I can't believe I've been a member here for 13 years and forgot! Dipping toe in as new to this. 
I'm late 30's 6'3 into rugby and interested in sub females. I love a chat, banter and a laugh, I don't take myself too seriously and have a healthy sexual appetite (don't we all!) Not into anything extreme, but like good company, someone who's relaxed and chatty and that I can have a laugh with and maybe more. I've ticked the 'B&D' box below, but call it a...small tick! I'm not into beating the shit out of people or wearing lycra catsuits and gas masks - bit of slap and tickle, spanking and a medium/rare cat o'nine tails, maybe!