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lyns
3 weeks ago
Bi-curious Female, 44
Bi-curious Male, 48
0 miles · Bristol

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Quote by rouse
Why don't you just arrange a night, with you as the main attraction. There is a quiet spot i know of. Or do you want a bigger crowd? All depends on what your looking for

In my op I wasn't asking to meet anyone, I was just asking if there are any new sites worth visiting as the ones we have frequented were crap.... I don't want an arranged dogging meet as I don't want to be held to a time and a place.
Hellloooo Mr Bone passionkiss, tell yer missus to get her ass back in here pronto :lol2:
Thanks guys but that isn't any help if there isn't any sites worth a visit... lol
Hi, we've not been out around Bristol for ages and were wondering, if there are any new sites that are worth a visit.
If so please send us a pm.
Many thanks
Lyns x
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Yep so bored i've done the mountain of ironing :shock:

I cant even do my ironing. Went to work on Friday, left iron turned on from 6am till 6pm when I got home, and it just died on me. Bought a new one on Saturday and that one wont work, so now on my way back to Tescos for my money back and a new iron rolleyes
Naughty naughty smackbottom Done it many a times myself confused not sure how my iron is still going strong lol
Quote by Misskitty_2008
My other half brought me some Jamaica Ginger cake for me today for my pudding.. he remembered it was my favorite! I feel all warm and fluffly inside now!

ooooo I love Jamacian Ginger cake :lickface: . Send a slice or two my way wink
Quote by sparky33
Yep so bored i've done the mountain of ironing :shock:

OOOHHH horny and domesticated lol
:giggle: sometimes domesticated but usually just more of the horny wink
Quote by tantricboy
I'm having to stay inside all day and wait for a delivery which will probably not even turn up - URGH.
Some suggestions to get rid of boredom today:
1. Go into the loft (or other) and go through all your old photos. There's always a magic photo (that's a photo no one remembers taking or seeing before - which has been put there by the photo goblins).
2. Ring up the free customer hotlines on the back of packets of food (cakes, biscuits etc) and ask them if you can read them a poem you’ve just written about how great the product is.
3. Play Big Brother I-spy. The points system is below:
Someone is called to diary room (1 Point)
Sounds of birds when there should be talking (1 Point)
Racism (2 Points)
Homophobia (2 Points)
Someone uses the expression “they’re just playing a game” (3 Points)
Something vaguely entertaining happens (3,852 Points)
The sexy one strips to a bikini (Call Me)
(Disclaimer: Remember your boredom levels may go up and well and down as a result of following this advice.)

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao made me chuckle anyway
1. My two beautiful children :inlove:.
2. My lovely husband :inlove:.
3. My health.
Quote by jaymar

I have a pic of mine (funny men get slagged for that (not another cock pic) but no complaints about women with pics of their bits...lol) so you cn decide where mine fits...haha.

:shock: now see - I had to go take a look didn't I? Oh my Sparky, you do have a nice member. Now the size is unimportant, but the tip all wet and open..oh dear redface
Bad Mar smackbottom you made me look to!! redface
Quote by Misskitty_2008
Ive made lunch for the next three days.. done a plle of ironing like Lyns, sent ten emails.. watched Murder She Wrote..
Me bored...???
Too right!!!!

Oooh miss K I love murder she wrote, but i'm watching In the night Garden instead, thats what having kids does for you lol
Yep so bored i've done the mountain of ironing :shock:
Right now i'd settle for,
1. Financial security for me and my family.
2. Great health for my family and friends
3. The school holidays to be over already :giggle:
I have no points (at least I don't think I have any points but I do find the scoreboard thingy a little confusing) redface
I love to snog passionkiss and I don't think I would meet anyone who didn't kiss. I find it a huge turn on and can't have sex with anyone without kissing them first!
Boney your hols sounds like something out of a carry on film :giggle:.
Nice to see you back passionkiss
Quote by Dawnie

1 ... i was in the staff canteen in a hospital (i worked in the hospital) and overheard a conversation between several people who work with the transplant team and things they said made me vow never to carry a card, basically they said/implied that staff dont try as hard to keep people alive if they know they carry a donor card ... this was many years ago and maybe i didnt hear right but what i did hear horrified me

That is one of my biggest fears but I do carry a donor card.
I don't want to die and waste what I have when I could help others in some way. I'm a Mum, I could help another Mum stay around for her kids. I might make a Dad be able see see his kids. I couldgive a person their life back away from dialysis. These type of thoughts are the reasons why I would donate my organs.
Dawnie, put that that you have made me well up!! feeling slightly emotional today
Quote by winchwench
Eldest dd getting a place at her first choice uni! biggrin
The flipside is, it's 250ish miles away, and I've spent the last half hour blubbering like a girl. :cry:

:bounce: go mini(ish)Wench!
Just think tho when she comes home you'll be able to spend quality time doing mother daughter stuff like her washing... :giggle:
Quote by fem_4_taboo
Ive been on the doner register for years , i think since i was about 11. Although back then it made me very angery that my mum said if anything ever happened she woud refuse the consent. mad ffs.
now im an adult all my family are aware of my wishes, ive spoken to them about this and they have discussed their wishes. My chldren decided they also wanted to.
we also discussed how we want to go, crem, grave etc.
im crem then the ashes burried.
xx fem xx

This is the sort of topic mr lyns hates talking about, I however have no problems in telling my family what I want in the event of death or in the event that i'm on a life support with no hope then switch me off!.
Quote by Misterwood
I told my mum I wanted to donate when I was about 12 (no idea what spurred me on). The first thing she said was "oh, dont let them take your eyes". She got quite upset about it sad I give blood regularly now and will donate, and my family are aware.
What does piss me off is all those who can't be arsed one way or the other.

Couldn't agree more!
My mum has said they can take anything they want, but she wants her eyes left, she wants to be able to see where shes going...
Quote by TanKinky
Jack
St trinians
Alvin & the chipmunks
Santa Clause the movie (yes i know its August)
The Snowman
Home alone 123&4

Watched it 3 times this week... Little one is now asking how mant sleeps till xmas!!!
133 redface
:thumbup: saves me counting :giggle:

bolt Have it saved in favourites
Thanks Tan, I had that last year and somehow deleted it, have re-saved it now kiss
Quote by TanKinky
Jack
St trinians
Alvin & the chipmunks
Santa Clause the movie (yes i know its August)
The Snowman
Home alone 123&4

Watched it 3 times this week... Little one is now asking how mant sleeps till xmas!!!
133 redface
:thumbup: saves me counting :giggle:
Quote by TanKinky
Jack
St trinians
Alvin & the chipmunks
Santa Clause the movie (yes i know its August)
The Snowman
Home alone 123&4

Watched it 3 times this week... Little one is now asking how mant sleeps till xmas!!!
No way would I even try, I would be mortified if they knocked me back.
Wheres tankinky when you need her :giggle: bolt
Quote by Flirty_bbw47
Glad to help!
I do go on a bit tho redface
It is something I am passionate about- its my job!!!!
flirty xxxxx

I'm also very passionate about it thats why we were having the conversation about it last night. Mr lyns doesn't entertain the idea of anything to do with dying so I really have to work hard to make my feelings known to him confused .
Thats why I have also told my pops so someone who listens to me about my views knows excatly what I want and what I don't want.
Its a difficult and emotive subject for most people. I would rather my family knew what I wanted so they didn't have to make the choice for me.
Quote by foxylady2209
I was always a tom-boy. At the time I believed it was a choice. I now realise it was imposed on me. My sis was always prettier, could do makeup chose and wore nice clothes. I was always bought blue, tough clothes cos I would always get dirty.
I have never found a dress that looks even vaguely good on me (long back, broad shoulders etc.) and make-up feels like face-pack and looks like Co-co the clown helped me out in the dark.
Basically I am wayyyy too old to be a tom-boy anymore but I have no skill or experience being a girly-girl. I simply don't know how to do it. So here I am in black trousers and shirt for work, jeans and t-shirt for home. At least it's simple I suppose.
Jeez, I'm depressed now.

Alot of makeup counters in boots etc do make up lessons, book yourself in and get some tips.
Quote by Flirty_bbw47
Ah something I actually know about!
As the law stands (Human Tissue act 2004 which became law Sept 2006), if you have registered on the NHS organ donor register, carry a donor card or even let your wishes be known to your family, that is now a legel consent and the family cannot in law override that decision. However the law also states that if the family are reall against it then it may be inappropriate to preceed with are mixed feelings even in the transplant community about an "opt out" system. I believe the system we have would work well with better resourcing!
The organ shortage has been a priority for the DOH and they have just fully accepted 14 recommendations that they hope would see a 50% rise in the amount of transplants over the next 10 years.
I know how much comfort a bereaved family get when they recieve feedback about how many lives have been saved or changed when a loved one has sadly become a donor. It is also easier when the decsion has been made by the deceased and they don't have to make that choice when asked.
There is also the huge impact that transplantation has on the lifes of recipients and their families.
I do believe in choice; and for whatever reason you don't like the idea of or don't agree with donation, that is fine.
You have to die in a specific way to donate organs such as heart, lungs, liver, kidneys and pancreas but many many people who have a "normal" death can donate tissues such as corneas, skin and heart valves and there is no upper age limit for donating eyes.
People have many misconceptions about their own abilty or suitability to donate organs so then don't think it worth registering. Lungs are taken from some smokers, livers are taken from some drinkers- our bodies are amazing and these organs do recover when transplanted.
So I will get off my soap box and finish by urging those who support donation to register on the Organ Donor Register and most imprtantly discuss your wishes with your family. As a society, we are bad about discussing death especially our own! But it is the one thing we are all assured of!!
Here is another website of interest about a young girl who sadly became a donor (you will need tissues!)

If anyone has questions and I can answer I will
Flirty xxxxx

:thumbup: great post.
The bit I had highlighted in bold was something that I wasn't sure about so you have cleared that up for me. smile .
I think the penalties for dangerous driving are way to soft. Killing someone through reckless or dangerous driving in my opinion should be treated as manslaughter!.
Giving someone points, fines and a ban is quite simply not a strong enough punishment.
I also agree that once convicted the driver should be banned for life! however I understand that this is just not totally enforcable as the traffic cops are becoming far and few between.
I know someone who killed a young lad on a push bike. The lad didn't have any lights on or reflectors. It wasn't the drivers fault, yet it completly destroyed his life and he never drove again, he could not forgive himself even tho he had in effect don't nothing wrong it was an accident nothing more. Very sad for all involved.
Quote by Sexysmilingeyes
becuase usually when someone goes against the grain its what happens - seen it loads of times
But ok, some of my reasons -
Like the other ladys mom, I feel I came into this world whole and I want to leave it that way.
I understand that we now have to knowledge to improve and extend peoples lives but I think swopping / adding new body parts is too far ... its not like one swop and its all sorted, people have to take tablets forever then to stop it rejecting and many have to have another transplant later in life. For me personally if I was the 'knackered' and I use that term loosely (not wanting to offend anyone) then I dont want to keep being repaired, I'd much rather enjoy what I had for the time I had.
I just think we are not all born equal, with the given right to live X amount of years - if we keep extending and prolonging life like we are we will be never die at this rate - which I know some think great, but we need to think of the bigger picture, like the quality of life.
Hope it explains a little of what I think

Thankyou for sharing your thoughts. I do hope no-one comes on and berates you for your opinion. Although I fully agree with organ donation I would never belittle anyone else for their choice or reasonings.