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jmk
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 63
Bisexual Female, 62
0 miles · Nottinghamshire

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Quote by dishy_debs_swales
rights not to be booted off without an explanation maybe.
freedom of speech etc
its bad enough blair giving crap but sont need it on ere too

every society needs rules of some form or other , im sure the mods on here go to great length to get members who infinge these rules to comply
Is insomnia catching? good question , i spent all last nite awake thinking of an answer ,but couldnt reach a conclusion :P
Quote by KitKat
If the roles were reversed, and you were the female half of the couple, the advice would be not to get pushed into anything you were not absolutely sure about - just because you are a bloke, does not make the advice any less appropriate.

good point KAT , altho i guess if swinging is important to her then mayb im not the right bloke for her afterall , i would never want to hold someone back from doing something they enjoy , i have found from past experiences of relationships it will only become an issue later on and cause problems
i think i will take the advice given above and look at maybe a going to a munch with her , maybe this will dispell some of the concerns i have
thanks all for the replies
sorry 4 the txt spk :P force of habit , and no im not a teenager who txt's on there mobile all the time , its from chatting on irc for many years . takes me ages to text anything on my mobile even with predictive text
the meets do sound a good idea . i'll have to sugest it to the better half , and mayb ask her to join the forum as im a shy type and dont really know to best go about starting to chat to people , which is strange really as i run an internet based car owners club with nearly 4000 members
i must admit i do feel some what a virgin again , ive always equated sex and love go hand in hand , then i meet someone that tells me theve visited a club at sheffield numerous times and had group sex . i guess im the typical person that thinks that love and sex go hand in hand .
im rambling now , anyways if you see my sitting in the corner in the chat room or at a meet say hi smile
j
hi all , 1st post smile be gentle with me
brief bio
41 yr old male straight
recently met a female and we started dating , i knew prior to starting a relationship with her that she had swung b4 , both ways so to spk
she has broached the subject a few times and i thought id better join the site and find out what i should expect and the why and wherefores of the scene as ive never had sex with more than i personat a time b4 and as u can expect am a little aprehensive
she did sugest we start with a 3 some involving another female to easy me in :) or mayb goto a club and just get thrown in at the deep end
your sugestions / comments gratefully recieved