this community would pre judge and jump to conclusions maybe sh is not as wonderful as I thought it was. Good bye folks....
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Ok, Easyease
put your self in my shoes for one minute. I'm in a relationship, (married 14 years, 2 kids) wife devolops medical condition that reduces libedo to zero, then has operation now finds sex painful and has zero urge to have sex. so if it's so easy, black and white what do I do? bearing in mind I am still emotionaly involved with my wife? a little light relief on this web site or break up the family? or give up sex? I have never cheated yet but I may be tempted in the future and many in my position would be tempted to. Ask yourself what would you do? not an easy one, no matter what you do someone gets hurt hardly suprising people arn't allways honest, although I would not play with anyone else without telling them my situation first. At the end of the day there's always a but, if,or a maybe. Personaly for me I'd rather be in the same group as others in a similar situation and not have to explain myself to people who just want to drag you through the mud because you are not as fortunate as they are. Their been honest, now tear me to shreds.
put your self in my shoes for one minute. I'm in a relationship, (married 14 years, 2 kids) wife devolops medical condition that reduces libedo to zero, then has operation now finds sex painful and has zero urge to have sex. so if it's so easy, black and white what do I do? bearing in mind I am still emotionaly involved with my wife? a little light relief on this web site or break up the family? or give up sex? I have never cheated yet but I may be tempted in the future and many in my position would be tempted to. Ask yourself what would you do? not an easy one, no matter what you do someone gets hurt hardly suprising people arn't allways honest, although I would not play with anyone else without telling them my situation first. At the end of the day there's always a but, if,or a maybe. Personaly for me I'd rather be in the same group as others in a similar situation and not have to explain myself to people who just want to drag you through the mud because you are not as fortunate as they are. Their been honest, now tear me to shreds.
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I think it's a good idea, I'm in a similar situation to cherrytree. I would like to be in a seperate group and then if I offend you, you can just leave me alone!! being seperate from people who just judge you without knowing you sounds good to me, or should I break up a successful relasionship and leave my wife and children just so it makes others feel better? At the end of the day anyone can take the moral high ground but then many would argue that this site should not exist. Live and let live, if you don't agree be tollerant, if you can't be tollerant go and shag someones partner with thier consent.
