sup dude. I'm down for this. Sending PM now.
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jevad
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by jaymar
so where is hannahrose? i would like to hear from her again, and get to the bottom of her angst!
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?
I ain't popular, I'm possess common sense and honesty and me heeeed isn't stuck up my pretentious assse!
That's what it takes
I was being sarcastic.
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so where is hannahrose? i would like to hear from her again, and get to the bottom of her angst!
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?
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Quote by Mistress_39
Ah i see, he is trying to show us silly girls what to look out for. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Cos of course, none of us can think for ourselves can we tut tut..........and only 26 too bless.........perhaps you would like another stab at what you were trying to say............but nicely please.................
umm, no i was talking to hannah as she had the problem and needed advice so i gave mine... xOh my apologies I thought this was the Forum..........
.. I mean i wasn't trying to "show us silly girlies" anything. I was addressing Hannah's specific problems from my own personal experience. Which she can take or leave how she wants.
There, glad we got that cleared up. Now where's that smile?
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Quote by Mistress_39
Ah i see, he is trying to show us silly girls what to look out for. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Cos of course, none of us can think for ourselves can we tut tut..........and only 26 too bless.........perhaps you would like another stab at what you were trying to say............but nicely please.................
umm, no i was talking to hannah as she had the problem and needed advice so i gave mine... x Warming the Bed
Quote by noladreams30
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Hmmmmm.... am sure Hannahrose did not need telling that her feelings (or any woman's for that matter!) are legotimate... how flippin' patronising is that?!?!?!
Oh and am sure I am not the only one who could think of nothing worse than having sex with such an arrogant, self-obsessed guy as the one you described. Alpha Males? No ta.... It's not all about masculine strength or guys who have women flocking around them. In fact, for me, some of the sexiest guys are the ones who don't flaunt it and the one's who aren't 'obviously' sexy....
a) Thought it was better to say its totally cool she has these feelings before people start psychonalysing her (i.e as they have done by saying her problems are "within rather than without"), or making issues out of the fact she's already married (as they have done as well).
b) Nah, you misunderstood, it's not about FLAUNTING it. It's about having guys who aren't "needy". It;s about guys, as i said about, for whom sex is just a fun addition to their already awesome life. And any given time, they can take it or leave it if its offered. Not about arrogance - about self-esteem. Considering the number of people on here who are CONSTANTLY complaining about single guys... i think i'm on the money with the less than satisfying enounters ;)
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Quote by H-x
not if you're the one doing the interviewing baby
You can only hold an interview if people apply.
Baby.
H.x
Your mom!
Chillaxe guys. Just an opinion on male female relations in the 21st century. I love chicks, and dicks, and chicks with dicks. :D
I wasn't talking about ALL of you... all the people who've responded and will ever respond in this thread are totally cool ;)
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Quote by H-x
Yes indeed the hallowed profile. I wouldn't even consider someone who hadn't taken the time to put at least the minumum inforation in it. It's like going to an interview in shorts and flipflops.
I'll come back to this.......
H.x
not if you're the one doing the interviewing baby
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hey hannahrose (cute name btw),
I totally appreciate where you're coming from.
The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).
Don't get me wrong, i've met some great chilled out people in this community. But i've also met people with real issues.
Loner guys who are DESPERATE for a lay, who have no clue as to how to talk to or seduce a woman. Guys who were dumped by their wives/girlfriends and are completely lost as to how to attract another girl. Therefore they come to these places looking for "free sex". Guys who only see women as a piece of meet - you can virtually smell their desperation (just read half the posts of single guys on here).
Then you also get the dysfunctional couple. Guys pressuring their girlfriends/wives into swinging - basically using them as levereage so they can fuck other girls and satisfy their own needs. Or women doing the same. If you ever meet a couple like this, you can pretty much feel the extremely negative vibe.
As a woman, your feelings and sexual desires are as legitimiate as any guys out there. Women are hornier and dirtier than men, and fantasise as much as anybody. That's all fine and good, and you've obviously been looking for a way to exercise your desires (well done to you!)
But you come to places like this, you find a lot of leaches.
See, things are different for girls, its pointless denying it. A girl wants to be fucked by a guy of VALUE. A guy with self-worth, confidence, inner strength, and someone with a lot going on in his life. In other words, a "fuck worthy man". But the VAST MAJORITY of guys you find on here are faaar from it. They are needy, enfeebled, and have no capability of living up to a woman's emotional expectations.
A chick wants to be rammed and have multi-orgasms, no strings sex etc. etc. But she wants the "no-strings" fun to be with a strong confident man, with a deep sense of him self. That's deeply erotic on an emotional level. She does not want to be pounded by a loser, who most women in the real world would not look twice at. A guy who can't even speak up for himself and has ZERO social value. Unfortunately you find a lot of beta guys hoping to get a piece of the action in this community.
If you've been in this community for a little while, you've probably fucked your fair share of these guys. You know, guys who post messages on these forums "why do people not reply to PM's???" etc. etc. When you get taken by this needy guy, of course you're gonna feel empty. You feel like you've been penetrated by a sweaty geek. A guy who feels lucky to have you, and you sense how much validation he gets from you. Thats an emotional drain for any women. Guys who TAKE VALUE, like bums asking for spare change - "please will you fuck me? please? i'm really horny.. oh come on!"
What you need to find is that RARE guy - the fuck worthy man. The guy who GIVES VALUE. A guy who doesn't need ANYTHIGN from anyone. A guy who doesn't give a shit about sex, but only enjoys it as an extension to his already awesome life. A guy who doesn't crave your acceptance because it will make him feel more like a man - but a guy who ALREADY feels like a man. A guy who other women find attractive automatically just by being in his presence - due to his masculine strength, his inner self assuredness.
You wont mind no-strings sex with this guy, cos a) you know he has no shortage of female attention and b) because he arouses you on an emotional level because he's an alpha male.
When a woman submits to a guy sexually, when she gets horney and starts screaming her head off having multiple-orgasms - half that is because the guy doing it has given her that emotional kick she needs, to feel like a woman. Not some desperate wimp who has no clue as to who he is.
So to conclude - you as a woman will get offers of sex 24/7 no matter what (unlike even the most attractive guy). It is the WOMAN who choses. So don't be afraid to exercise that choice by only fucking/meeting guys who meet your standards of what a man should be.
I totally appreciate where you're coming from.
The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).
Don't get me wrong, i've met some great chilled out people in this community. But i've also met people with real issues.
Loner guys who are DESPERATE for a lay, who have no clue as to how to talk to or seduce a woman. Guys who were dumped by their wives/girlfriends and are completely lost as to how to attract another girl. Therefore they come to these places looking for "free sex". Guys who only see women as a piece of meet - you can virtually smell their desperation (just read half the posts of single guys on here).
Then you also get the dysfunctional couple. Guys pressuring their girlfriends/wives into swinging - basically using them as levereage so they can fuck other girls and satisfy their own needs. Or women doing the same. If you ever meet a couple like this, you can pretty much feel the extremely negative vibe.
As a woman, your feelings and sexual desires are as legitimiate as any guys out there. Women are hornier and dirtier than men, and fantasise as much as anybody. That's all fine and good, and you've obviously been looking for a way to exercise your desires (well done to you!)
But you come to places like this, you find a lot of leaches.
See, things are different for girls, its pointless denying it. A girl wants to be fucked by a guy of VALUE. A guy with self-worth, confidence, inner strength, and someone with a lot going on in his life. In other words, a "fuck worthy man". But the VAST MAJORITY of guys you find on here are faaar from it. They are needy, enfeebled, and have no capability of living up to a woman's emotional expectations.
A chick wants to be rammed and have multi-orgasms, no strings sex etc. etc. But she wants the "no-strings" fun to be with a strong confident man, with a deep sense of him self. That's deeply erotic on an emotional level. She does not want to be pounded by a loser, who most women in the real world would not look twice at. A guy who can't even speak up for himself and has ZERO social value. Unfortunately you find a lot of beta guys hoping to get a piece of the action in this community.
If you've been in this community for a little while, you've probably fucked your fair share of these guys. You know, guys who post messages on these forums "why do people not reply to PM's???" etc. etc. When you get taken by this needy guy, of course you're gonna feel empty. You feel like you've been penetrated by a sweaty geek. A guy who feels lucky to have you, and you sense how much validation he gets from you. Thats an emotional drain for any women. Guys who TAKE VALUE, like bums asking for spare change - "please will you fuck me? please? i'm really horny.. oh come on!"
What you need to find is that RARE guy - the fuck worthy man. The guy who GIVES VALUE. A guy who doesn't need ANYTHIGN from anyone. A guy who doesn't give a shit about sex, but only enjoys it as an extension to his already awesome life. A guy who doesn't crave your acceptance because it will make him feel more like a man - but a guy who ALREADY feels like a man. A guy who other women find attractive automatically just by being in his presence - due to his masculine strength, his inner self assuredness.
You wont mind no-strings sex with this guy, cos a) you know he has no shortage of female attention and b) because he arouses you on an emotional level because he's an alpha male.
When a woman submits to a guy sexually, when she gets horney and starts screaming her head off having multiple-orgasms - half that is because the guy doing it has given her that emotional kick she needs, to feel like a woman. Not some desperate wimp who has no clue as to who he is.
So to conclude - you as a woman will get offers of sex 24/7 no matter what (unlike even the most attractive guy). It is the WOMAN who choses. So don't be afraid to exercise that choice by only fucking/meeting guys who meet your standards of what a man should be.
