Quote by Libra-Love
After the goings on in here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/25116.html I'm compelled to voice my reasons clearly as to why I am on a swinging site.
Yes, sex brought me here. I won't deny that fact. To be more specific, it is sex with more than one partner which happens to be my curiosity. This girl happens to have a thing for bi men. There, it's out in the open, those I speak to already know. None of us on here are *straight laced missionary in the dark* kinda people. But I'm sure some of you will understand when I say, even though sex brought me here I'm not quite ready for the great big leap just yet. I don't want to swing on my own. I'd like to find a partner with whom I'm comfortable with first. In the mean time I enjoy the forum and the people I've bonded with on here. It's the people and the friendship I've found on SH which has me coming back for more. My journy of exploration has only just begun. How far will it take me and what are the limits? I don't know. It's slowly slowly for now.
If I had to put myself into a box or was asked to describe myself it would have to be....I'm a swinger who doesn't swing (yet)
There's a lot of people just like me.
Hi all, what a smashing and thought provoking thread. Some of the thoughts expressed by you really have made me think, although i'm told, i really shouldn't that. ! Anyway, i thought i would add some of my own views and express them without argument or critisism of anyone else.
I am who i am, and as such, the need to justify myself and my existence is totally irrelevant. I will discuss only because i want to. This is exactly the same for me when it comes to my sexuality. My sexual and physical desires although explored, have shown me that by exploring them, i have not explored everything. Until i have explored all avenues, then how can i see myself as a complete individual. At some point a boundary will be reached, where i believe, i will say, enough is enough. I only believe i will say this, as i haven't ever reached a boundary so far.
I want to experience as much as i can while i am alive and well, and fit enough to explore without too many problems. My list is huge, and from each ticked off entry, there is added different entries to try out.
Why all of the above within this thread, quite simply because i was not brought up to think along these lines. Sex was not something which was flirted, flaunted about. Indeed, a big query was always on, as to whether sex should be enjoyed let alone found to be fun, entertaining and a great laugh. Most of my life until very recently was caught up within this mindset, but i was naturally exploring other options, variations, opinions on the subject of sex. No one ever said that parents are always right.
Each new person who comes onto this site, has my utmost respect, since to get to it, there is a mindset to travel before finding the site. An openmindedness which is looking to be explored. Through this site, i have found a tool to expand my own mind, friendships which have given me courage to explore and overcome some very deep fears based around the brain washing of the society within in which we live. To then discover that these fears were untrue was quite a revelation !!! Compassion for another individual who was struggling with part of there lives, and in some sort of turmoil. To accept that my sexuaility is that, mine, has given me control of my sexuality, and the complete freedom to explore, not left there within a society which can't see past the very society which imposes it in the first place. (This effectively is reference also to wishmasters, slight off the subject)
I am in a box, its called the "i am me" box. I'm totally happy in it. The fact that i'm a single female is almost an afterthought. I'm a single female, only becuase i choose to be that.
In essence, if you are doing exactly what you want to do, then no one has the comprehension to say anything about it either negative or positive. The only person who knows what you want - is you.
This seems to be very long, so i'll be quiet now.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
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