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kittysin
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
Straight Male, 66
UK

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At the end of the day, its maths. Calories in and calories out. If you take in more than your expending, you're gonna take on weight.
I've no idea why I decided to lose weight after several crappy years of piling it on ( I'm a yo-yoer too! ) but it just felt right.
You need to decide to lose weight because you want to change and for no other reason.
I used to say...well, my family have always been big boned. BOLLOCKS! THey may have been, but my tiny wrists and ankles kind of dispute that.
In answer to your original question, its both. Some just aren't bothered. Some are overweight because of circumstances and things they couldn't control.
I wasn't happy, felt old and wanted to feel like the teenager I knew was hiding inside. Not there yet, but bloody trying! :twisted: wink
I've always been a bit paranoid about my long hair as I've got older. So much so that in the last few years I've gone shorter and shorter.
I've never been anything other than fake blonde ( mouse is the true collar and cuffs colour ) so can't advise on the dyeing - but I do think that slightly shorter should start in your late 30's early 40's.
Having said that, I've no idea of your age (as yet) so you might look absolutely stunning with long locks for a long long time ( Bitch!!! wink )
Harry says either Take that or Pink Floyd, Dark Side of the Moon....
I think he's having me on! cool
with Band on the Run a close runner up....oh and Thriller. ( OK, stop now Harry! )
For me....I'll never forget Rio, or Bat out of Hell for particular points in my yoof.
But all time favourite is Paul Simon, Graceland, thats been on every MP3, ipod or compilation I've ever had.
Quote by Whipsnspurs
i just dson't get why people want to spend a small fortune to get drunk every night and then spend all day in bed!

A holiday is a rare commodity and if you're going to be put in the position of wasting time on stuff that either doesn't interest you or makes you feel unhappy, then don't go.
If you feel obliged to go, them make sure you plan to do something you like, instead of just going with the crowd all the time.
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why do you go abroad and what do you get out of it?
whips

We don't do packages and because we like to get away several times a year we go very budget on our main holiday, which is a caravan hol in Spain. We drive there and don't see a bar or cafe from one end of the holiday to the next. If we could avoid all human contact we would.
We spend our time walking or just lazing around, chilling but never, ever just wasting time getting over a hangover.
Other breaks are for seeing places we've always wanted to, city breaks and more recently holidays getting to know my mother land a bit better ( Scotlandshire - according to Harry! )
What made me smile?
Likkle Scott Redding, all 15 yrs and 170 days of age, winning the 125 at the British Motogp at Donington...making him the first Brit to win in the top class on home soil in something nuts like 35 years!
Go Scotty!
Congratulations, goose, way to go!
All the best fail first time around, I failed car and bike test first time.
Have you gone direct access so you can get on the big stuff straight away?
Quote by essex34m
Wondering if my x*** bonus might stretch to this

Mmmmmmmm......donuts........
Yep, another 42 incher here....with Sky Plus, blah de blah....even though we mostly only watch the Beeb...only other use is for the bike racing on Eurosport.
When we first got it we re-watched all our fave movies, like being at the flicks.
This deserves topping....have a fabuloso time!
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Very excited for you.
Usually get some really cheesy puns on my name.....oi kitty, do you sin.....oi kitty, do you wanna sin with me....oi kitty, how sinful are you...
Blah, blah......
I love chat, adore it, its what I do best, in fact, so my best tip to anyone wanting to get on......learn to have a nice chat!
I'm a self confessed yo-yo dieter. But I have to admit I've done best when going to a class. I go to Slimming World and have lost 2 stone since Jan.
I'll be honest though, the actual mechanics of the particular diet is the least of my concerns. I go for the support, encouragement and ideas....and the big pat on the head when I've done well.
Principally, though, any diet is about calories in balanced against calories burnt off. Cut out fat wherever possible, eat smaller portions, drink less alcohol ( boo hoo!!!! ) and get more exercise.
I walk 3-4 lunchtimes per week, fast, for about half an hour.
We also geocache, which means usually every other weekend a walk of anywhere between 4 and 8 miles.
I'm not obsessive, I love my food and more important, my bevvy too much, but at the end of the day you have to accept that if you want to lose weight, its a balancing act and something has to give.
Go to a class if it suits your personality and you think it will help you but you have to get it sorted in your noddle first, otherwise it won't work.
Good luck. You can do it.
Oi, fabster, you gonna do this again, or wot......potential champion in the making champing at the bit here!!!
Another nice 5-6 miler today, picking up two caches and another 3 TB's.
Anyone reading the official website forum will have seen ads for the mega event......what a scream to have a mini social-ette fitting in with it!
Quote by Whipsnspurs
hard and deep or
soft and sensual
whips n spurs

Oh god, do I have to choose?
Oh, ok then.....hard and deep.
Ok, seeing as the sun's gone again....
Tanning....
Pale and interesting
or
Sunkissed
These all singing all dancing, tickling every orifice jobbies scare the life out of me....ala the Rabbit etc.
They are just too scary for words.
Don't mind a plain old fashioned jelly dildo, but anything that has too much of a life of its own, I'm afraid, is wasted on me.
Much rather the real thing.... :twisted:
Quote by fabio
people seeking "professional" people....
what they going to make you do, bring along all your certificates as proof???? lol :lol: :lol:

If you want to get picky, professional only means that you are engaged in an activity as a means of livelihood or payment.....so basically you are being paid for what you do!! :shock:
We're always getting told off at work for using this in presentations as it doesn't really mean what people expect.
Isn't that a song?
Oh no, its Tune in, Turn On, Drop Out......
I'll get me coat.....
Quote by Sgt Bilko

I don't nag...do I? Do I nag?

You do! confused :? :? wink
You'd know if I nagged you :wink:
Can't believe I've missed this....please please have another one tomorrow!
Pretty please...
Please..
I'm not nagging now am I ...I don't nag...do I? Do I nag? I don't do I?
Ooh....we'll be looking out for this in future.
Cheers.
Kitty & Harry
x
Finally got back in the forums for yonks.....thats enough to make me a shiny happy people....person...pppp....something!
I don't have a pic and I can't remember the singers....it was a scottish family...I have the album in the loft.....but anyone who wants to sing along....please feel free. rolleyes wink
A Windmill In Old Amsterdam
A mouse lived in a windmill in old Amsterdam
A windmill with a mouse in and he wasn't grousin'
He sang every morning, "How lucky I am,
Living in a windmill in old Amsterdam!"
Chorus:
I saw a mouse!
Where?
There on the stair!
Where on the stair?
Right there!
A little mouse with clogs on
Well I declare!
Going clip-clippety-clop on the stair
Oh yeah
This mouse he got lonesome, he took him a wife
A windmill with mice in, it's hardly surprisin'
She sang every morning, "How lucky I am,
Living in a windmill in old Amsterdam!"
Chorus
First they had triplets and then they had quins
A windmill with quins in, and triplets and twins in
They sang every morning, "How lucky we are
Living in a windmill in Amsterdam, ya!"
Chorus
The daughters got married and so did the sons
The windmill had christ'nin's when no one was list'nin'
They all sang in chorus, "How lucky we am
Living in a windmill in old Amsterdam!"
Chorus
A mouse lived in a windmill, so snug and so nice
There's nobody there now but a whole lot of mice.
Edited to add....embarrasing it may be....but its a great song!!!! redface surprisedops: :oops:
Agh...can't get it out of my head... :shock: mad evil
Can we each have a vote? :twisted:
Harry votes for big, a great big slack handful ( what a gent, eh! )
Me........small and perky, please...... :twisted:
A great walk and 7 caches in the bag today as well as picking up 3 travel bugs.
And to cap it all the weather behaved perfectly.....so if anyone takes the p*** out of my red nose in chat later there will be trouble.
Aaaaagggghhhhh....can't believe I haven't been here for ages and there's a 2-page thread on geocaching in my absence.
I'm not addicted...honest..and neither is Harry...but we do tend to find ourselves most weekends up some glen, or dale, or valley or somefink, searching for tupperware!
We're into quality ( walks, darling ) over quantity, so haven't found huge numbers like the real pro's. But we've done quite a few all the same over the last few years.
Harry has already suggested some 'adult' themed caches, but don't think we'd get them past the reviewers.
Can't believe my fave site and my other fave site have crossed paths.
If you are in danger of becoming addicted, just wait til you set loose a Travel Bug....that's it.....!!!!
Congratulations on the arrival of your new likkle rug rat.
To foxy, congratulations on making this little miracle arrive - you are quite a magician. It always amazes me that a lady can produce such a beautiful being.
To beasty - you are feeling smug now.....but wait until you've held what you've created, then you'll feel like a magician too. I bet you cry!!!!!
The pair of you....good luck, god bless. 18 years in front of you. I wish you luck and love.