Quote by winchwench
I like single menLots
In fact if I ever organise a social I'm only going to let single guys come.
Oh, and me of course
I thinks that a little greedy!
can I come and share :giggle:.
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Quote by jaymar
I was just wondering if there is any other way of surpressing periods/puberty without having to undergo a hysterectomy?.
Don't know about puberty but if you take the Pill continuously you don't bleed do you? That might be a possibility, although I'd imagine they've discussed that with the doctors.
Yes I think there's an injection that stops you bleeding indefinitely.
Maybe the mother has already explored all the avenues of taking medication to suppress the periods, I just think if it an option its got to be worth a try before the daughter undergoing major surgery!
Quote by winchwench
hi all
we have a daughter with cerebal palsy and we have often wondered what we are going 2 do this is a very hard situation 2 be in has we want the best for our daughter like the mother in question our daughter would never know the facts of life and would not understand what is happening to her body,but in the same mind we are not sure if it is the right path 2 go down
janenjohn
Hi guys, thanks for adding your thoughts to what must be a tough thread for you, and :welcome: to SH
Just wanted to echo what winchwench said.
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and :welcome: to the site and the forums. I hope you find what you are looking for.Quote by JTS
You would be much better-off advertising in Lets Meet UP.
That way you can check that the couple IS a couple, since so many "couples" on 'Dogging' are single males.
Most of the known dogging sites are visited, on a regular basis, by an endless stream of cars.
Oh, and just because it's dark doesn't mean you won't be seen....watch out for the red lights ! ! ! ! !
This is not to knock Bedfordshire, there are some nice places....but it'll be the early hours before the tourists give up.
I might be wrong but I think you can only advertise for dogging meets in the dogging forum. If you posted for a dogging meet in the LMU a mod would most probably move it here!.
Quote by jaymar
I love watching a fella cum, for some inexplicable reason I find it intensly horny
glad Im not the only one missy....always thought i was a bit odd
same here
but... I've stopped watching the cams as much because on the very rare occasion I was watching a man playing I was hit with whispers... "do you like?" or "talk to me, make me cum" grrrr I just want to be naughty and watch
Me too! I love watching a man cum :twisted: I couldnt explain why tho!
Quote by jaymar
I'm a bit unsure of this one.. does having cerebal palsey mean you cannot bear a child?
I personally think these operations should only be performed if the persons own personal health is at risk if they become pregnant for example. As to having periods isn't that just an inconvenience or is the mother worried she'l fall pregnant?
There's huge ethical debates on parents requesting operations like this one and also sterilisation for children with learning difficulties.
I don`t think the condition would stop you from having a child but I would guess that if she was to become pregnant it would be an extreamly difficult time and I would guess that depending on how severe the cerebal palsy was it would be extreamly difficult to raise a child. (is that what you meant or have I read it wrong?
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Where did my post go? :shock:
I posted it in the lmu by accident
it is in there. :lol2:Ahhhhh maybe a mod will merge them later then.
Alternatively, I could delete it if anyone objects to it.
I was going to delete my post in there but didnt want to as you had posted on it already.
Quote by Bonedigger
This is a link to a site with a thread on about cheap brands actually being the same as the expensive stuff but just in a cheap product package. All from people in the know such as the factory workers, engineers etc.
(if its not allowed, please feel free to delete my post)
for example
Bourjois make up is made by Chanel (and is a lot cheaper)
The cheap electrical brand Aiwa, is all made by Sony
Asda noodles are made in the same factory as sharwoods
Clarins make the M&S skincare range. Face wash, Clarins , M&S
now the thread is 45 pages long, but if it can save you money, its well worth book marking and reading at your leisure. It covers food, drinks, electricals, cars etc.
Hope it helps some of you save some penneis.....and remember when you are rolling in dosh from saving all this money....it was Mrs B who helped so send some cash her way lmao
I think you will be very surprised by how many cosmetic/skincare companies manufacture more than one brand.
Loreal make lancome.
estee lauder make clinique and bobby brown amongst others.
I would say tho that the cheaper brand cosmetics arn`t always as good just because they are made by a company which manufactures a premium cosmetic.
I also know that Nurofen is made by boots.
Quote by sleazy
i was once involved in a mmf 3 sum, at the end of it we were spit roasting this lovely lady who had ' instructed' me to cum on her arse when i was ready.
To this day i have never done it again but what transpired was this....
i reached the point were i knew it was inevitable, pulled out of her, gripped the bottom of my cock tightly to prevent myself cumming, pulled my condom off with the other hand then let go of my cock.
i missed her arse completly, in fact 'it' cleared her totally and smacked her poor husband in the face. I was so embaressed he was totally unipressed and she fell about in fits of laughter....
surprisingly i have never been asked back there lol
.I think that is totally hilarious.
Quote by sleazy
my wife admitted it to her mother once.
We used to meet a couple regularly and play seperatley, her mother confronted her by saying that she had been seen in a pub kissing another man. Straight away my wife said, yes we are swingers while i was in the pub (sleazy) was at home shagging his wife. Her mothers responce.........
"Look if ya not going to be serious I ain't even talking to you"
who says honesty don't pay lol
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
No-one else knows that we swing. I have been tempted tho to tell friends etc but have always bottled it
We had a meet when I was quite early pregnant with our second.
I don`t think I would do it again, I felt very consious of the fact that I was pregnant and very protective of my belly.
Once the action got going I also found it quite difficult to fully relax.
But each to their own its just not for us.
I don`t think I would do it again, I felt very consious of the fact that I was pregnant and very protective of my belly.
Once the action got going I also found it quite difficult to fully relax.
But each to their own its just not for us.
The above link is a story in the news where a mother has asked doctors to preform a hysterectomy on her 15 year old daughter who has cerebral palsy. The doctors are seeking legal permission as the girl cannot give consent. Im the first to admit that I don`t know anything about this condition other than it is a life long condition.
The daughters mother is requesting the hysterectomy so that her daughter doesn`t have to go through periods and all thats comes with it.
From what I have read in the article the daughter cannot speak for herself or make her own decisions. Im guessing that the mother would have to assist her daughter in using the toilet so would therefor be the one who "deals" with the periods (in the hygine sense).
Im a little split on what I think about it all, I can see where the mother is coming from in that periods are not pleasent, for anyone so I would imagine it would be a whole lot worse if you couldn`t clean your self of say how you were feeling. But I also know that having a hysterectomy is a huge opperation with a lenghty recovery time.
Another part of me feels that the mother has cared for her child for 15 years and would only be doing what she thought was best for daughter. Im sure the mother hasn`t taken the decision lightly.
It doesn`t say in the article what type of cerebal palsy the daughter has but here is a link that tells you about the condition.
Anyway if you can understand my ramblings, what are your thoughts?.
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Anais thanks for sharing your experience 
. I think its very easy for people myself included to sit and say I would do this or I would do that, however until you are faced with the situation you don`t really know what you would do. I guess you would just do what you felt was right at the time.
. I think its very easy for people myself included to sit and say I would do this or I would do that, however until you are faced with the situation you don`t really know what you would do. I guess you would just do what you felt was right at the time. Interesting topic Lost :thumbup: .
Even though legally I know that men don`t have a right as to wether a lady terminates a pregnancy or not, morally its another question entirely.
In an ideal world it would be a joint decision but unfortunatly we don`t live in an ideal world.
Its the females mind and body that has to go through pregnancy and birth and any woman will tell you it can be a rollacoaster of emotions. Its tough being pregnant and I would imagine a female being forced to go ahead with a pregnancy because of a court order (I don`t know if it would ever happen but just trying to imagine if it did) could end up mentaly scared and possibly even try to harm herself and the unborn child. Possibly trying to self abort in extream circumstances. Should that be allowed because another person has wanted the child?.
I would feel desparetly sad for any male who has really wanted the child but their wife/partner/whatever has decided terminate. But I would feel equally sad if the male didn`t want the baby and the female did.
Unfortunatly tho I think the final decision has to lie with the female although I would hope she would discuss and consider the males feelings before making any final decisions.
I guess tho its never a black and white subject and I don`t believe (most) women take the decision lightly.
Even though legally I know that men don`t have a right as to wether a lady terminates a pregnancy or not, morally its another question entirely.
In an ideal world it would be a joint decision but unfortunatly we don`t live in an ideal world.
Its the females mind and body that has to go through pregnancy and birth and any woman will tell you it can be a rollacoaster of emotions. Its tough being pregnant and I would imagine a female being forced to go ahead with a pregnancy because of a court order (I don`t know if it would ever happen but just trying to imagine if it did) could end up mentaly scared and possibly even try to harm herself and the unborn child. Possibly trying to self abort in extream circumstances. Should that be allowed because another person has wanted the child?.
I would feel desparetly sad for any male who has really wanted the child but their wife/partner/whatever has decided terminate. But I would feel equally sad if the male didn`t want the baby and the female did.
Unfortunatly tho I think the final decision has to lie with the female although I would hope she would discuss and consider the males feelings before making any final decisions.
I guess tho its never a black and white subject and I don`t believe (most) women take the decision lightly.
Ohh just thought of another one I was in the school production of Joseph and his technicoloured dreamcoat. Before you get to excited I was playing the part of an Ishmiliate (sp). As I was riding my hobby horse across the stage I was so busy looking at the audiance I "rode" straight into the wall :giggle:
Glad im not the only one who has an embarassing claim to fame tho!
I was in the school production of Joseph and his technicoloured dreamcoat. Before you get to excited I was playing the part of an Ishmiliate (sp). As I was riding my hobby horse across the stage I was so busy looking at the audiance I "rode" straight into the wall :giggle:Glad im not the only one who has an embarassing claim to fame tho!
Quote by Freckledbird
I was telling someone the other day about how my daughter uses her hair straighteners to iron the collar of a particular top if she's in a hurry
Anyone got any unusual uses for everyday items?
I do that if im in a rush too!!. Cant think of anything else tho!
I would say we are more open and honest with each other about what we like and dislike sexually and also about things we would like to try.
We also have sex alot more
with each other.
I also find myself looking at men/women alot more and thinking mmmmmmmm i`d like to play with him/her :twisted: and I never really looked at anyone else in that way before we started swinging.
I`m also unsure as to what I did with my evenings before I discovered swinging heaven :shock: :lol2:.
We also have sex alot more
with each other.I also find myself looking at men/women alot more and thinking mmmmmmmm i`d like to play with him/her :twisted: and I never really looked at anyone else in that way before we started swinging.
I`m also unsure as to what I did with my evenings before I discovered swinging heaven :shock: :lol2:.
