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I went there once.

Did you like it?

in Birmingham was the best adult cinema by miles but it closed down about 2 years ago due to redevelopment.

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Just painted a wall so will need to watch it dry

Oh come on. it's not that bad! 😊

Anyone watching?

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Indeed. You only have to look in the Bi Married Chatroom to see the number of "straight" men visiting.

Add to that the number of profiles with "No single males" but the male on the profile spending a lot of time in the bi/gay rooms!

• What's your favourite sitcom of all time? Mine has to be Two Doors Down.

When you hear the word swingers, what springs to mind? For me it is always Donald and Jacqueline from "Benidorm".

Uncut is so much better.

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I'm not sure why you think that the beach is 95% Gay. Kiosk 6 is the LGBTQ+ area but Kiosks 7 and 3 are definitely heterosexual. (I think I've got my kiosk numbers correct!).

I did not say the beach was 95% Gay, I said the nudist beach was 95% Gay based on my experience of being there every year.

I think one has to bear in mind that not everyone who is listed as straight is actually straight!

The nudist area in Maspalomas beach is about 95% Gay so not sure it would be what you are looking for.

Simply because Gay sex is so much easier/hassle free in that you can meet someone, have sex and both go your separate ways. This does not happen in the straight world. According to my straight male friends getting sex usually involves buying drinks, dinner, listening to someone's life story and a load of abusive texts if you decide not to see them again and the alternative is paying a sex worker which is equally dreary.

The Pianist, a simply brilliant film.

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Is that your superpower? Being able to determine someone's sexual preferences irrespective of what they say just by looking at them?

No, from chatting to them in the chatroom.

Not sure about that but a lot of guys on this site who are listed on their profile as "straight" are at least bi.

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Well theres a surprise, I've just logged on and headed for chat and bingo its all up and running ...

Still a blank page for me. May I ask what browser you are using?

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It works on Firefox, but then you cant use cameras (long known problem), some say it works on Chrome, it doesn't work on Msoft Edge without a huge amount of fiddling about ... so must be some kind of scripting problem I would think. At this rate therte will be a a huge outgoing of members unless admin pull their fingers out ......

I'm on Chrome and it's not working for me.

Quote by Quietly_Kinky

I think there's an element of a vicious circle there. Some single men act like idiots, single women and couples start ignoring all single men to cope and more single men start being pushy or just speaking in haste instead of thinking about the best approach, and the wheel just keeps on spinning. I don't know that there's a solution.

Then again I have lost count of the number of times I have been contacted by the male half of a couple who have "no single males" on their profile and I am very much single, male and gay.

Really annoying, has been like that since all day.

Have been unable to access the chatroom since yesterday. I just get a blank page with no explanation of what is happening.

The male toilets for a few reasons. They are usually less busy, usually cleaner and no matter how one is dressed one is still a man.

Quote by samlxmas

Being on chat can be EXHAUSTING. We’ve made it clear in our profile we’re not interested in single men and yet 99% don’t have the decency to read/check this before bombarding with messages so admittedly I tend to just ignore them as it’s not worth my energy

Then again I have had many chat requests from the male half of a couple and when I look at their profile have seen "no single males". As such I have come to the conclusion that if said male is online alone then he is more than happy to converse with the "dreaded" single male.

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Yes. It is just a matter of the right circumstances.

I totally agree! Many men will say never in the presence of their wife/girlfriend but on their own it's a totally different story.

I suppose I do cross dress as I love wearing nylons/tights but I have never understood why straight men cross dress as the vast majority of women find it a complete turn off. Then there is the problem of "hiding" things, think about it, if you were to tell your wife/gf what she could and could not wear there would be war!

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Does anyone find it a bit odd to be blocked by someone who you've never interacted with?? In my home screen, where you can see who has visited your profile, I clicked to return the view only to find I'm blocked and warned against harassment.

Seems a little harsh, especially since I don't recall having visited them first! Some people are strange.

Of course it's strange! I can totally see why someone would block someone else if there had been unwanted messages etc but to block someone for just looking at your profile, especially when they looked at yours first is simply a lack of manners/breeding.

I hate having my nipples touched, it's a total turn off for me.

For me it would have to be dressing gowns, people in bed looking as if they are waiting to be seen by a doctor and shocking decor ie net curtains, grubby sofas, Argos "wall art" and dogs wandering around.

Nylons.

Could you please point out where I was making "excuses" for anything. I can only assume you have misread or misunderstood my post.

I think "bi" and "bi curious" are just rather silly terms. I do not believe that it is possible to be both emotionally and sexually attracted to both sexes. As someone has already pointed out there are not many (if any at all) gay men who are "bi curious" I have never encountered any. I think the best description of "bi" is, the gay waiting room!