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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
Bi-curious Female, 44
UK

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howabout (from as a child), "I'll give you something to cry about!" -usually said when you were in floods of tears!
I'd clearly got sometthing to cry about already!
that, and "You'll feel the back of my hand!", -tecnically correct, but a tad misleading as a description of the full force slap that accompanied it! smackbottom :fuckinghell: :cry:
Hi and :welcome: we've only just joined and folks here are cool. hope you find what you want... :cheers:
when our conversation got round to swinging, I guess I initiated that, but before we do (did) anything we both talked (and talked and talked...!) about what we were prepared to do and what we wanted. Once WE had decided OUR limits, we joined as a couple, to please ourselves,so neither is more dominant in that sense as we both started swinging and cams together.
As far as anything else goes, we can both be dominant as in asking the other to try new things, but it's only pushing if you're going against someone's will.
As a poll answer I put both, cos it should be equal! (obviously not counting sub/dom!) smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Quote by michal_and_dee
OK can anyone help me out here. How do I get my wife to take it in the ass. She's not averse to having a finger poked in there when I'm doing her doggy style, but always refuses when I suggest cock.
Any experienced takers offering help might be appreciated

As an experienced taker (?), it would seem that your wifehas enough of an "ass" problem without you "getting her" to take it anally. :doh:
Did you ever ask her if she actually wanted anal sex, or did you just assume that because you wanted it, she must?
Ask your wife to get you to take strap-on up your own ass first, then see if you're as keen to inflict yourself on your wife.
But talk to her, not us!
banghead
Thank god I read this in time... I was just about to start a new thread asking when is it appropriate to start a new thread... !
...I'll get me coat... bolt
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hey cplbbw kiss , just a bloody mary for me thanks...
that's one on my way to 5 a day... :silly:
bread roll= cob in nottingham, but my mate from wakefield calls 'em bread cakes??!! mad as a box of frogs.
And if you get on the A1 in Stevenage, you can go past signs that say The North, Bedford!
morning... :doh: afternoon rather... is it booze o'clock yet? smile
if you go to you can make your own google logo with your name as the logo. set it to your homepage and it operates through google.
taverymuchlike for t'booze :cheers:
yeah, we can play pool, though mrs hugs tends to kick my ass after a coupla bevvies...
off to get some solid nutrition now, but we'll back later lol
cheers now
P & L
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Hi all,
just popping in on cplbbw's recommendation for a jim beam n' coke and a vodka redbull before dinner s'il vous plait...
just a swift one for now but we'll be back later :cheers:
P & L
xxxxx
Thanks for the welcome(s) peeps, I think we'll enjoy it here :thumbup:
just gonne go over to the bar and grab a swift half before dinner...
See ya later :cheers:
Hi all,
myself and my lovely wife have been thinking about and having long discussions about getting into swinging and what we'd like to do (limits etc), having trawled the interweb and discarded a lot of swinging sites that just seem to be contact sites we came across (!) SH and have been watching the forums with interest for a couple of weeks. We've found some interesting and useful advice, which in turn led to us having quite in depth and honest conversations about what we want from swinging.
we're planning our first visit to a club in the near future, with a clearer idea of what to expect.
So, by way of a long introduction, we've now paid the Christmas credit card bill and upgraded so we can post, so this is it!
Hi wave
we look forward to joining in where we can and listening (reading) where we can't...
Anyhoo, enough of us waffling...
P & L
xxxxx