just thought i would add my bit to this post....
I have been one of the lucky men to meet a wonderfull cpl from here to go dogging. i have met them twice (and will meet again when the time permits) I have also met two separate ladies from other sites in the last 5 years.
So three meets in 5 years! :D :D :D :D
I have wrote to people after seeing there adds and most of the time i dont even get a no thanks.
What is the point in sending a reply with abuse, do they think that you are going to say (oh ok you can come and shag me now if i have upset you)
Like many before me have said,i think most of these men think that all you ladies are out there laying on a bed waiting to get shagged. :x Not that you are someones wife/girlfriend etc
I also have an add on here and sometimes get people sending me a reply. :D :D I always answer (albeit, i have never said no...as they have all sounded so nice!!) sometimes i have sent 5 or 6 mails back and forth, where to meet etc and then it all goes quiet.
first time this happened i sent a mail asking if everything was ok...no reply
Now i just take it that they have had a change of heart or they were also timewasters.
But i would never dream of sending any abuse or virus to them just for waisting my time.
I think that all we can do is be ourselves...be polite and treat people as we would like to be treated. that way we all know we are in the right.
These people will get what they deserve in the end.
They sure as hell dont get the shag they thought they would get!!
sorry if this lost the plot a bit
keep safe and looking forward to meeting more of you lovely people.
cheers
James
all pm accepted...i'm from the new forest area(bournemouth)
