Hi
I really didn't mean to cause offence. As I said, I am new to all this and probably don't understand swingers - I appreciate you putting me right on a few things.
I only meant that there appears to be an inherent risk in meeting strangers for sex. I just wondered whether there are any precautions people should take if they are just starting out. I am aware that there are such things as condoms!
Quite a few of the personal adds were asking for well-endowed men (sometimes even specifying size and colour). That is the only reason I mentioned that it appeared some of the women wanted bigger than average penises. Again, I didn't mean to cause offence.
Idoru
Hi all,
Just thought I'd introduce myself.
I'm a 23 year old man who is brand new to the whole swinging thing. At first glances it seems to be more orientated to older married couples who are looking to perk up their sex life, but I know people come here for all sorts of reasons.
I responded to a couple of women-seeking-men ads yesterday, but haven't had a resonse. I'm a bit skeptical that there are actually women out there who just want NSA sex. What about Aids? Surely it's not safe to have unprotected sex with someone you don't know? Also, what about the danger of or assault? What's the best way to avoid this?
I think men are generally far more horny than women and are more likely to want to use a service like this... Maybe there are some women out there who can prove me wrong. Also, I'm a bit worried about the fact that a lot of the women are looking for super-huge penises. I'm afraid I'm only average.
Idoru.
