Thanks - yea I'd like to pretend I'm brad pitt - but I'm not - I keep telling my daughter to be aware that her new friend she's chatting to on MSM might not be who she thinks they are. I'ts just sad that when you spend all day looking forward to meeting some people and then get ready - that they turn out to be nothing like what they said they were like. It's just a waste of everyones time
Sorry have finished ranting now
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Hi - I'm new to this site and am finding my way around gradually – it’s great to find somewhere that people can be themselves without hiding things from people. However I am struck by one strange fact – that all contacts I have made with people are disappointing in that they just don’t seem to understand that being dishonest Is just not going to get them anywhere - or is it? If I say I am looking for a slim woman 30’s then sending me a picture they found on the internet and arranging to meet me just doesn’t work when I find out they are 45 and 25 stone – do they think I will say well I am here anyway so we might as well do something. I don’t understand this as there seems to be someone here to match virtually any preferences if you look and wait a while.
Does anyone have any advice for how I sort out real replies to an ad from people who seem to just respond to any offer of sex in the hope that when they turn up the other person/people will suddenly change their minds about what they are looking for? Or do I have to accept that 95% of people replying to an ad will not have read it or will be hoping I really meant to say man when I said woman or that mid 30’s includes anyone up to 50. Sorry to sound negative and perhaps I have had a bad start to this am going to stick with it in the hope that I meet some real people with a healthy grip on reality.
Does anyone have any advice for how I sort out real replies to an ad from people who seem to just respond to any offer of sex in the hope that when they turn up the other person/people will suddenly change their minds about what they are looking for? Or do I have to accept that 95% of people replying to an ad will not have read it or will be hoping I really meant to say man when I said woman or that mid 30’s includes anyone up to 50. Sorry to sound negative and perhaps I have had a bad start to this am going to stick with it in the hope that I meet some real people with a healthy grip on reality.
