Steve,
Hi - not spoken to you for a while mate......
As you know i have the exact opposite to you in that although we live probably only a couple of miles away from each other - my wife refuses to even meet anyone form the same town, although we've had a couple of experiences now away from home - which have been enjoyable - but not fantastic. She has similar crisis about meeting up and something going wrong - and then meeting in Asda or something!!
It would be a shame for you both not to be able to enjoy the scene (but i guess that it's not for everyone) but stick with it a while - i wonder if you have too much pressure on your self?
Good Luck
nah.... keep it natural thats what i say!
well Claire N Steve - two things help me relax -
1 - Vodka and Coke with a couple of pro plus caffeine tablets. I'm not talking a bottle of vodka here - but two doubles nicely ralxes and chills you - the proplus then stops you being sleepy ralaxed - if you know what I mean!
2 - A nice warm Jacuzzi to seat 6 also helps (handily I have one!)
and finally something which does not help me relax is the thought that I'm in Grantham too - just like you guys! Now that is definitely stopping me from relaxing - and I love your avatar too- I love glasses!
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Hi Shelly and ya male buddy ............. we dogging soon? PM me? looking forward to meeting you BOTH!
Hi - Yeh Lincs FM in the evenings is only a little short of being in the garve!
Don't know if you've had any sucess - but hey - get in contact! Lets not be alone !HAHA
Hi - Yes like some other replies I guess the answer is to build up gradually and relax - relax relax! A good bottle of wine helps and plenty of lube - go real gentle and slow....... worked for me and my missus!
Hiya - whereabouts in Northants did you have in mind - by strange coincidence I'm in Corby this weekend - is that of any use?
Cya!
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